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Princess Dizon

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Husband to see a Urologist
« on: February 29, 2012, 10:48:09 am »

Hi Mommys & Daddys

Please help me to encourage my husband to go to urologist , :(  Worried na kasi ako sa kalagayan niya . My maliit kasi sya na bukol on his toot (Alam nyo naman kung ano yung db?) and pag palaging nabubunggo dumudugo talaga sya , Ang akala ko lang pigsa yun hanggang sa tumagal na almost 1 month na nga , At ang ikinagagalit ko tlaga pinag wawalang bahala niya iyon kesyo sasabihin niya na kung mamatay , mamatay na naiinis ako sa dialogue niya na yun , Nag search ako sa internet and nakita ko my mga gnung cases na lumalala tulad nung cyst and etc. Natatakot ako pra sa husband ko pero hindi ko talaga sya maconvince dahil wala daw money eh my pambili naman sya ng mga gadgets niya , Pra sa akin wala syang pag mamalasakit sa sarili niya hindi niya iniisip na kung magkakasakit sya paano na kami lalu na ang baby namin . Sana ordinaryong bukol lang yun pero sa tingin ko kelangan talagang magpa consult sa urologist para malaman na namin kung ano talaga yung bukol na yun .

Sana matulungan nyo ko mga SP Moms & Dads.

TIA !
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Re: How to convince my husband to go to Urologist?
« Reply #1 on: February 29, 2012, 11:15:13 am »

Ang mga lalaki takot sa doctor. Di ko rin maintindihan kasi yung asawa ko pag APE nila uma-absent.

Regarding sa asawa mo, tanungin mo siya kung kaya niyang isagot yan sa anak ninyo.
Wag mong daanin lang sa galit, use a caring voice although I know how difficult that is.

Ask him kung gusto niya hindi mo na lang siya pakikialam. And then re-assure him na andiyan ka to look after him.
Wag ka mag-draw ng mga pangit na complications sa kanya, just tell him to have it checked para mawala yung inaalala niya. Takot yun kaya ayaw pumunta ng doctor so better if you put a brave face.
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Re: How to convince my husband to go to Urologist?
« Reply #2 on: February 29, 2012, 11:48:00 am »

@Mommy France
Minsan kasi pag kakausapin ko sya tungkol sa sitwasyon niya lagi akong nagagalit , Siguro pasyensya ang kelangan at makukubinsi ko rin sya . Hindi lang takot ang asawa ko sa doctor ayaw rin niya pumasok sa hospital hindi ko rin alam kung bakit . Nag woworry talaga ako sa kanya kaya minamadali ko syang mag pa check-up matagal na rin kasi yun eh ,
Hay naku sana maconvince ko siya  :-\
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Re: How to convince my husband to go to Urologist?
« Reply #3 on: February 29, 2012, 01:58:25 pm »

sis if okay lang are you ruling out STD? sorry medyo harsh man pero if you think na yun nga yun maybe dapat 2 kayo magpatingin. meron namang nga clinics na discreet with this cases eh. kelan ba nagstart yung bump? and panu niya nakuha yun?

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Re: How to convince my husband to go to Urologist?
« Reply #4 on: March 01, 2012, 10:21:40 pm »

@mommy_geli
Hindi po yun yung iniisip ko kasi kung STD yung bump ng husband ko instead na dugo yung lumabas eh dapat pus yun , Eh yung sa husband ko naman blood talaga yun .

Finally ng pa consult na yung husband ko and sabi ng urologist pigsa daw sya ,simula kasi ng nabunggo ni baby yung bump ng husband ko tuloy tuloy yung pag dugo at few days later okey na yung bump lumiliit na and hindi na masakit sa ngayon my oitment syang gingamit para mag visible na yung bump ng husband ko

Thanks :)
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Re: How to convince my husband to go to Urologist?
« Reply #5 on: March 06, 2012, 01:54:52 pm »

ok sis. sorry if na-offend kita.

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Re: How to convince my husband to go to Urologist?
« Reply #6 on: March 06, 2012, 03:21:40 pm »

It's okey sis :)
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Re: How to convince my husband to go to Urologist?
« Reply #7 on: March 07, 2012, 04:56:02 pm »

I hope your husband feels better na. Mabuti at nagpa-check up din siya.
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Urologist on weekends in pasig or near
« Reply #8 on: July 07, 2012, 10:46:40 am »

Mommies my husband had this discharge na hindi normal,ilang days na din kahit nagteteake sya ng dati nyang meds,sa pagkakaalam kasi namen,UTI infections yun kaya ngtetake xe ng dating meds na reseta sa kanya but mg1week na din hndi pa din sya gumagaling,hindi naman sya mkapgleave sa work kaya sunday lang talaga sya available or any day bsta after 6pm na,kung may lam kayong urologist dr. here in pasig na merong check ups ng sunday recommend nyo naman sken. Your recommendations and replies will really help  :-[
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