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mommyjanice

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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #30 on: April 25, 2012, 03:47:26 pm »

Simple lang sagot ko nyan-Kasi kaylangan talaga....

Ang hirap pag sya lang ang magwork sa amin..Di niya kaya lahat kasi di naman kataasan sahod niya,and the same time,mas strong personality ko at mas madiskarte ako sa buhay...

Asawa ko na din nagsabi, "tiisin mo kung ano kaya kong ibigay.. Hindi ako nangako sayo sa simula pa lang'

At syempre,mataas din pangarap ko sa buhay..As in sabay sabay gastos namin dati.Nagpakasal kami, nagloan kami ng bahay, nanganak ko, nagkasakit anak ko, etc...kaya kung di ako nagwowork, sa kangkungan kami pupulutin..

Sa panahon ngayon, iba na ang praktikal...Napakahirap man magtrabaho at mapalayo sa anak,pero kailangan...Kailangang kailangan........
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #31 on: May 07, 2012, 10:30:41 pm »

1.  financial independence
2.  self - esteem
3.  to de-stress from household responsibilities
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #32 on: May 09, 2012, 07:14:07 am »

1.  financial independence
2.  self - esteem
3.  to de-stress from household responsibilities


Sis marian! These are (exactly) the reasons why i want to go back to work! :) la lang. Natuwa lang po ;)
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #33 on: May 10, 2012, 12:35:18 am »

I work so I can provide my child with what he needs and also for my own fulfillment. :)
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #34 on: May 10, 2012, 03:02:51 am »

Rason ko ngayon, nagiipon ako para sa tuition fee ng anak ko :)
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #35 on: May 10, 2012, 01:19:06 pm »

kasi kaya ko atsaka kailangan..
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #36 on: May 18, 2012, 09:27:07 pm »

I really want to quit my job now. Una dahil sa rude attitudes ng lead ko na pinag iinitan ako. 2nd is dahil nasubukan kong umabsent ng walang reason.... that day I fill fulfilled na naalagaan ko ng sobra sobra ang mga anak ko. Dun ko nalaman na marami pala akong pagkukulang sa kanila bilang nanay nila. Pero lagi pinapaalala ng mama ko na kailangan ko din magplano sa future nila. Tinanong ko na din partner ko, kaso di daw niya kaya mag isa. Mahirap lang din kasi yung sitwasyon na gusto mo ibigay yung best sa mga anak mo pero dahil sa pag iisip mo sa future nila di mo na sila naaalagaan ng husto in present. Masakit lalo na iiyakan nila ako kada papasok ako ng office at iiwan sila sa mama ko.

Reasons ko:
1. For my kids future (education, own house, financial freedom)
2. To have my own money to buy what I want to buy for me or for someone else
3. I'm the breadwinner of my family
4. Chance to improve your knowledge and have social life (meet other people and explore different places - atleast di ka lang sa bahay)
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #37 on: June 26, 2012, 12:29:16 pm »

i love to work kahit ano pa yan. mas enjoy ako sa opisina not that i don't want to be stay at home mom pero feeling ko kasi na may calling talaga sakin na magwork plus factor is that I want to earn my own money at ayokong umasa sa iba.
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #38 on: June 26, 2012, 12:55:14 pm »

Reasons:

1. Sayang yung educational background ko at professional license ko kung di ko naman gagamitin.
2. I have a hunger to learn something new everyday.
3. I have to earn for financial stability
4. I want to meet other people (I doubt magagawa ko ito kung nasa bahay lang ako, don't get me wrong..this is a social need)
5. I love what I do.  ;D Syempre may mga conflicts talaga sa work. Pero ganun talaga.
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #39 on: June 26, 2012, 03:34:07 pm »

1. Kailangan ng financial support ng anak ko
2. Ayoko malosyang  ;) for sure pag nasa house lang ako tatamarin ako mag ayos .  :)
3. Nag eenjoy ako sa mga kasama ko sa office and sa trabaho ko.
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #40 on: June 27, 2012, 10:55:36 am »

kung ako talaga papipiliin mas gusto ko sa bahay lang para maalagaan ko ng maayos yung anak ko and matutukan ko talaga sya.. but katulad ng ibang mommies hindi din talaga kaya..

-sa ngayon hindi pa kaya ng sweldo ni hubby yung mga expenses namin. napakadaming kelangan ng bata at kung yung sweldo lang niya yung aasahan namin baka hindi na ko makabili ng mga gusto ko para sa anak ko. syempre tayong mga mommies we want the best things for our babies. and baka hindi din kami makapagsave dahil wala ng matitira. ang hirap pa naman pag walang savings lalo na pag emergency cases and para na din sa future ni baby.

pero ngayon maayos na work ni hubby, sana talaga mapromote na sya para makapagresign nako dahil for sure magiging kasya na yung sweldo niya and sobra pa. :D
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #41 on: June 27, 2012, 12:27:05 pm »

Hi! i worked before sa province as csr. dahil provincial rate lang talaga maaasahan ko dun nakipagsapalaran kami ng anak ko dito sa maynila. mahirap talaga ang walang work. lalo na kung single parent, wala ng mahihingan ng tulong, at so messed up ang life.
undergraduate kasi ako. since i had my baby when i was 19 y/o. sayang ang napakalaking ginastos sa pagaaral ko dahil lang nagloko ako, BSN pa naman, but i never regret having my son.
sa ngayon im a sahm but i plan to find work pag may mahanap na akong nmagaalaga sa anak ko. hindi talaga ako makaalis alis ng bahay kasi walang ibang mapag-iiwanan.
im still young, so basically nangangapa ako sa life, but i already learned a lot from past experiences.
And also! mag-aaral pa ako someday soon. hopefully. (fingers-crossed)

i have so much plan for my kid. for our future. kulang na lang ilista ko sa notebook lahat.
thanks for this thread, nakak-inspire talaga.  ;D
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #42 on: June 30, 2012, 02:05:37 am »

^Awww, kaya mo yan sis lalo na ngayon at may inspiration ka na, yung baby mo :)
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #43 on: June 30, 2012, 08:29:03 am »

to Blake, yes sis kaya mo yan hindi bangon kapatid. hehe no matter andito lang kaming mga SP moms to listen to you.

sis swtgrl_bee  yes sis, im sure inspired super si Blake kasi me little kiddo na sya. GO lang ng GO and if ever madapa ulit, hala bangon at bangon na naman.

ooppss..heto yong answers ko sa thread.

I want to live both worlds for myself. Call it selfish pero I want to have a carreer and see my daughter's milestones too.
kaya nag homebased ako. medyo critical and risky ang field pero i love risks, it keeps me on my toe's and hindi ako na bore. 6years sa office is enough for me never to go back there.

financially  kaya ni hubby tustusan lahat ng needs namin ni baby, pero hindi enough for a retirement savings, education fund and medical and sickness funds kaya work work work.

emotionally, im so grumpy if wala akong ginagawa. I love playing with my kiddo pero it has its downtime din. i have big time left sa days and mostly i cant sleep at night kaya work work work.

social life, ok lang if wala ako. I can still see many work at home moms like me...we mingle while waiting for the 2hours class ng anak namin. yon ang social life namin from monday to friday. lol

and personally, I'll die if wala akong matutunan na bago everyday or everyweek. so bored naku ewan nalang. as long as i am happy in what  i do and i can take care of our daughter while hubby works overseas. he is ok with me working hard too. its for the future din naman to. better merong plan B and C incase failure si plan A.
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #44 on: June 30, 2012, 11:18:48 am »

I been SAHM for 2 months, not that I hate it but I miss working and it kills me so! as in!

1. not just to work and earn, but to be financially fulfilled on rainy days & save for the future of my megan
2. getting things i want for me & my baby nang hindi galing kay husby.
3. the adventure I am in.. the rush, the stress..- WORKAHOLIC kase ako..
4. yun may kinikita kang sariling pera, yun lang..

pero I love my family so much kaya ginagawa ko 'to for them!  :)
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