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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #45 on: June 30, 2012, 07:59:46 pm »

Hi chococream & swtgrl_bee!  ;D
Super inspired talaga ako. I'm thinking na gagawin ko lahat to (my plans) not just for me but for my kid also.
Kahit hanggang plans pa lang ako ngayon dahil hindi ako makalabas labas ng house super excited pa rin ako ng sobra to start. Go lang talaga ng Go. Kaya natin lahat to. Always positive thinking na lang.
sa ngayon tambay na muna dito sa SP. kaka-inspire magbasa ng mga thread at mag-share din.
Life is short. Sky's the limit dapat pagdating sa plans. Importante magawa lahat. Pray!

sana yumaman tayo ng bonggang bongga! wee.
 
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« Reply #46 on: June 30, 2012, 09:04:08 pm »

bonus na sa akin yang yumaman sis, ang akin is as long as healthy si hubby and si baby and continue lang an focus si hubby sa plans namin then i am happy with what i have.  :) :) :) :)
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« Reply #47 on: August 10, 2012, 10:24:41 am »

Isa sa mga usapan namen ng asawa ko this week was how he'd like me to stay at home kapag malaki na yung sweldo niya to sustain our dream family.

Then he asked me "okay lang ba sa'yo?".
I promptly said "No."
Sindundan niya ng "Don't you want to spend more time with Miggy?"
I said "Of course... you don't even have to ask that"
Tanong nanaman "Then why don't you want to stay at home?"

Tsaka ko na ipinaliwanag sa kanya how I see myself being a working mom. I know it's our family and habang pinapaliwanag ko sa kanya I feel guilty. Sabe ko naman this is what I feel now. Malay niya pag dumating na yung panahon na hinihintay niya at kaya na namen ng siya lang yung working baka naman kaya ko na ring mag-stay sa bahay.

I'm glad we had that conversation. At least alam niya what my aspirations are.
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« Reply #48 on: July 27, 2013, 07:09:45 am »

How my Work Makes me a Better Mom

"While motherhood completes me, I have always felt that a woman needs to maintain her sense of self and identity by continuing to do things that she loves outside of her role as a mother. "
- Amanda Griffin-Jacob


How about you, mom? How does your job make you a better mother? Post a comment below this linked page:
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parenting/pinoy-parenting/how-my-work-makes-me-a-better-mom

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« Reply #49 on: August 16, 2013, 04:20:18 am »

We can't afford that there's only one from us who's working. Kahit nga pareho kami nagwo work, dahil mataas na lahat ngayon and my son's going to school already, i have a part time job pa in order to sustain our needs. We live from my in laws house pero malaki parin gastos. it's because malaki naman ang share namin monthly. We give them PhP6,000.00 plus malayo pa yung house nila sa work namin. We spent PhP9000.00 for the fare allowance and fare every month. Giving a chance, if kaya naman na si Hubby lang mag work, I really want to be a hands on Mom 24/7.
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« Reply #50 on: August 16, 2013, 08:33:45 am »

I'm a working mom because ever since I really want to be a successful career woman.
But when I had a child I want to stay at home na lang and take good care of my son,
but since I'm a single mom I'm oblige to work so I can provide the needs of my child.
My parents do help me pero di ko naman pwede iasa sa kanila lahat and di natin masasabi
darating ang time na mawawala sila (wag naman muna), maiiwan na lang kami ng baby ko
and I will be the one responsible na lang for his needs so as early as now kailangan ko na
talagang magsikap ng todo para makapag ipon for the future lalo na marami talagang
pangangailan ang mga anak natin . :) :)
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« Reply #51 on: October 15, 2013, 02:13:29 am »

Simply because of money.. that's why I'm also in this league :)
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« Reply #52 on: October 15, 2013, 07:21:44 am »

money matters :)
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Re: Reasons/Things Why You Are A Working Mom
« Reply #53 on: November 07, 2013, 09:18:07 am »

1. To keep my mind working/to keep my sanity (afraid na baka mabobo ako - have been with work ever since I graduated)
2. To support the expenses of my kids (I have 3 kids, 2 of them has mild ASD) and all 3 kids are already schooling
3. Not meant to be a SAHM.  I feel drained at home.
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« Reply #54 on: November 07, 2013, 09:23:25 am »

Hi mga Sis...I am working eversince to sustain the needs of my family...until today na may sarili na akong family eto pa rin ang reason...before it was my way of saying Thank You to my parents sa lahat ng sacrifices nila para lang makatapos ako...Di naman natin mababayaran ang mga yun sa kanila so for me parang nagtthank you na lang ako..Ngayon naman na may family na ako, may isang baby I still continue working for her future naman just like what my parents did to me...
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« Reply #55 on: September 19, 2014, 01:09:42 am »

i'm a working mom because,

- we have a lot of financial plans so both of us ni hubby needs to work (plans: house, car, church wedding, educational plan ni baby, etc)
- i wanted to earn for my own fulfillment, that i'm doing something worthwile
- to continue to grow myself, learn new things, and do what i love to do
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« Reply #56 on: September 24, 2014, 08:42:42 pm »

I'm a working mom because it's in my system already. I just can't stay at home.
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« Reply #57 on: February 20, 2015, 09:58:25 pm »

Soon to be mommy pa lang ako and how I wish that I could stay atleast 1 year sa bahay to take care of our baby. Unfortunately hindi pwede at nganga kami kapag hubby ko lang nagwork considering na may hinuhulugan pa kaming bahay and I still need to support my family. Pero kahit maging capable pa ang hubby ko na suportahan lahat ng needs namin, mas gusto ko pa rin magwork for the ff. reasons:

1. Financial independence - syempre may mga gusto din akong bilhin for myself at ayokong hingiin yun from my husband. Saka as I've said earlier, sinusuportahan ko din ang family ko. Though mom ko lang naman, medyo malaki din ang need kong ibigay monthly kasi wala siyang work at wala pa siyang pension. So lahat ng bills sa bahay sa province pati food nila at ng mga dogs namin, ako. Nakakahiya naman na humingi ako sa husband ko.

2. I want to finish my master's degree - nahinto ako due to my pregnancy. Sayang nga kasi malapit ko ng matapos pero ok. Lang. Need kong mag-ipon para dito. Sinimulan ko na eh, kaya tatapusin ko. Hehe! I doubt na pag-aaralin ako ng husband ko. Kaya if I still need to have an extra job, aside sa current work ko why not? :)

3. Fear of not being able to provide for our child - maraming uncertainties na pwedeng mangyari. What if mawalan ng work si hubby or what di ba? Mas maganda na yung tulungan kami. Saka ayokong maranasan ng magiging anak namin ang mga naexperience ko noon. I want to give the best for our child.
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« Reply #58 on: March 23, 2015, 02:06:47 pm »

When I was still working, I am confident to say that my reasons for working is not ONLY to provide for my son but to also treat myself once in awhile. I dont know, pero sa totoo lang kung may naipon man ako sa salary ko naibigay ko lang din sa anak ko or part of it went to my parents (atleast)

Financially dependent ako nun. And it felt really fulfilling deep inside. It sucks that there are times I feel I neglect my son kasi lagi akong wala or magkikita lang kami 3-4hrs a day pero we need to be STRONG.

Sabi nga ng daddy ko, kailangan ko daw maging matatag. Wag ka dumepende sa asawa mo. Mas maganda nang maging handa ka. And it really felt great kahit gustong gusto kong tutukan si baby :)

I hope, YOU WILL BE STRONG. Don't forget to talk to Him about it. It makes a difference.
I can't wait to work once again. Kinakalawang utak ko plus nananaba na ako :|
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« Reply #59 on: April 07, 2015, 09:43:32 pm »

Basta ako nung full time working mom pa ako, member ako ng Club 501 o yung pagpatak ng alas singko palang gorabels na:

http://happypinaymommy.com/2014/03/29/club-501/
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