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Mommy France

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Re: Bakit ba hindi matahimik ang New Wife ni Ex-Husband?
« Reply #15 on: June 17, 2012, 07:48:37 pm »

The greatest answer talaga sa mga taong ganyan ay i-ignore whatever attempts they make for you to feel bad.
That's what they want to see kaya kapag pinapakita mong affected ka, the more na dadami yang nare-receive mong messages.

Kung nagsasalita siya ng masama about your child, as long as hindi nakakarating sa anak mo, don't mind her.
Iba yung sasaktan niya yung anak mo. Words are powerful depending on how you take it.
It would matter more to your child if you don't get affected because she will realize that whatever people may say about her, it will never define her.

Pray for her na lang. That she finds peace and contentment in her life.
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Re: Bakit ba hindi matahimik ang New Wife ni Ex-Husband?
« Reply #16 on: August 10, 2012, 03:37:03 pm »

My officemate akong ganyan...Second wife siya nung lalake pero siya 'yung pinakasalan. May anak din sa una 'yung lalake at may anak na din sila ng officemate ko. Ang ginawa ni officemate hindi sa FB. Ti.next niya ıyung asawa mismo nung ex-wifey ng hubby niya at sinabihang. "Ako ang tunay na asawa dahil ako ang pinakasalan". Ngayon sa inis nung ex-wifey ni hubby tumawag siya sa MIL niya (mother nung ex-hubby niya) at sinumbong ang mga kalukaretan nung new-wife ni ex-hubby. Ayun pinagalitan si new-wifey tapos sinabi din ni MIL sa ex-hubby niya 'yung mga messages na sine.send kay ex.wifey. Insecurities 'yan kasi kitang.kita sa officemate ko 'yan. As in grabe. Napa.kwento naman ako.

Try to contact your ex-hubby at sabihin mo ıyung mga pinaggagagawa ni new-wifey @ sa FB matters naman if kaya mo siya awayin sa www  eh di go pero kung hindi naman try to change na lang your name para hindi ka na niya makita pa. Mamatay siya sa insecurities.
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Re: Bakit ba hindi matahimik ang New Wife ni Ex-Husband?
« Reply #17 on: August 30, 2012, 08:35:20 am »

you may talk to your ex, or not ---- depende sa yo. kapag nagsumbong ka, may bagong sasabihin lang si present girl para i-attack ka. better talk to your inlaws na lang, or be your normal self and focus on your child and his/her relationship with the grandparents. may reservations ka about talking to your husband, so call mo to.

basta, tama si mommy france, focus and get the best for your child. itong si girlaloo mamatay sa inggit, ganito na lang lagi. kahit anong gawin mo for her, kahit anong kindness mo, ganito na sya. titigilan ka lang nito kapag nakakuha ka na ng kapalit ni ex mo at di na sya threatened na baka magkabalikan kayo.
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Re: Bakit ba hindi matahimik ang New Wife ni Ex-Husband?
« Reply #18 on: September 14, 2012, 01:22:44 am »

sis Ahmira: you're doing what any educated and classy woman would do, deadma galore. :D If no communication na talaga kayo ni hubby, and even sa in-laws very minimal na lang, kinakain lang talaga ng insecurity yang si new wife. Naalala ko tuloy yung Two Wives na koreanovela. Hehe. I mean, WHY ON EARTH should she say those things about you, when non-existent na naman ang presence mo sa buhay ni ex-hubby mo? And her attacking your kid through social networking? That's so lame.  As in nakakalungkot isipin na may nanay talagang aasal ng ganun. :(

You can certainly talk to your inlaws about it, especially yung mga sinasabi niya about your baby, coz that's just foul. Pero after that, have your peace na sis, isipin mo na lang, she must be really going through something really bad for her to act like that.




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Re: Bakit ba hindi matahimik ang New Wife ni Ex-Husband?
« Reply #19 on: September 14, 2012, 04:18:15 pm »

I'm a 2nd wife too, pero hindi naman makapal ang face ko para komprontahin yung ex ni hubby kahit na alam ko the reason why the separation happened between them.

Kahit naman ganito ang disposition ko marunong naman akong rumespeto unless sya ang mauna and maginitiate ng gulo why not pero I have to coordinate first sa hubby ko lahat ng actions ko dahil ang kahihiyan ko kahihiyan din niya and ng family ko which is a BIG no no.

Baka may sapak lang talaga yung new wife and baka hindi sya secured kay hubby niya kaya ganun... Better yet sis wag mo pansinin para lalong maasar  ;D
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Re: Bakit ba hindi matahimik ang New Wife ni Ex-Husband?
« Reply #20 on: October 10, 2012, 08:20:23 pm »

It is so obvious na insecure si new wife sayo.  If hindi mo na talaga kayang ignore, talk to your ex hubby na.  Baka may maitulong siya sa situation niyo or sina ex in law, kung maayos naman ang relationship niyo.  If walang makatulong, I suggest for you to change your FB, put more security or totally erase na your profile.  Baka dahil sa kanya, ma stress pa ikaw.  It's not worth it.  :)
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Re: Bakit ba hindi matahimik ang New Wife ni Ex-Husband?
« Reply #21 on: October 10, 2012, 09:40:39 pm »

Hi sis Ahmira! It's been a few months since your post. I hope tinantanan ka na nung babaeng yun. But in my experience, it really takes a while bago tumigil yang mga ganyang types of women. In my case, I'm the 2nd wife. Si ex-wife naman ang galit na galit sakin, kahit wala akong kinalaman sa separation nila at nung naging kami ni hubby e matagal na silang hindi nagsasama.

Tumigil lang ang lola mo sa panggugulo nung nagka-bf siya about 8 years after nila maghiwalay ni hubby. All those years, di ko naman siya pinansin o pinatulan yung mga mura at paninira niya. Just ignore her, eventually magsasawa din siya. In the meantime, just try your best to protect your child from her mean words. Yun naman ang talagang below the belt, pati bata idadamay pa talaga. Nakakagigil lang.

Anyway, I really hope she has stopped already para matahimik na kayo ng anak mo.
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