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mami che

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Yaya has different religion
« on: June 15, 2012, 05:57:33 am »

My new yaya is iglesia ni cristo. 3x a day daw sila nagsasamba. I didnt know na iglesia sya. Kinuha sya sa province ng lola ko.

Pero bago pa sya nakatungtong sa house namin, nagpapaalam na sya kay mama na pupunta sa libing ng lolo niya (kapatid ng lolo niya na totoo) e medyo malayo sa amin tapos di pa niya matandaan kung saan pero madali na daw pumunta dun (to think na matagal na sya di nakakapunta dun ha) tapos madami syang alam na puntahan pero i think, hindi niya talaga alam.. parang gusto niya lang mamasyal. Kaya tuloy nasigi sa isip ko na baka gawin lang dahilan yung pagsamba niya para makaalis.

What to do mga sis? Payagan ko ba yung 3x a week? Bibigyan ko ba sya ng pamasahe for her samba kasi di pa naman sya nagsesweldo? Or mahihirapan lang ako na ikeep sya kasi marunong lumabas labas? Papauwiin ko nalang ba? Tho mukhang madali pumik-up...

Sinabi ko pala na sana 1month na wala muna syang day-off while on proby. Ok lang ba? Tho first time niya mamasukan pero sa kanya lang naman ako nag set ng rule ng ganun kasi nga feel ko e lagi syang nasa galaan.

What to do kaya?

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Re: My new yaya is iglesia...how to handle?
« Reply #1 on: June 15, 2012, 07:07:36 am »

hi sis marami ako friends na Iglesia, im not Iglesia but i use to visit their church kasi sumasama kami sa mga friends namin.

thursday and sunday ang samba nila.

they can either go thursday or sunday.. hindi naman required na 2x a week specially if you have an obligation..


maybe your yaya can choose kung kailan siya magsasamba..
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Re: My new yaya is iglesia...how to handle?
« Reply #2 on: June 15, 2012, 02:19:16 pm »

Members of the Church requires to attend worship service twice a week. that is Thursdays and Sundays but for some locales they have Wednesdays and Saturdays. Your yaya can attend the worship service at the locale near your place. It's a 1 hour worship service but consumes in an average of 2 hours together with the preparation from house going to the church. Hindi kelangan whole day off. May schedule din ang worship service. Thursdays: 5:45am and 6:45pm; Sundays: 6:45am and 3:45pm (schedule varies from locales). Your yaya just needs to choose on what time she will attend that will not interfere with her responsibilities at home.
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Re: My new yaya is iglesia...how to handle?
« Reply #3 on: June 15, 2012, 03:34:05 pm »

yun din ang alam ko sa Iglesia, Thurs/Sun lang ang samba and hindi naman siya whole day. parang nagsimba lang din pero mas mahaba ng konti. meron bang malapit na kapilya sa house nyo? if so, hindi niya kailangan na maglaan ng buong araw ng pagsamba. baka nga style lang niya yun para makaalis. pero kausapin mo din siya, kung pwede once lang siya sumamba.

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Re: My new yaya is iglesia...how to handle?
« Reply #4 on: June 19, 2012, 11:12:41 pm »

Hi sis, I'm a member of the Church. :)

It's not 3x a week, twice a week sis.Either Wed/Thur then either Sat/Sun, kung may malapit na Kapilya sa inyo okay na ang 1hour and 30 mins to 2 hours. Sa amin kasi galing sa bahay namin approx 20-30 steps eh Kapilya na, so malapit talaga. HTH
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Re: My new yaya is iglesia...how to handle?
« Reply #5 on: June 20, 2012, 06:09:19 am »

thanks mga sis!

My yaya said its thursday, saturday and sunday daw. I asked her kung db puwede ng sunday lang. She said, hindi daw?! Ganun ba kastrict sa iglesia?
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Re: My new yaya is iglesia...how to handle?
« Reply #6 on: June 20, 2012, 08:14:43 am »

naku sis....wag kang maniwala...member din ako ng church..... 2x kada week lang....
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Re: My new yaya is iglesia...how to handle?
« Reply #7 on: June 20, 2012, 10:50:29 am »

sis I myself is a member of Iglesia ni Cristo buong family namin actually, gaya ng nabanggit na ng ibang sis natin twice a week lang pagsamba namin either wed/thu then either sat/sun and yung pinakapagsamba talaga namin nasa 1hr lang at times pag mahaba ang aral medyo napapatagal basta ganun lang, tama sabi ng iba na pag may malapit na kapilya sa place nyo mahaba na yung 1 and half hour to 2hour na mawala sya sa bahay. If she insist na 3x a week at whole day pa aba hindi na yun makatotohanan  ;D lalo if naka-gala attire ang babaita sis hehe kasi kami pag sumamba dapat maayos ang kasuotan at bawal ang jeans, leggings, mini, sleeveless, backless and t-shirt.

at times nga din pala may mga dinadaos kaming pamamahayag baka lang minsan ipagpaalam niya uli yun sayo bale yun naman lokal ang nag tatalaga ng oras at araw usually sa mga araw na walang pagsamba eto ini-sked pero hindi eto madalas na madalas sis ha and still nasa 1hour lang din ang duration  ;)
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Re: My new yaya is iglesia...how to handle?
« Reply #8 on: June 24, 2012, 06:30:46 pm »

Maybe you should ask your yaya. Sa tingin ko kasi if she has Saturdays schedule sa Church other than the Thursdays and Sundays, baka maytungkulin siya sa Church. Usually Saturdays yung mga meeting ng mga Church officers like deaconess, secretaries, and other offices.  :) With regards to Bible Expositions and Bible studies every weekdays, these, just like other activities in the Church consumes about 1 hour. Sometimes may mga group meetings pa every Mondays. Having said all these, you should maintain an open and honest communication with your yaya to set expectations. Again, just like what I have mentioned before, she should learn to balance her work load vs. her Church obligations.
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Re: My new yaya is iglesia...how to handle?
« Reply #9 on: June 26, 2012, 08:48:36 pm »

Thanks mga sis!
i'll talk to yaya and weigh her answers...

What about the registration mga sis? is it a one-click transfer or she needs to go back to their province to get something para mkaattend dito sa manila?  Puro ngiti lang kasi sinasagot sa akin...
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Re: My new yaya is iglesia...how to handle?
« Reply #10 on: June 26, 2012, 09:46:03 pm »

For the transfer, she can ask her relatives to assist her from the province and have it mailed instead. She can still attend worship service while waiting for it. Hingi lang sya sa locale secretary ng Church ng "Katibayan sa Pagsamba".  :)
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Re: My new yaya is iglesia...how to handle?
« Reply #11 on: June 26, 2012, 11:15:44 pm »

Ah ok... Many thanks sis errych!  :)
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Yaya is a Muslim
« Reply #12 on: September 24, 2012, 10:11:40 am »

Hi mga mommies,

would like to ask sana kung pano po makakapagrelate sa yaya namin na muslim. Wala kasi kaming idea sa kung ano ang mga bawal sa kanila. Pasensiya na rin po, pero parang naiilang kasi ako sa kanya dahil nga po iba ang religion niya and according sa kanya kamag anak niya yung mga Ampatuan. Taga Cotabato po si new yaya namin.
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Re: Yaya is a Muslim
« Reply #13 on: September 24, 2012, 01:05:21 pm »

scary ?

Usually sis bawal pork. and i guess the best person to ask is the yaya mismo.
Explain to her that you need to know and understand her needs in that way kaw din maibigay mo yung rules-like the do's and donts.

meet half way sabi nga nila para walang conflicts in both sides
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Re: Yaya is a Muslim
« Reply #14 on: September 24, 2012, 02:02:14 pm »

Hi, I guess you really have to talk to your yaya about her beliefs, etc.

Tama si sis ahyzeyuh, you need to discuss things like food arrangements etc. Kasi di ba Muslims don't eat pork and if she is really strict sa religion  like would she be comfortable handling food items for your baby which consist of pork, etc. Tapos ikaw din you should let her understand yung mga do's and don'ts mo. Pero I wouldn't be worried about the Ampatuans, kasi kung close relatives sila, I'm sure hindi siya mag-wowork as a yaya....
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