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Author Topic: Ok lang ba iopen ang fb account/phone ng hubby mo?  (Read 8286 times)

mylittlegabriel

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Re: Ok lang ba iopen ang fb account/phone ng hubby mo?
« Reply #15 on: July 08, 2012, 12:15:40 am »

hi sis mamaba...agree with sis Blake na give your hubby a second chance, pero second chance nga lang dahil kapag paulit2, hindi yun healthy na, sayo at sa relationship nyo..and hindi ka masisisi ng hubby mo if mawala ang trust mo sa kanya, dapat mapatunayan niya sayo na talagang pinagsisihan niya yun and that hindi na niya uulitin pa..in what way, i really don't know but what i'm sure is if sincere ang isang tao, nakikita yun sa gawa, hindi sa salita..

sana maging ok ang relationship nyo especially in this time na kailangan mo si hubby mo dahil sa kalagayan mo...pray mo din sis na maging ok ang lahat... :)
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Re: Ok lang ba iopen ang fb account/phone ng hubby mo?
« Reply #16 on: July 08, 2012, 01:53:10 am »

@mylittlegabriel yes sis super kailangan ko siya ngayon tapos ngayon pa niya ginawa ito. Pero atleast ngayon alam ko na talaga ang totoo and sakanya na mismo nanggaling and inamin na niya. Im giving him a 2nd chance para sa baby namin kasi ayoko din naman na lumaki baby ko wala daddy. Sino ba naman alo para hindi siya ma forgive pero i told him din na i can forgive him in time but i will never forget what he did.
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Mommy France

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Re: Ok lang ba iopen ang fb account/phone ng hubby mo?
« Reply #17 on: July 08, 2012, 10:02:13 am »

To answer the title question  - it's OK to open social networking accounts with the knowledge of the owner. In this case, your husband should that you can and if he doesn't give it to you then we can respect that.

In your scenario na nakita mo na may naka-one night stand siya, I don't think that having access to his social networking site will do you good. lalo na sa sa health concerns mo.

Why can't you open up to him? Ganito ba kayo even before?

I think the problem with most couples, actually sa babae, natatakot mag-confront kasi natatakot na baka ibalik sa kanila yung galit. Pero hindi naman kailangan confrontational tayo to communicate with our husbands.

Example, have you talked about your intimacy? Ask him how he feels, ask him how he feels about you not being able to satisfy him because of your condition? This way of asking is not confrontational but very effective kasi directed sa kanya yung question and it will give you an idea on how he thinks of what is happening.

Naitanong mo na sa kanya yung nabasa mo, and he denied it. This gives you more reason to talk about your intimacy kasi he knows he needs to console you.

Don't write. I wouldn't advise that kasi you need to see his face. His reaction sa sasabihin mo.
Let's put it this way, based sa kwento, yung intimacy ang problem kaya possibleng naghahanap siya sa labas.Writing wouldn't help kasi you need to establish connection. sa writing kasi, hindi siya makapag-respond agad so you won't get anything unless kausapin ka niya and kung tama yung hinala mo, he'll try to stay away from the topic. In the end, you won't get the answers you want.

Talk to him. Communicate with him. Ask him you want to talk. This is the reason why I am asking you kung hindi mo rin ba siya makausap right from the start. Gaano na ba kayo tagal in a relationship kasi for sure you've had arguments before. Paano ba kayo mag-solve ng issues - yung maliliit na issue lang?
 
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Re: Ok lang ba iopen ang fb account/phone ng hubby mo?
« Reply #18 on: August 04, 2012, 01:56:34 pm »

Communicate well. You too needs that.
Talk to him DIRECTLY.
Face to Face so you will know his reactions.
You will know if he's telling a Lie or stating the Truth.
Ask him oftenly sa lahat ng gusto mong itanong.

Give Him a chance second time around & make it sweeter.
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Re: Ok lang ba iopen ang fb account/phone ng hubby mo?
« Reply #19 on: December 29, 2017, 01:44:30 pm »

Don't do unto others. Ayaw ko ring pinakekealaman ang messages ko, dami lang tanong. Kaya i respect his privacy too. Maliban nalang siguro kung may suspetsa ako. So far wala naman.
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Re: Ok lang ba iopen ang fb account/phone ng hubby mo?
« Reply #20 on: August 06, 2018, 03:39:45 pm »

hi momis.. I don't know kung saan talaga ako mgpopost..  need really some advise lang po. honestly hindi ko alam pano itanong.. for you moms is it ok na magfollow or magsearch search si mister nio ng women sa  fb at instagram ?  minsan kasi kapag napapakialaman ko cellphone ni hubby ko nakikita ko.  I felt insecure, upset.. hindi ko alam. alam ko naman na yung mga search niya or follow e talagang magaganda.. and sinasabi ko nalang sa sarili ko basta't no messagings or text.  tama lang ba na mafeel ko to? for you ok lang ba na magsearch or magfollow si husband ng mga babae (like sexy women).  my times na pinaparamdam ko at bahagyang nasasabi ito saknya pero sinasabi lang niya wala naman ciang gngawang masama.  thank you momis sa mga mgaadvise. Godbless.
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Re: Ok lang ba iopen ang fb account/phone ng hubby mo?
« Reply #21 on: August 21, 2018, 02:33:09 pm »

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Re: Ok lang ba iopen ang fb account/phone ng hubby mo?
« Reply #22 on: August 21, 2018, 08:37:36 pm »

Hi sis, as for me it wont be a problem as long na in moderation lang ang ginagawa ni mister and wont cross the line..following famous people esp sexy ladies, liking their photos, thats ok! As long na no conversation involve that wont be a problem, and i think wala naman tinatago mister mo since you kept on seeing his social media activities..maybe he just appreciate good looks same with women who appreciate good looking guys...try to worry less pero syempre dont let your guard down 😉
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