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tsukino4

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nag two time pala si partner sakin last year
« on: August 23, 2012, 08:01:13 pm »

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alam ko po last year pa ito pero ngayon ko lang nabasa sa fb ni partner na nag a-i love you sila dati ng sinasabi nyang ex bago ako pero for me nililigawan niya ko saka hanggang sa kami na eh ganun pa din..

 pero now wala na sila kasi habang nag two time pala siya sakin nun eh nagthree time naman yung girl na yun sa kanila..

i know some of you will tell me siguro na its non sense na now pero kasi pag nalaman pala kahit tapos na ang sakit parin eh.. di ko alam iisipin ko.. iniisip ko kasi baka gawin niya ulit.. magkakababy pa naman kami.. do you think it is better to open it to him? its not that i want make an argue with him.. but i want to know if its really true or not.. past na naman eh.. yun nga lang ang sakit talaga.. hays..

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Re: nag two time pala si partner sakin last year
« Reply #1 on: August 24, 2012, 09:45:54 am »

IMO, Sis kahit masakit sayo yung nalaman mo, better bear it sis. kung bago palang kayo ni husband mo. buntis ka pa naman, hindi maganda yun nagiging negative ka kase magre-reflect kay baby yan. hayaan mo nalang kung may "ginawa" syang kabalastugan last year, anyhow hindi ikaw magdadala non. -- sya! hindi naman kase ikaw ang kawawa kahit gumanun sya, ikaw may baby ka pero pag nawala kayo mag-ina sa kanya sya ang mas kawawa. kung talagang hindi mo maatim na ikeep sa sarili mo what you had discovered. talk to him, heart to heart para marelease mo yun nararamdaman mo, but make sure na that wont end up sa "mas" na fight, you know men/s they wont admit it magkamatayan man, kung talagang mahal mo sya sis imo -- palagpasin mo nalang yan para hindi ka na mahirapan din.. god bless :)
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Re: nag two time pala si partner sakin last year
« Reply #2 on: August 24, 2012, 11:13:19 am »

you can talk to him about it so you can get closure with the issue pero wag mo na lang palakihin sis. just move forward.
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Re: nag two time pala si partner sakin last year
« Reply #3 on: August 24, 2012, 03:20:22 pm »

Hi sis tsukino4!

Sa palagay ko naman, depende rin yan sa attitude ng partner mo. If he's the type na mauunawaan ka kung bakit kailangan i-bring up mo yung issue na yan sa kanya, then just open it up pero siguro yung approach na tipong hindi naman masyadong mabigat.

Parang ganito (tonong pabiro) "Hubby ikaw ha! Nabuking kita nag "I love you" ka kay _____, selos ako ha! Hmf!" Tapos sabay ngiti ka nalang. At least nasabi mo di ba?

Pero kung sakali naman yung partner mo e tipong ayaw pinag-uusapan ang past, wag nalang sis. Tutal tapos na naman. Kase baka mamaya, kahit pabiro mo pa i-deliver yung pag-open up nun sa kanya, eh baka hindi maging maganda ang dating sa kanya.  ;)
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Re: nag two time pala si partner sakin last year
« Reply #4 on: August 24, 2012, 05:00:55 pm »

thanks po mga sisses.. tinanung ko sya kagabe as usual ang guy kahit nahuli na di parin umaamin.. pero okay naman kame tunanung ko lang siya kagabe if tinwo time niya ko since ng naging kame sabi niya hindi daw hay naku..
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Re: nag two time pala si partner sakin last year
« Reply #5 on: August 24, 2012, 05:13:52 pm »

If this happened before you were married palagpasin mo na. Hindi Lang siguro agad makapag let go sa pagiging binata. It is hard to suddenly become monogamous when you are so used to it being all fun and games Lang. Siguro naman he has grown up since then because having a baby changes everything.
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Re: nag two time pala si partner sakin last year
« Reply #6 on: August 24, 2012, 09:04:51 pm »

thanks sis annamarie.. sa bagay totoo yun..
nabasa ko kasi sa fb sa kachat niya na nung ngayon magkakababy na kami eh yun na daw amg sign para magbago siya at it means siguro na maging good partner sakin..
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