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violet.crumble

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how to deal with maid who makes "kupit"?
« on: April 12, 2012, 04:52:26 pm »

Have you ever experienced na kupitan kayo ng maid or yaya?  Whether money or goods like food or toiletries?  How did you react?  Did you confront them or pinalagpas nyo na lang?
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Re: how to deal with maid who makes "kupit"?
« Reply #1 on: April 12, 2012, 04:56:22 pm »

Oo sis kaya lang yung Olay na moisturizer ko. Napapansin ko nauubos kahit di ko ginagamit. Ang ginawa ko tinago ko na lang kasi ayaw ko siya sitahin at baka masungitan ko ng bongga layasan ako. Ok naman siya kasi ni piso di kinukuha. Siguro gusto lang niya gumamit nun pero di niya afford.
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Re: how to deal with maid who makes "kupit"?
« Reply #2 on: April 12, 2012, 10:33:32 pm »

Mabuti di pa nangyayari saken yan pero yung anak ng yaya ni miggy dati na nakatira samen for ilang weeks eh ginagamit yung mga gamit ko. Keri lang naman pero hinihingi ko mag-paalam.

I'd like to gather evidences first before confronting tapos para wala ng lusot. In the end, kailangan niyang umalis kasi ayoko ng hindi mapagkakatiwalaan sa bahay lalo na sila lang naiiwan sa bahay ng anak ko.

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Re: how to deal with maid who makes "kupit"?
« Reply #3 on: April 12, 2012, 10:48:51 pm »

First yaya ko nangungupit ng food na nasa room namin and money from my wallet. Pinalayas ko.
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Re: how to deal with maid who makes "kupit"?
« Reply #4 on: April 18, 2012, 10:53:22 am »

nangyari na to sa house ng mom ko noon. so nireport namin sa barangay para may blotter record siya. tapos pinalayas namin. sinigurado ni mom na hindi na daw siya magkakaroon ng ibang trabaho dahil sa record niya. kawawa pero kasalanan niya eh.
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Re: how to deal with maid who makes "kupit"?
« Reply #5 on: April 25, 2012, 08:22:25 pm »

Experienced this with our first yaya. Ang kinupit is mga barya-barya (pinakamalaki na yung 20Php), almost 5kgs ng bigas saka karamihan nung kape na naka-sachet. Yung 30pcs kasi nun yung binili ko tapos may natira pang 25pcs dun. Kinagabihan pag-check ko 3 na lang natira then yung  sa bigas wala ng 1kg. Yun pa naman yung wala kaming gas kaya di nakakapagsaing so no way na kami ang nakaubos nun. Kinonfront ko to let her know di ako tan**, di okay sa akin yun pero willing ako bigyan siya ng isa pang chance--pag naulit sisante na. Problem is nahuli namin siya na ilang beses na naninigarilyo sa bahay tapos puro bata ang kasama kaya wala, sisante ang uwi.
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Re: how to deal with maid who makes "kupit"?
« Reply #6 on: June 05, 2012, 01:05:45 pm »

with our experienced dun sa unang yaya namin...20yo from cotabato..pamasahe-airfare..una i can say na kupit yon kahit sabihin na almost 2k nakuha sa akin pa lang.... tapos later magnanakaw na sya..kc magaling na magpaikot ng mga tao na nagtitiwala sa kanya...si MIL and 2 kapitabay..ang modus ni yaya, punta sya dun sa kapitbahay namin na may sari sari store..ang sinabi niya dun sa kapitabahay namin, nangungutang si MIL..pinautang namin ni kapitbahay kahit sa totoo hindi nmam nangugutang si MIL..ganun din kay MIL..sinabi ni yaya na si kapitabahay ko nangungutang daw..pinautang din ni MIL..in short pinapaikot sila ni yaya...kinuha pa niya celfon ni MIL..pina blotter namin si yaya sa barangay..tapos pinaalis na namin sya..swerte pa si yaya kc hindi namin sya ipinakulong...

btw...yong yaya ng niece ko kapatid nung naging yaya ko..nag iingat na lang sina ate ko baka kc pareho silang magkapatid..kahit sabihin na matagal na yong yaya nung niece ko sa kanila
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Re: how to deal with maid who makes "kupit"?
« Reply #7 on: June 27, 2012, 04:19:48 pm »

It's kind of disappointing if your staffer did this to you, especially if you have given your full trust already, the question is, should you forgive and forget?

This article is worth reading:
When your Helper Steals from You.
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Re: how to deal with maid who makes "kupit"?
« Reply #8 on: September 25, 2012, 12:18:24 am »

I have this problem with our yaya. I think she does this so she can buy load for her celfone (may boyfriend and several other textmates kasi). I do not confront her head on on this, but sometimes I let her know that I know. So now I just give her a month worth of prepaid sun load (yun kasi gamit niya), and maybe it did work because the kupit habit of hers has lessened.
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Re: how to deal with maid who makes "kupit"?
« Reply #9 on: October 19, 2012, 05:30:36 pm »

paalisin ko na lang kasi nangungupit and i can't live with people na ganyan eh baka may iba pang ginagawa na hindi ko lang alam nakakapraning, wag na lang diba life is too short para pakisamahan ko pa ang mga taong ganyan kasama mo na nga sa bahay at pinagigibayan mo na nga, siniswelduhan naman sya di naman libre ang services niya so pag gumawa ng mga ganitong bagay bagay eh go na ito for me.
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Re: how to deal with maid who makes "kupit"?
« Reply #10 on: June 26, 2013, 12:04:23 am »

This is one mom’s shocking story: A day after she terminated the services of her second-born’s yaya, on grounds of stealing, her young niece disclosed that the yaya had all along been filching her preschooler of his leftover daily allowance to fund a tong-its habit!

Proper Yaya Screening: Your First Step In Ensuring Your Child’s Safety
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/home-living/about-yaya/Proper-Yaya-Screening--Your-First-Step-In-Ensuring-Your-Child-s-Safety
« Last Edit: June 26, 2013, 12:16:22 am by toughmom »
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