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KClaire

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Re: baliw na ba ako? :(
« Reply #15 on: October 07, 2012, 10:20:01 pm »

siguro nga po dahil ito sa stress. ang dami at bigat rin po kasi ng mga pinagdaanan ko at wala aong ibang sinisisi kundi sarili ko.

please never ever blame yourself. kung ano man mga nangyari,please don't feel sorry for yourself. I been through that also,so I feel for you. I even overheard one of my SIL said na baka daw "nabinat" ako kasi nga sa behavior ko. after ko manganak, I noticed some weird things happening with me.I started to imagine things, things na minsan sobrang morbid na.I became so moody,sobra kesa nung buntis pa 'ko.konting bagay na di ko gusto nagkukulong na 'ko sa kwarto and even slammed the door many times without even caring if my inlaws were there. and I always cried.and worst,there are times I can hear voices, like naririnig ko umiiyak baby ko, tatakbo ako sa kwarto,taz di naman pala. o di kaya feeling ko tinatawag nila ako kahit din naman,stuff like that.and I was aware about this Posrpartum Depression.at natakot ako, ayoko to be totally depressed.what i did was Pray. Every time I feel uneasy,or some weird thoughts coming,I always pray.Pray hard sometimes.Sabi ng sister ko,"kung ayaw mong mapabayaan baby mo,wag mo pabayaan sarili mo." No one can really help us but ourselves and above all,God.  Now,I can say that I've overcome that stage. I always make myself busy, busy with fun. Avoid being sad. try to look at things on it's brighter side.and always pray,talk to HIM. it would make you feel good.
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Re: baliw na ba ako? :(
« Reply #16 on: October 08, 2012, 04:46:56 am »

CS ka sis? I agree sa mga sis natin dito laki ng impact ng anethesia sa atin after the operation. Hindi naman sa baliw or something, more lang siguro na madami kang baggages na dinadala emotionally. Ganyan din ako before nung after ako manganak, small th ings umiiyak, paranoid, madaming imagination, natatakot na nga ako e minsan kasi nakikita ko me bad nangyayari sa baby ko.

release those baggages lang sis at manage your time yon. tapos go for healthy foods ah. para slowly bumalik sya.
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Re: baliw na ba ako? :(
« Reply #17 on: October 10, 2012, 06:48:10 am »

and oh I forgot to add, CS ako..:)
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Re: baliw na ba ako? :(
« Reply #18 on: October 18, 2012, 05:47:15 pm »

Hi sis sis pattetay,..sis kalma ka lang saka huwag mo sasabihin nababaliw ka  hindi lang naman sayo nangyari yan maraming mga new mommy ang nakakaranas niyan like my sister.Sis kausapin mo ng masinsinan ang asawa mo sabihin mo lahat ng mga iniisp mo saka huwag mong hahayaan na nag iisa ka gumawa ka ng mga bagay na magiging busy k para maiwasan mo mag isip..magbasa basa k ng books mag exercise ka iwasan magpalipas ng kain.Sis sis pattetay, laging mong iisipin ang pamilya mo .Sis you need to consult a doctor para mabigyan ka niya ng tamang pagpapaliwanag...mas maganda mas maaga para mas maaga ka gumaling...Sis pray huwag mong kakalimutan watch everynight sa 700club  11pm isa yan sa programa nakatulong sa sister ko..

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Re: baliw na ba ako? :(
« Reply #19 on: October 19, 2012, 07:06:45 pm »

Hi sis!  I don't think you're crazy sis.  Baka napapagod ka lang or baka may depression ka lang because sa panganganak.  Normal kasi yun.  And also, kung nababaliw ka na, you wouldn't be asking yourself na baka baliw ka na.  Ang totoong baliw, hindi sila nagsasabi or nag aask kung baliw sila.   ;D  Pa check up ka na lang sis.  Kahit sa midwife or OB mo.  At the same time, try to relax and have time for yourself too.  Minsan paalaga mo din si baby sa in law mo or kay hubby habang nagpapahinga ka. 
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Re: baliw na ba ako? :(
« Reply #20 on: February 11, 2013, 05:26:28 pm »

@ Sis pattetay nkapagpacheck up kanaba?ok ka naba now?
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Re: baliw na ba ako? :(
« Reply #21 on: February 11, 2013, 09:08:14 pm »

after ko manganak,,pag tinitignan ko yung paligid,kulay yellow lahat ;D..madalas pag naalimpungatan ako..at titignan si baby,natataranta ako kasi unang tingin ko,wala siya sa tabi ko..tapos pag tinitigan ko,,nandun lang pala..panay iyak din ako..kasi wala asawaq nung nanganak ako..walang nag aalaga sakin tapos nag aalaga pa ako..parang aping api ako..yun yung nafefeel ko..i know  i was suffering from postpartum blues..i was told by my cousin..na kalabanin ko yung nararamdaman ko para hindi mag lead into depression..lahat ginawa ko..inisip ko yung mga good times namin ni hubby..lahat ng happy thoughts..hanggang nawala nlang yung mga unusual na nangyayari sakin..

kalabanin mo sis.. :)
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