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abz22

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2 babies, kaya ba ng isang yaya?
« on: July 17, 2012, 04:10:09 pm »

Mommies.. I need your advice.. Kasi i am about to give birth on November 2012 (EDD).  At that time, my eldest will be one year old and three months. My maternity leave will last until January 2013.  I was wondering if kaya kaya ng isang yaya ang dalawang babies?  If yes, would 3,000-3,500 fit as a salary?  Please share your experiences, need advice. Hirap na kasi humanap ng yaya nowadays eh.  :-\
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Re: 2 babies, kaya ba ng isang yaya?
« Reply #1 on: July 17, 2012, 04:27:37 pm »

^Yung yaya ng cousin ko took care of my twin cousins plus my 2 year old cousin. Isa lang nag-alaga sa kanilang lahat. Kaso iba ang gumagawa ng house chores. Since, parehong baby pa ang aalagan, mas maganda siguro kung 2 nannies para at least sure ka naka-focus ang attention sa 2 baby mo. Yung yaya kasi ng cousins ko, parang super yaya. Expert na talaga kaya kinaya niya.
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Re: 2 babies, kaya ba ng isang yaya?
« Reply #2 on: July 17, 2012, 04:40:25 pm »

^ok lang sana ang two nannies sis.  Kaso ang dami na namin sa house at baka dumami din ang gastos.  I mean, we also hired another one to take care of the household chores (cooking, linis but stay-out) then another one who would do the laundry (twice a week lang siya sa bahay for the clothes' washing).  Meaning, this yaya of mine would just really take care of the two babies.  Kakayanin kaya niya yung ganun? Pero babies lang talaga. What do you think sis?
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Re: 2 babies, kaya ba ng isang yaya?
« Reply #3 on: July 17, 2012, 04:53:43 pm »

^Hirap sis magsuggest kasi hindi ako first hand nakaexperience niyan..Yung inaanak ko kasi parang ganyan ang case sa inyo..same age din ang babies..2 ang nannies nila pero yung nannies plus yung nag-aaskiaso ng house chores. Depende rin siguro sa capability ng nanny. Kasi ang question jan, Ok lang ba sayo na hati ang attention ni yaya sa babies? Yan kasi ang sacrifice jan.

My mom was able to take care of all of us plus all the house chores and mind you, yung pangatlo at pang-apat sa aming magkakapatid (6 kasi kami) have the same age gap as your children. How my mom managed that, I didn't know. Full-time mom siya pero ibang klase rin effort ng mama ko. The thing is, "mom" namin siya so iba ang pag-aalaga compared sa hired-nannies.
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Re: 2 babies, kaya ba ng isang yaya?
« Reply #4 on: July 17, 2012, 05:44:58 pm »

no, sis! that's impossible.. kalikutan ng panganay mo and new born yung isa. both of them need and require focus attention. i used to be hands on sa baby ko from birth til 1yr old, ang hirap sis! sobra! may assistant na ako nun pero hirap pa din talaga... lalo na pag me sakit. dont take a risk or should i say wag ka magtipid kung kapakanan naman ng mga anak mo nakasalalay? just my thoughts lang sis  ;)
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Re: 2 babies, kaya ba ng isang yaya?
« Reply #5 on: July 17, 2012, 06:04:27 pm »

I agree, parang mahirap if one nanny lang to take care of your 2 kids, considering na kalikutan stage yung panganay baka mapabayaan ang isa sa kanila..if i were you, i'd rather hire 2 nannies para may peace of mind ako na maalagaan sila ng maayos  :)
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Re: 2 babies, kaya ba ng isang yaya?
« Reply #6 on: July 17, 2012, 06:22:45 pm »

sis mahirap pag isang nanny lang. kasi baka mangarag sya pag sabay ng umiyak yung 2 babies. coming from experience, my kids are 4yrs old at 10 months, pag iniiwan ko sya sila sa kasama namin dito house, paguwi ko nagsasabi yung maid na di daw niya kaya. at ikaw din di ka rin mapapanatag ang loob baka isa sa mga anak mo ay mapabayaan.
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« Reply #7 on: July 18, 2012, 10:34:11 am »

^ai ganun.  :( grabe scary talaga noh.  Iniisip ko pa nga lang pano kaya pag sabay sila nagpoop. sino uunahin? Hai naku. nagugulumihanan ako.  Iniisip ko kasi after ng leave ko, almost 3 months naman na si bunso tapos si ate ee 1 year and 5 months na.. pero ayun nga.. haist.. stressing tong alalahanin ko..
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Re: 2 babies, kaya ba ng isang yaya?
« Reply #8 on: July 18, 2012, 11:12:29 am »

^yun sis ang sinasabi ko  na sacrifice kapag one nanny lang..hati ang attention..kung tayo nga nahihirapan what more pa kaya si yaya di ba?
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Re: 2 babies, kaya ba ng isang yaya?
« Reply #9 on: July 18, 2012, 11:17:55 am »

^naiiyak na ko. kung malaki lang bahay namin ba't hindi. huhu. isa pa, ang hirap na humanap ng yaya ngayon na talagang mapapagkatiwalaan. perhaps, i'll talk to my present yaya and ask her directly what she thinks regarding the second baby.
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Re: 2 babies, kaya ba ng isang yaya?
« Reply #10 on: July 21, 2012, 07:07:04 am »

Kung ako sis, impossible din. Lalo na pa toddler na panganay mo, anak ko kasi sobrang mag explore nung ganyang age. Baka naman pwedeng may pakiusapan kang kamag anak na pwedeng tumingin tingin sa babies mo.
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« Reply #11 on: July 21, 2012, 01:54:13 pm »

^honestly, mas wala talaga akong maaasahan sa mga kamag-anak namin. I hate to say this pero kasi, lahat nalang sa kanila may bayad.  One time it was my own tita, imagine binabayaran ko siya, then binabayaran din pala siya ni mama. Akala kasi ni mama that time wala pa kong funds.  Hindi man lang nagsasabi. Nung nagkabukingan, ibabalik na lang daw niya yung pera. Another thing, meron kasi siyang inaalagang bata na anak ng kalive-in niya, dinala niya sa bahay, iniwan pala niya yung baby ko sa kwarto (3months pa lang nun), then naglock ang door. di sinabi samin, yung alaga lang niya yung nagkwento na naiwan nga daw ang baby namin sa loob ng kwarto mag-isa at tumawag pa ng barangay tanod para dumaan sa window at buksan ang door.  At ang pinakamatindi, pag nagutom, biglang iniiwan ang bata kahit wala pa kami. At sobrang lakas ng loob magpalibre samin/sakin.

So, dala na ko sa mga kamag-anak.  I prefer other people na from there on.
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