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just_katya

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Re: how to handle "super kulit" kid??
« Reply #15 on: October 18, 2012, 11:23:19 pm »

@mworx
hindi naman pa nirecommend ng pedia niya yung vaccine sa pneumonia. Ngayon ko lang narinig na meron yan.. ask ko pag nagpa-check up kami. Hindi naman madalas sya magka-tonsilitis. Iwas sweets lang talaga kami. Nakakakain naman sya pero after nun lots of water talaga. Mahigpit kasi daddy niya sa pagkain kahit nga ice cream bihira. Thanks sa info..  :)
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Re: how to handle "super kulit" kid??
« Reply #16 on: October 20, 2012, 09:59:56 pm »

@just katya, sis wag ka mag alala lahat naman ata tayong mommy at one point eh bestfriend talaga natin si mickey at baby tv, wala rin kami maid kaya may mga times talaga na yun yung ginagawa ng girl ko lalo na pag busy. samin lang kasi yun yung nag work for us nung bawasan namin yung tv, pero effort din siya na magimbento ako ng activities namin. it works din kasi since work at home ako. 
yung sa school play time naman ganyan din anak ko, pawisin. ok lang sana yung mabantot pero minsan ubuhin din kasi so before pumasok change costume din kami, haay! minsan naman sila teacher naghehelp din na palitan siya ng shirt.

it really depends sis sa situation mo, i'm sure meron yan style na magfifit sa inyo. wag kang mag alala sa mommy powers mo, i think naman lahat tayo kahit pa yung mga super experienced mommies nagkakaroon pa rin ng moments na we question our abilities, ang importante love natin mga anak natin at dun nangagaling yung mga decisions natin for them.

mahahanapan mo rin siya ng activities, don't worry. isa pa good sign din ang makulit na bata kasi sign of intelligence yan. active ang brain nila kaya ganun.
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just_katya

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Re: how to handle "super kulit" kid??
« Reply #17 on: October 28, 2012, 11:26:40 pm »

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Thanks sa mga encouraging words.. Oo nga siguro per age may addition and subtraction.  ;D
Lagi ko na nga lang namin sinasabi ni hubby na "Magbabago pa yan.. bata pa kasi"
Thank you uli and God bless  :-*
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Re: how to handle "super kulit" kid??
« Reply #18 on: October 30, 2012, 12:25:28 pm »

hayy mga sis, super relate ako dito!! i have a 3.9yo son... may mga times na talagang nade-depress na ko. but reading your posts, medyo na-enlighten na naman ako na hindi ako nag-iisa.. and i should find ways lang talaga for my son. i'll try to observe na din what triggers his kakulitan.  :D
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Re: how to handle "super kulit" kid??
« Reply #19 on: November 01, 2012, 08:49:14 am »

hello fellow moms
Im very impatience so Im having hard time disciplining my 19months baby. She's super kulit hilig magsusubo kahit galing sa sahig nakita niya sa ibang bata before mabilis kasi sya pumick up ng words or activity kaya super likot. Kaso I dont know how to be calm pag makulit na dalawa 3 lang kami ng anak ko kasama na yun yaya daddy niya  work abroad so most of the time malunkot rin me di ko alam gagawin ko. Masakit pag napapalo ko baby ko pagdi ko na pipigilan sarili ko. help po I need guidance.
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Re: how to handle "super kulit" kid??
« Reply #20 on: November 02, 2012, 10:34:53 pm »

@hlazaro si baby ko din napalo ko na sa hands sa sobrang bigla ko, pero after seeing her cry,naawa talaga ako, kaya now super patience talaga, what i do is pag sobrang naiinis na ako,alis muna ako or kahit labas lang basta madivert lang ang attention ko and para huminga tapos saka ako balik or si baby naman bago pa siya may gawin na alam kong magagalit ako, iibahin ko na yung gagawin niya,lilibangin ko na siya or ididivert ko na attention niya sa ibang bagay para hindi ko na siya mapalo ulit :D
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Re: how to handle "super kulit" kid??
« Reply #21 on: November 04, 2012, 07:30:46 pm »

kailangan talaga natin mga mommies ng long patience and understanding lalo na kung tayo ang mas matagal makasama ng mga anak natin. Minsan talaga di natin mapigilan ang mapalo ang ating mga anak sa sobrang kulit. Ako kahit papaano nakakayanan ko ng mag-control. Minsan naman kailangan din natin paluin sila for discipline. And we also need to talk to them after paluin so that they will  know kung bakit. We tell them how much we love them and we want them to be a good child. Like that.. :) Mahirap talaga maging parent. Very challenging ang role natin..  :D
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Re: how to handle "super kulit" kid??
« Reply #22 on: November 06, 2012, 08:12:47 am »

thanks po Mommy @preciouslara and @just _katya for enlightenment, I'll try my best to control my temper at naaawa rin me sa baby ko, since 1 year and 6 months palang sya alam ko na mali ako, dapat ako mag aadjust kasi young toddler pa sya. Controlling my emotions is the very hard pero para sa  ko gagawin ko para mapalaki ko sya ng tama. Thanks po pag may mga tips pa po kayo pls do help me pa rin po I really need advice. I'm also a first time mom. TY
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« Reply #23 on: November 06, 2012, 09:53:31 am »

Wag mo muna masyadong paluin mommy hlazaro ang iyong anak kasi toddler pa yan.. naku mas maraming makulit days pa ang darating sa 'yo ;D Tsaka at their age nag-eexplore pa talaga sila to the max. Kaya hayaan mu lang unless di na maganda para sa kanya yung environment o yung mga ginagawa niya. Just support your angel. Mahirap talaga. Maski ako na 5 na anak ko ang kulit-kulit pa din.. :P
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Re: how to handle "super kulit" kid??
« Reply #24 on: November 06, 2012, 08:20:56 pm »

@hlazaro no prob sis, 1st time mom din ako, mag 26 months na din si baby girl ko,wala talagang tatalo sa kakulitan nun dito samin, mom ko and auntie ko kasi nag alaga sa lahat ng mga bata dito samin and wala silang ibang macomment kundi sobrang kulit daw talaga ni baby,para daw limang bata katumbas,ayaw pa niya makikita na maayos laruan niya gusto niya nakakalat lang sa sahig,pag naglinis kami at tinago ko na mga toys niya, chinechek up niya talaga at hahanapin niya yung wal sa paningin niya,hindi mo mautakan,sbrang talino na din kasi ng mga bata ngayon ;D basta habaan mo lang patience mo sis kasi we have a long way to go,nagsisimula pa lang tayo at dami pa din natin dapat matutunan along the way. :)
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Re: how to handle "super kulit" kid??
« Reply #25 on: November 06, 2012, 10:08:47 pm »

,sbrang talino na din kasi ng mga bata ngayon ;D basta habaan mo lang patience mo sis kasi we have a long way to go,nagsisimula pa lang tayo at dami pa din natin dapat matutunan along the way. :)

Tama ka jan sis kaya habang maaga pa..enjoy the moment with  our children dahil sooner or later hindi na tayo ang center of attraction nila.. Hindi naman habang buhay ganyan sila kakulit. Magmamature din ang ating mga angels.  ;D
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Re: how to handle "super kulit" kid??
« Reply #26 on: November 09, 2012, 09:03:19 pm »

@just_katya, tama talaga sis, kaya nga ngayon lahat ng activity na puwede namin ienjoy ni baby together eh ginagawa ko basta kaya ng budget or minsan kahit simpleng activities lang kasi nga pag laki nila may sarili na silang trip gawin...

plan ko din ienroll si baby this summer sa mga play school para maenhance social skills niya, hilig kasi mang away ng ibang bata,saka sa ballet school para mabuhos dun yung sobra sobrang energy niya:)
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Re: how to handle "super kulit" kid??
« Reply #27 on: November 17, 2012, 11:19:07 am »

Hi mga mommies. Share ko lang yun how I handle my super kulit 5-year-old boy. I learned with practice and patience na with regard to discipline, consistency is the key. Matalino ang mga bata. Kung may rule kayo about something, be consistent. Don't give in kaagad. Once na hindi tayo naging consistent, the problem will start. Kasi alam na nila na they can get away with it. Ako kahit maglupasay sa harap ko, tinitiis ko. Kasi walang batang namamatay sa iyak. If hindi pwede ang candy, panindigan na talagang hindi pwede. If hindi pwedeng lumabas ng bahay at a certain time, panindigan na hindi pwede. They will develop that good habit in time. My son does not eat candy even if somebody offers him one, even if I am not around.

Isa pa na works for us is being a good example. If I want my child to be courteous, dapat ganun din kami. If I want him to be thoughtful, dapat nakikita niya yun example sa bahay. I am happy to say that his teachers tell us that my son is very courteous.  :) So I think we are doing the right thing here.

Children have lots of energy and they need to use that energy kaya they are makulit. Sabi ng dad ko dati, mas matuwa pa nga daw ako kung makulit yun anak ko kasi it means he is energetic and healthy.  Gusto ko ba daw matamlay yun anak ko? Try to give them options. If you say no to one thing, then give him another thing to do which he would like.

Another thing is I don't tell him na he's makulit, malikot, etc. Children will become what we say they are. I try to complement my son sa ibang tao especially if he can hear it himself. I think he feels more confident and  helps his self-esteem.

I talk about discipline to my child hindi lang pag may ginawang mali. Usually kasi nakikipagkwentuhan ako sa kanya bago matulog. I ask questions about his day, what he did, etc. Dun ko sinisingit yun mga pagdidisiplina issues. Or if  we read a book, nirerelate ko sa totoong buhay. It's one way to instill good values na rin siguro. Most of the time pag nagdisiplina ako ng galit ako, I can't get my message across at hindi rin niya mkuha yun gusto kong sabihin sa kanya kasi ang nakikita niya is yun galit ko. He becomes more defiant. I used to spank him when he was younger like 3 years old. Pero ngayon hindi na. I just talk to him kasi it is more effective.

I realized all of these when my son was mirroring everything I did to him. The spanking - he spanks his cousin. Shouting - when I shout at him. Nalungkot ako nun nakita ko kasi I really saw myself sa ginagawa niya. I learned na as parents, we should take the time to know our child kasi he has his own personality.  Know what kind of discipline will work for you and for each child. Pwedeng yun nagwowork sa isa, hindi effective sa ibang bata. Ask God for guidance. Pray not only for your child but for everyone who takes care of him.  :D
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« Reply #28 on: December 20, 2012, 01:20:44 am »


I realized all of these when my son was mirroring everything I did to him. The spanking - he spanks his cousin. Shouting - when I shout at him. Nalungkot ako nun nakita ko kasi I really saw myself sa ginagawa niya.

hi sis..
naku guilty ako dito.. 3 year old and 6months na yung panganay ko na boy at feeling ko ang kulit niya dahil parang hindi sya nakikinig sakin.. hindi naman sya ganun dati. hindi ko na talaga alam gagawin ko. minsan hindi na lang ako kumikibo kapag ayaw niya talaga sumunod.  may times pa na kung ano yung sinasabi kong wag niya gawin yun ang lalo niya ginagawa..
im still finding ways kung pano ko mas makikilala ang anak ko. working mom din kasi ako and maliit pa yung bunso ko. tingin ko kasi parang nagpapapansin lang sya sakin kaya sya ganun..ano kaya pwede ko gawin?.. :(
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« Reply #29 on: February 18, 2013, 01:46:38 pm »

Naku mga mommies I have the same problem with my makulit as super kulit at malikot na anak. My son is only 2 yrs old. Define makulit and malikot sguro nasa kanya nang lahat. Lahat ng gusto niya gusto niya makuha, kapag hindi binigay iiyak at magwawala. Grabe talaga mga mommies. Super na talaga. Then kapag nasa ibang lugar, maingay siya. One time, isinaman ko sa drug store naku super sigaw siya. Pano ba ang gagawin ko mommies. help naman please.  :)
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