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mommylovepink

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how to handle a maids mistake If it costed you 30k ?
« on: December 09, 2012, 09:57:35 pm »

hello mga mommy

im just really upset right now...this morning we woke up late and was rushing to get ready para sa paper viewing ng pacquio fight...
and as my hubby was about to choose which shoes hes gonna wear ..we found out that most of his shoes was DAMAGED...NIKE shoes and mostly was bought from states limited edition...iniingatan na niya ito and sobrang dalang gamitin dahil nga ayaw niya maluma agad...6 pairs ...for some reason naisipan ni maid na linisin labahan dahil daw ma alikabok na sa taguan..and hindi ko lubos maisip bakit kelangan niya eskobahin?!!...eh wala naman talagang dumi...nan lulumo talaga ako mga mommies...sana benenta ko na lang yung mga shoes..matagal ko na binabalak i dispose yun eh kasi nga sayang ang mamahal di naman masyado nagagamit :( tapos ayun...tuknap at faded na ngayon  :( :(  :'(...suma total nasa 30k yun...then last time naman nag decide sya na pinturahan ng ORANGE above all others colors yung apartment unit namin na bakante...we ended up repainting it cost us 7k...trip lang niya hindi kami tinanong ...hindi namin kinaltas sa sahod niya kasi naawa din kami...Mali ba kami sa sobrang mabait? do we need to be more strict? the scary type?...:( sorry napahaba...
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Re: how to handle a maids mistake If it costed you 30k ?
« Reply #1 on: December 10, 2012, 03:19:31 pm »

masyado naman siya pakialamera hindi naman niya bahay yun...yung sa kapatid ko pag may ginawang hindi maganda yung yaya/maid ok lang first offense sasabihin niya na ayaw na niya maulit yun pagnaulit pa tanggal na siya or kaltas sa sahod.
last time may nawalang gamit yung yaya ng niece ko sabi ko sa kanya "ikaw dapat magtago or magayus ng mga damit ng bata para kung may nawala mabilis mahanap hindi yung sisihan kayo ng kasama mo kasi kung hindi papabayad ko sayo yun."yung sagot niya sa akin "opo" aba after how many weeks nawala ng yaya yung food container tinanung ko sa kanya sagot niya"hindi ko po alam yun baka nagamit niyo"sabi ko sa kanya hindi mo alam?sinabi ko na sayo na ikaw magayus yung gamit ng bata hindi ko naman itatanung sayo kung ako yung nakawala,sinabi ko na sayo na ibabayad ko sayo yun"sagot niya niya hindi ko po alam yun"sabi ko naman "sige hanapin mo yun kung ayaw mo magbayad."aba hindi talaga niya hinanap yun, yung bago siya umalis sabi ko sa kapatid ko tungkol doon tapus pinapabayad ko sa kanya yun atsaka may utang pa yun sa akin kala niya malulusuotan niya ako...
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Re: how to handle a maids mistake If it costed you 30k ?
« Reply #2 on: December 10, 2012, 06:50:01 pm »

@mommylovepink, sayang nga! Nagtataka rin ako naisipan nyang magpintura ng orange. :) I think nagmamagandang loob lang ang maid nyo, unfortunately palpak ang mga ginawa niya instead na matuwa kayo. Ang mahirap pa nyan, ang mahal ng damage.  Hindi naman kelangan na maging scary kayo or sobrang strict naman sa kanya. But I suggest you talk to your maid na you appreciate her initiative but she should consult you or your husband before she does things like that.  And explain the ramifications and cost of her actions.  If she doesnt listen and keeps on doing things her way, think if you still wanna keep her.  Kasi kung palagi tapos mahal, baka nakaschedule ka ng kaltas for 5 years. hehe. kasi magkano lang din ang sweldo nila di ba? Kahit sa office employee, mabigat ang 37k.
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Re: how to handle a maids mistake If it costed you 30k ?
« Reply #3 on: December 10, 2012, 07:56:13 pm »

^i agree. from your post, it seemed, over-eager lang yung yaya nyo. parang napaka-laki ng initiative niya, which is very rare nowadays. ang common complaint ng employers ngayon is de-pukpok yung mga yaya, kapag walang inutos, walang gagawin.

have a heart to heart talk, or somebody else should talk to her. establish ground rules, ano lang yung routinary coverage ng trabaho niya, and if di kasama sa nakallista dun, she should ask first before doing anything. tell her also, na for her to 'remember' , you may want to subtract, let's say P5k lang from total cost. she's unaware of how expensive things are. she might know different types of fabric, different types of leather etc. i'd expect her to break a lot of other things, like technology-based, kasi she is un-learned.

you need not be strict, but be more clear. list the things that she needs to do, and the procedure that she should take. she should need 'briefing' on what to do and what not to do in the house as well.

if you cannot fathom your loss, let her go, kesa you take her being uneducated/ignorant as a point against her own initiative. balance what is important.  :)
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Re: how to handle a maids mistake If it costed you 30k ?
« Reply #4 on: December 10, 2012, 08:45:28 pm »

Mahirap nga ito lalo na kung malaking pera ang pinaguusapan.. Siguro the yaya is in good mind ng naisip niyang linisin yung mga shoes.. It's her job na kapag may nakitang madumi e linisin. Pero yung magpintura ng bahay.. Aba e balak bang maging artist ni kasambahay?? She should know her job sis.. And teach her na it's ok to ask you. Ako lagi koong sinasabi sa mga kasambahay namin lalo na kung bago na if hindi sila sure sa gagawin nila,, wag silang mahiyang magtanong, like "ate ok lang bang linisin ito?" or "ok lang bang magluto ng ganito" that way, masasabi ko kung anong gusto kong ipagawa sakanya and maiiwasan din ang magkamali. :) hth
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Re: how to handle a maids mistake If it costed you 30k ?
« Reply #5 on: December 10, 2012, 08:55:19 pm »

talk to her na lang mommy, and then pabayaran mo unti-unti sa kanya para next time alam ng maid ninyo kung saan siya dapat lulugar. although nakakaawa eh kung gagawin naman niya ulit aba hindi na maganda yun.
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Re: how to handle a maids mistake If it costed you 30k ?
« Reply #6 on: December 10, 2012, 10:40:40 pm »

salamat ng marami mga mommies...ayun kinausap ko sya today..pinili ko na lang lumabas kahapon para lumamig ang ulo...today sinasabi ko sa kanya hindi ko naman hiling maging perfect maid sya okay lang pumalpak paminsan minsan pero yung mga cause ng malaking halaga wag naman...sinabi ko na bago sya mag desisyon alwasy ask us first and kahit pinakasimple bagay if hindi sya sigurado mag tanong...

in fairnes to her naman sa lahat ng naging maid namin sya talaga  yung pina okay...1 year pa lang sya samin..and oo kahit di mo utusan may kusa talaga sya...ang dpresya kasi siguro kasi wala talaga sya natapos kundi grade 5..so ayun mahina ang common sense..masipag naman kung sa masipag at napagkatiwalaan ng pera.....last warning narin ito 3rd offence wala na ako magagwa but to let her go... hindi na namin kinaltas sa sahod niya naawa rin kami kasi me pinapaaral sya...oh well sabi nga ng mommy ko the more na mabait ka at humble the more blessing...
so let it go na lang althouhg heavy talaga sa heart..kaya ako hindi ako mahilig bumili ng sobra mahal na bagay hehe kasi incase masira or mawala..hindi super hearbreaking...THANKS ilit sa lahat ng nag reply..napagaan ninyo ang aking kalooban :)
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