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mika-madz

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i want to work but how :( pwede p kaya?
« on: January 11, 2013, 12:33:06 pm »

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medyo down ako these past few days.. i feel worthless.. I am a housewife, my hubby works abroad..simula ng magka baby kami i stayed at home na kasi wala ako makita maayos n yaya.. we have two daughters na 5 and 3 yrs old. lately na feel ko na gusto ko magwork kasi gusto ko makatulong financially sa husband ko, plus gusto ko din magkaron ng sarili ko money although di naman ako inoobliga ni hubby. actually ayaw niya nga ako work kase wala n nga daw sya e iiwanan ko pa kids namin sa ibang tao. ang hirap din kase gusto ko n din sana makaipon na kami. kasi sa ngayon wala talaga kami ipon. kaya lang pano kids? tsaka matanda na din ako ppara matanggap, im 37 yrs old na :( hay mommies, please i need your advices.. thanks!

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Re: i want to work but how :( pwede p kaya?
« Reply #1 on: January 11, 2013, 01:30:47 pm »

sis im also in my lowest point sa buhay and keeping my self busy sa work it helps a lot. although hindi din naman ako happy sa work ko but i have to.

if going back to work will Appease you then yeah its not yet too late to start a new career.

If my trusted person kana pwedi pag-iiwanan sa kid mo then pwedi naman. sa call center wala age limit.
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Re: i want to work but how :( pwede p kaya?
« Reply #2 on: January 11, 2013, 03:08:04 pm »

same din naman tayo sis, nakaka depress.

i worked most of my life since highschool and well kahit online work ko last month pinapatigil na din ni hubby so full time na talaga ako wife and taking care sa anak namin. I opened up din naman kay hubby about this since OFW din si hubby, kaya pinapa negosyo niya ako make or break ang negosyo ko bsta makaka happy sa akin go lang ako ng go. medyo masinopdin naman ako sa pera  pero magnegosyo ka nalang sis kahit maliit na pagkakakitaan ok lang. hindi ka nagiisa sa walng ipon sis, kami din naman is 0balance, nakakatakot pag nagkasakit kasi walang makapangpera pang medicines.
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Re: i want to work but how :( pwede p kaya?
« Reply #3 on: January 11, 2013, 08:24:20 pm »

it's nice to know naman na hindi pala ako nagiisa.. i mean, i really don't need to feel so helpless and worthless pala knowing that there are women out there trying hard to find their worth.. so kaya ko din pala if gugustuhin ko..mahirap lang talaga umpisahan..kase di mo alam kung paano..when I pray nga i always ask for forgivenes kasi parang hindi ako marunong makuntento sa mga meron ako, madalas nakakaramdam pa ako ng inggit which i know super mali.. lagi n lang akong nagsasabi "buti pa sila"...samantalang kung tutuusin mas madami pa nga n malala ang problema kesa sken. Maybe i should start within myself muna..na realize ko today, dapat talaga mga sis palagi mag thank you para maisa isa mo kung anong blessing meron ka araw araw.. salamat sa inyo mga sis, na enlighten talaga ako. God Bless us!! :)
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« Reply #4 on: January 11, 2013, 09:52:03 pm »

mika-madz: You're really not alone sis. I'm a work from home mom and lately, nararamdaman ko yung strong urge to go back to the corporate world. Mas stable kasi ang income and mas maraming benefits. Yung online work ko kasi medyo mahina kita ngayon eh. E mag-formal schooling ang daughter ko this coming schoolyear. Also, namimiss ko din yung nasa office, yung may officemates, yung nag-dress up for work. It may sound mababaw, pero siguro if like you guys na fellow SAHM and WAHMs ang makikinig, you'll understand how it feels. :(

and just like you sis, dami ko din "buti pa sila" moments, especially yung pag-travel. sobrang like ko mamasyal talaga. Naiinggit ako dun sa may mga pang-biyahe/bakasyon kahit dito lang sa Pilipinas... :( Alam ko when I go back to the corporate world (lalo na sa call center industry) we might be able to afford travels...yun lang, maraming oras naman sa anak ko ang mawawala. In hindsight, I realized this might not be a good time for that, kasi nga, papasok na sya ng school and I know she'd need a looot of my time to get settled sa classroom environment...

natuwa naman ako when I told hubby about how I feel, sabi niya din, enjoy ko daw yung privilege na makasama ko yung anak ko 24/7, dahil not all moms can do that, not all moms have that option. kung sa work naman, nasa sa akin daw yon, pero he did encourage me to do what I want to do para daw makapag-break naman ako sa online work. Magpahinga daw ako, meet up with friends, etc. He encouraged me pa nga to try party planning kasi mahilig nga ako sa parties (adik pala. as in everyday, mega research ako about new themes etc...kahit wala akong pinaplanong party. hahaha! masaya lang talaga sya gawin. :D)...

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« Reply #5 on: January 12, 2013, 04:37:57 am »

PM me your info sis, I might be able to help you land a job :)
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Re: i want to work but how :( pwede p kaya?
« Reply #6 on: January 12, 2013, 02:17:43 pm »

ahhhh.super relate, stop working almost 5 yrs ago na...hubby doesnt want me to work din since he's ofw so he really wants na atleast one of us eh present sa lahat ng milestone sa life ng daughter namin...pero living in this era, plus exposure sa mga social sites nowadays, parang now napapatanong na ako,my mga what ifs na din sa mind ko...seeing all my former classmates,friends etc makes me question if how long can i stay na SAHM, hindi naman sa naiinggit ako sa kanila pero hindi ko na maramdaman sarili ko, parang im a mother,a wife pero im not me anymore...maybe i just need to breath...good provider naman si hubby, parang hindi naman sa money issue, yung self worth,self fulfillment ko yung minsan naiisip ko...its not na ayoko ng makasama si baby 24/7 its just that na parang may kulang..im thinking na maybe i want to go back na to the working force...im giving myself time to prepare, read about recent events, anything and everything under the sun just to keep me up to date...pero hubby said na wag muna, until daw mg 5 na si baby yung ngsschool na, my friends na din para daw hindi mabigla sa sudden chage kung magwowork ako now...eh kelan pa yun, 3 yrs pa hihintayin ko...hay.so now stress reliever ko yung paglabas labas kasama mga friends ko, just to feel na i also have a life hindi lang sa bahay..sana lang by that time eh tanggapin pa ako sa trabaho...hehe :)plan to start a bussiness na din kahit sari-sari store para lang may maiba...good luck satin mommies ;)
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« Reply #7 on: January 14, 2013, 06:42:27 pm »

hi mommy mika-madz,

have you heard of odesk? you may sign up and look for a job at the site.
here's the link: https://www.odesk.com/

it's a legit site. i'm working there as a freelance writer. i think it's perfect for work-at-home moms.

http://more-than-a-mumma.blogspot.com/
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« Reply #8 on: January 18, 2013, 09:29:11 am »

^hi sis! haven't tried online business yet...di kasi ako "techie" n tao sis.. basic computer programs lang alam ko.. but I'll try sis.. thank you!
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« Reply #9 on: January 23, 2013, 02:28:49 pm »

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« Reply #10 on: February 21, 2013, 03:01:59 pm »

[font=arialHi sissies!
I've been a stay at home mom (SAHM) ever since my eldest was born. He's now turning 7 years old. Kapag may free time ako pag tulog ang mga kids, I browse the internet pampalipas lang ng oras. I was an avid reader of Bo Sanchez' blog - http://bosanchez.ph - and one day, nakita ko just below his article that he's inviting people to join a seminar that teaches people how to work from home. Nagsign-up ako kaagad. The seminar was held in Rosewood Pointe sa Taguig, sa clubhouse. Ganda ng place, btw.

The seminar was superb. Alam mo yung feeling na gusto ko na umuwi para simulan yung tinuturo. haha. Tapos may pa-assignment siya. Madali lang naman and besides, kailangan mo naman yun as your online portfolio. Ayun, after a month, nakakuha na ako ng job online. Since then working na ako sa bahay as a virtual assistant. Work-at-home-mom (WAHM).

I saw this one article from Vince Golangco's site When in Manila na may nagsulat ng review tungkol dun sa seminar that I attended. You can try checking it out here: http://www.wheninmanila.com/how-to-work-from-home-as-a-virtual-assistant-a-seminar-by-jomar-hilario/

I heard may upcoming seminar ulit sa March. You may wanna try and check it out. May money-back guarantee din sila in case the seminar doesn't fit your needs. http://www.filipinova.com/

Hope this helps mga mommies!  :)

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« Reply #11 on: February 27, 2013, 02:09:51 pm »

Hi mika-madz.
First.  Pray about it
If it is the Lords will everything should fall in place like your spouse should approve and you are comfortable to leave your kids with a yaya.  Also, what is your priority at this time?  Money or kids?  I think you can still work when the kids are all grown up.  If it is your self esteem, you can read books to improve yourself.  Do some activities with your kids and meet with your friends from time to time. Remember that your kids will not be kids all the time.  Pagmalaki na sila, hindi ka na nila hahabul habulin.

Like what the other mommies said, ok din magwork from home or a work that doesn't require you to be in the office 8-5.

Dont feel bad for being a stay home mom because being a mom is the hardest job in the world!  Tayo ang responsible sa mga maliliit na bata na lumaki na may takot sa Diyos at maging mabuting mamamayan. 

God bless you in your decision.
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« Reply #12 on: February 28, 2013, 01:29:26 pm »

hi sis,
i think lahat naman ng stay at home moms naeexperience yung feeling na worthless sila. i stopped working almost 2 years ago when i got pregnant. just when i was thinking na siguro pwede na ulit ako magwork, i got pregnant with our second.  :P
advice ko lang sayo sis, do something for yourself. kelangan may me-time ka paminsan minsan. yan din ang sinasabi ko sa sarili ko. sa totoo lang kasi minsan feeling ko "nakakabobo" na yung araw araw ka nasa bahay. walang intellectual challenge kasi puro housework lang ang ginagawa mo, dagdag pa yung fact na ang baba ng tingin sayo ng ibang tao. i am a licensed nurse pero i would rather see my children grow at tlagang maatutukan ang paglaki nila. tama si sis MommyGreysi777, minsan lang sila bata. and i don't want to have any regrets pag lumaki na sila.

just the other day i told my hubby that i want to learn how to bake, kahit yung mga cookies lang. maaaliw na ko, pwede pa maging sideline in the future.

also, remember na hindi lahat ng babae kaya maging stay at home mom. you have to really think hard and set your priorities, kids or career. dapat decided ka kung ano yung pipiliin mo kasi may sacrifices yan na kasama. if you choose your career, it can bring you financial independence and self-fulfillment, butyou can't be there for your kids 24/7 anymore and vice versa. dapat wholehearted ka, kasi pag hindi, makocompromise lang yung choice mo.
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« Reply #13 on: March 13, 2013, 02:52:30 pm »

Hi mommy Mika,

I agree! Ako naman, I'm a single mom. I became a mom when I was just 18 so I had to stop studying. For almost 5 years I had to depend on my parents naman for support for my kids. I know and they told me that they don't mind. But of course, like how you feel, I want to have some independence. I'd like to support my kids as much as I can. The thing is, I don't know how. My kids were 6 years old and  4s year old then. Iniisip ko before to work in a call center but naisip ko naman na if I do that, pag-uwi ko, tulog na ako and i won't be able to take care of my kids. I don't want na i-asa sa mga yaya lahat-lahat. Ayoko naman non.

Thank God one day I came across a blog post of Bo Sanchez, not sure if you've heard about him or read about him (check mo na lang his blog :)), he posted an invitation about a seminar teaching how to work from home. I enrolled immediately. After a month, I got work online. Until now work ko pa din siya. So I'm a work from home mom. Challenge minsan mag-manage ng time but it's super worth it.

Sana makatulong ito sa iyo, sis. Check mo itong website. Nandito lahat ng details. http://filipinova.com
Alam ko may seminar ulit siya this month pero mukhang fully booked na. Check mo pa din.

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« Reply #14 on: March 15, 2013, 09:51:43 am »

thanks sis nikkihidalgo! check ko to and sana ito n din ang start ng panibagong buhay ko.. :)
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