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Author Topic: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??  (Read 7012 times)

shelly ohhh!!

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newbie here! anong experience nio mga single moms na mag-asikaso ng ganitong event ng ikaw lang! as in lahat lahat, ideas and the budget as well .. idagdag mo na working mom ka pa ?

ako kc c baby magbbi birthday na sa march31 , tapos wala pa akong nagagawa? hindi ko alam saan magsisimula?, gusto kong mabigyan ng mganda at memorable na birthday si baby kaso parang hindi ko yata kaya ..  :'(
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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #1 on: February 08, 2013, 01:54:32 pm »

Feeling ko kc ngayong hiwalay na kami ni sd at single mom na ako eh baka hindi ko magawa yun ..  :'(
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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #2 on: February 08, 2013, 07:55:59 pm »

sis... kaya mo yan dont worry.. ako naman kahit hindi hiwalay kay hubby as in lahat ng preparations ako lang mag-isa... yung mga inaasahan kong tutulong.. wala.. hindi naman sa nagbibilang ako ng naitulong pero yung mga taong inaasahan kong katulong ko sana.. wala ni walang pakielam.. samantalang nung birthday ng baby nila ako rin halos lahat nagprepare at nag-ayos.. nung ako na wala na... nakakasama talaga ng loob kasi bandang huli ako na lang nagprepare.. pati yung reception ko biglang nabago 1 week before ng birthday ni baby.. dahil din sa mga taong yun..pero ok lang kasi after nung party, nakita ko na masaya lahat ng tao na pumunta sa party ko, magagaling yung host at clown.. nawala lahat ng pagod at iniyak ko...as in nakakangarag pero it turned out well.. alam ko masaya ang mga visitors ko and very satisfied sa party ko.. ang sarap sa feeling!

magagawa mo yan sis... super woman tayo =) ako lagi ko na lang iniisip next month, tatawanan ko na lahat ng hirap ko dito at sasabihin ko "sisiw".. at yun na nga nangyari.. thinks positive  :)..anyway Good luck sa party mo sis.. aja!
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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #3 on: February 09, 2013, 10:37:41 am »

@ bhea-bhea

Thank you sis! yan na lang din yung iniisip ko, dapat maging positive ako sa lahat ng bagay, gusto kong patunayan kay sd na kaya kong gawin yun ng ako lang mag-isa.   ;)
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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #4 on: February 11, 2013, 01:14:15 pm »

oo naman sis.. kaya mo yan ;D.. di naman tayo bigyan ng problem na hindi natin kaya isolve diba ? :D let's just be happy at ienjoy mo yang pagpeprepare kasi isang beses lang mag 1 year old ang baby natin :D..
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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #5 on: February 13, 2013, 01:20:14 pm »

sis, nung birthday and baptism ni baby, ako lang lahat.

don't over-extend yourself and expect na kaya mo pa yung sa house na party....di mo kaya yan without extra help from your relatives/friends. the best way pa rin is to get the packaged party na, like sa mcdo/jollibee --- the most that you will add will be prizes for the games/lootbag contents. don't forget to spend time to buy clothes for you and your baby.

the nice thing about the packaged parties, is that you have your own host/game master/magician --- and literally, the staff of the venue, becomes your own assistants. they will be the one to hobble over you to count your guests, they will fill the buffet table and entertain the kiddos. all you have to do is invite, and appear for your own party.  ;)

maximize your weekends to scout for the venues, read sa forums via internet to save you time, and schedule all the buying stuff in one go. make it strategic para you won't waste too much precious time. if you can order stuff online, order them, after reading testimonials and recommendations.

goodluck sis! doable yan.

ps. please assign/pay somebody to take photos of that day. don't assign to be your own photographer.
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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #6 on: February 13, 2013, 02:14:02 pm »

nakow sis..sisiw yan..sa first born ko ako lahat from preparation to expenses..binyag at first bday..pati pag gawa ng invitation (inedit nga lang ng tito ko..haha)..ang mga mommies super woman yan..at first kala ko di magugstuhan ng guests ang mga effort..feeling ko nung una kulang ang food baka di nila magustuhan..but in the end nagrereklamo sila sa dami ng food..hahaha super daw sila nabusog at di nila maubos food nila..sa binyag ng anak ko sa resto lang nagpareserve..sa 1st bday sa jabee..
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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #7 on: February 13, 2013, 06:00:09 pm »

SALAMAT PO MAG SIS!

sana makayanan ko ito! isang problem ko pa kc is tight yung budget ko eh kc sariling gastos ko lang talaga ang gagamitin ko! sana makaya ko! katuwa dahil nalampasan nio lahat yan, sana malampasan ko din ito!  ;D
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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #8 on: February 13, 2013, 06:19:54 pm »

@sis shelly ohh - sis kaya mo yan, dami tutulong sa 'yo dito sa mga ideas. Dapat mo lang muna isipin is kung hanggang saan budget mo based sa dami ng guests na gusto mo iinvite. Tama ang sinabi ng mga sis natin, walang di kakayanin para sa baby. Mas madali para sa 'yo if kukuha ka ng packaged party. Para mas mura either sa jollibee, mcdonalds or shakeys etc ka na magpaparty. At least sila na bahala sa lahat. Pero if may budget ka naman mas maganda syempre if catered and my party package from party planners kasi mas masusunod mo lahat ng gusto mo and mas mahaba ang party time.

Basta una mo isipin ilan ba guests mo and hanggang how much budget mo. Then madali na magplan after that. Kaya mo yan sis.
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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #9 on: February 14, 2013, 09:16:03 am »

im a single mom too sis, kaya mo yan.

if your running out of time to prep the birth, enquire ka sis sa jollibee , mcdo, or to any establishment who caters for birthday.
if budget is the problem, just invite those who are closest to you.

actually sis, your kid wont even remember about the party if the kid is just 1 yr.old.. She will just be tired and exhausted.

i got few officemates who opt to have a simple 1st birthday.. Like they went to Tagaytay or Baguio etc, stay for a night or 2. if you got spare money, bring the closest ninang or ninong. Bondng na kayo, less hassle pa.
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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #10 on: February 14, 2013, 11:12:57 am »

thank you mga sis, siguro ganun na lang gagawin ko .. i'm worried lang kung dapat ko bang invite yung family ni SD sa b-day ni baby .. baka kc pag hindi ako nang invite sabihin nila sa akin makasarili ako ... pag ininvite ko naman sila parang ang awkward pag andun sila knowing na nandun yung family ko ... hay ,,,,,
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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #11 on: February 14, 2013, 01:39:04 pm »

Invite mo pa din sis para at least wala sila masabi sa 'yo. Nasa kanila na yun if aattend sila. At least di nila masasabi na nagkulang ka .

Good luck sis!
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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #12 on: February 14, 2013, 03:46:20 pm »

sis ganun na nga lang gagawin ko .. magbigay na lang ako ng invitation sa kanila, bahala na sila kung pupunta sila o hindi!  :P :P :P
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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #13 on: February 15, 2013, 12:01:40 am »

tama sis! Malay mo mgapledge sila na sasagot ng something para sa birthday ni baby hehe
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shelly ohhh!!

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Re: Gaano kahirap mag-asikaso ng birthday ni baby ng ikaw lang mag-isa??
« Reply #14 on: February 15, 2013, 09:33:29 am »

WAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!  good.luck kung mag pledge sila .. magpapa party ako pag nag pledge sila! hahaha ...
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