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ahyzeyuh

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Re: Which surname to use?
« Reply #30 on: August 09, 2013, 09:12:32 am »

Share ko lang sis
im a single parent too, my kid is now 4yrs old and shes using my last name

the father denied my kid nung nagbubuntis pa lang ako, so hindi na ako nag-dalawang isip to use my last name

my kid nagmukha nga kaming magkapatid- we are both same middle and last name hehe

after 1 year the father acknowledge our daughter pero wala pa ring support. we are in speaking terms pero di na kami nagkabalikan which is better  :)

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Re: Which surname to use?
« Reply #31 on: August 12, 2013, 08:08:12 am »

Hi Sis...kung may acknowledgment na ng father, may sign po ba sya sa back part ng Birth Certificate?...if not po sis, surname mo pa rin yung dadalhin niya..and I think dapat po hindi mo nilagyan ng middle name mo kasi lalabas na magkapatid kayo...better check it habang maaga pa para maiwasan na conflict paglaki niya at gagamitin na niya ang birth certificate...
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Re: Which surname to use?
« Reply #32 on: August 12, 2013, 09:50:41 am »

im a single parent too. surname ko ang dinadala ng son ko pero may sign ang father niya sa birth certificate.
does it mean na dapat surname ng father ng baby ko ang gamitin niya since may sign sa birth certificate?

ang gulo lang po kasi kung ano ba naging usapan ng sister ko and ni ex, sila po kasi lang talaga nagkausap.
since ayaw na ko palapitin kay ex dahil nga wala siyang kahit na anong plan nung malaman na preggy ako pero inacknowledge naman niya si baby at nagsign sa birth certificate.

paano po ba?


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Re: Which surname to use?
« Reply #33 on: August 12, 2013, 01:13:01 pm »

@SheIsErika, no need to change your son's surname to that of his father. Although it's good that he acknowledged him by signing the birth certificate kc in d future pag nagkaroon kayo ng issue on support, meron kang primary evidence na magagamit. When he signed the birth certificate kc, you have d option whether or not to let your son use his father's surname, and take note, option lang ha, not mandatory since d naman kayo kasal. :)
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Re: Which surname to use?
« Reply #34 on: August 12, 2013, 01:50:52 pm »

Hello po mga mommies! Single parent din po ako tulad ninyo at pinagiisipan ko kung isusunod ko ba yung apelido ng baby ko sa ex ko. Nasa abroad po sya at nagbibigay naman ng pera monthly. Naghiwalay kami nung July lang po, kasi nalaman ko may gf na sya sa USA. Ngayon nagdadalawang isip ako kung isusunod ko po sa kanya, wala naman po kasi syang nabanggit na dapat sa kanya naka-apelido. Pero my main concern is, pwede ko ba sya i-force na sustentuhan yung anak namen monthly e minor lang po sya? 17 palang po sya at ako po 21. Sana po matulungan nyo ako. Salamat in advance.

Hi sis..suggestion ko lang po regarding sa surname ng baby, isunod mo na lang po sayo...parang its useless naman to have his surname pa eh ganyang parang wala naman na kayong plan to get back together...hindi mo rin siya mapo force to support your child..minsan nga kahit surname na ng tatay ang dala wala pa ring kasiguraduhan ang sustento...be a happy single mom na lang for your baby ;)..POV ko lang po ha
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Re: Which surname to use?
« Reply #35 on: August 12, 2013, 02:41:07 pm »

@ anousheh hi si, thanks for your response.
medyo naguluhan kasi ko i thought it's automatic na
pag nakasign ang daddy dapat surname na niya ans
gagamitin. eh in my case di ganon nangyari.

and mommies mas ok na rin na surname ko ang gamit ni baby
since no communication at all na kay ex. Para di rin hassle sa
mga documents ni baby if ever in  the future atleast ako na lang
ang magdedesisyon.
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« Reply #36 on: March 01, 2019, 04:15:13 pm »

Hi! Newbie po..😊 i need an advice po... i am 2years separated from my husband.. but still using his surname.. i am now 5weeks pregnant with my new boyfriend.. does anyone do have an idea kung pano magiging surname ng baby ko..???
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