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gladys_gvp

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Yaya's day off/vacation
« on: February 13, 2012, 05:36:41 pm »

mga sis, this is not the first time na mangyari to.

our yaya is only 2 months working with us.she started last dec 11, sa usapan namin may once a week off sya which is on sundays dahil yun lang yung time na nasa bahay kami magasawa.

nung dec 25 nagoff sya pero 3days bago bumalik.so nasira ang sched ko.i had to file a leave para alagaan kids.

last month di niya ginamit mga off niya,tapos kahapon nagoff sya until now wala pa...had to file a leave again...so frustrating...

pano po b gagawin ko?...

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Re: what to do with my yaya?
« Reply #1 on: February 13, 2012, 06:03:53 pm »

ipaintindi sa kanya na hindi niya dapat ginagawa yan. kahit sabihin na hindi siya nag off ng 1 month dapat magpasabi siya ahead of time kung ilang araw niya balak mag off.

ganyan din nangyari sakin before. magdadahilan na ayaw pa pauwiin ng tatay niya or mag swimming sila at dapat sama sama, may debut dapat sama sama laging sama sama. Sabi ko sa kanya (mahinahon na tono) na kinuha ko siya kasi kelangan ko siya sa bahay. meron siyang makatarungan na off etc pero sana wag naman lubusin kasi pag sweldo hindi naman nagbabawas dahil ang liit na nga ng 3k tapos babawasan pa.

bigyan mo ng warning sis. pwede rin na sabihin na kakaltas mo yung araw na hindi siya pumasok ang problema kasi minsan pag ganyan sistema baka mag off ng mahaba kasi isipin naman niya na ikakaltas naman sa sweldo niya. kausapin mo muna. pag ok naman reason niya kaw na bahala.. pag hindi walang choice kundi maghanap ng iba. alam kong mahirap kaso nga lang malaking epekto yang ginagawa niya sa work mo
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Re: what to do with my yaya?
« Reply #2 on: February 13, 2012, 06:30:05 pm »

She got used to it, sis. Because she knows you can afford to file for leave whenever she's not around. You have to make her understand that your work is valuable to you because it entails part of her salary also.

We always emphasize with our newly-hired helpers that weekends are important for us, especially that we need to rest or it's our time to do other activities. In fact, i have unloaded my helper's work during weekends so that they can watch over the kids while we catch some sleep or catch up with our social lives.

We also bring them out on weekends at times so that they'll have something to look forward to. 

The last time we had a maid like that, we deducted from her salary the number of days she was absent esp. on weekdays.  Here in the province, we only allow one weekend for them to go home, but they can go malling after church once a week.
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Re: what to do with my yaya?
« Reply #3 on: February 17, 2012, 05:57:22 pm »

Try to look for another more reliable made. Kasi her actions will affect your work.. if you have an understanding boss okay lang. But if it will happen more in the future, kawawa ka. Also, in the meantime na you're looking for a replacement and still employ your current yaya, see if any of your relatives can take care of the kids IN CASE your yaya decides to go AWOL for a few days.
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Re: what to do with my yaya?
« Reply #4 on: February 17, 2012, 06:05:08 pm »

1 overnight lang off ng yaya/maid ko in a month. pagsumobra sila dun sa susunod na buwan hindi na sila pwede mag-off.
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Re: what to do with my yaya?
« Reply #5 on: February 22, 2012, 09:14:13 pm »

hi mga sis...di na bumalik si yaya...nalaman ko buntis pala sya. nabuntis ng boy ng neighbor namin.ayun nagtanan na..eto looking for another one parin... :(
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Yaya's day off/vacation
« Reply #6 on: April 04, 2012, 10:50:15 am »

hi mga sis! gusto ko lang mag tanong regarding your yayas' day off. its my first time to hire an all around yaya. ok lang naman kasi sakin yung once a week mag day off pero dapat scheduled. kunwari every sunday. pero nangyari kasi sa yaya ko dito, parang magpapa alam na mag day off kung ano ano araw kahit once a week. minsan sunday, tuesday, wednesday. iba iba. so kinaiinis ko lang is ang hirap naman nun kasi para ako mag aadjust sa schedule niya kung kelan siya mag day off hindi ba? so sinabihan ko nung christmas na mag allot kami na day talga hindi yung pa sulpot sulpot lang unless emergency. so this year, na lessen na yung mga eksena na yun and nag sasabi siya in advance. pero sa inyo mga sis, whats the usual arrangement for day off?

then yung vacation leave naman, taga province kasi yaya namin, parang kaka 6 months pa lang niya samin nun feb naka 2 times na umuwi ng province. yung isa sagot ko fare kasi christmas naman. pero yung problem ko kasi ayaw ko yung matagal nawawala. yung 3 days parang ang tagal na nun kung lagi siya uwi ng uwi for 3 days right? mas ok na na mag day off siya lagi once a week kesa yung iipunin na isang bagsakan na matagal. parang this march and this april nga every week siya day off then uuwi pa siya province next week for 3 days.

help mga sis. enlighten me. am i being to strict or normal lang yung mga ganun day off and pag uwi uwi ng yaya?
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Re: Yaya's day off/vacation
« Reply #7 on: June 25, 2013, 11:50:56 pm »

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Re: Yaya's day off/vacation
« Reply #8 on: July 05, 2013, 01:57:09 am »

Si yaya gusto kong mag day off.  Ang usapan namin ay once a week, kaso siya ang may ayaw.  Nung birthday niya, sinabihan namin siyang mag day off.  Ayaw niya at gastos lang daw yun.  Naawa naman ako kaya binilhan ko na lang siya ng gift.   ;D
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