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☆♥♡unica hija☆♥♡

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HIndii ko alam ano gagawin ko. I cannot find a job here in the province where me, my mom and my son stays. There is a job offer for me in Manila. Hindi ko alam kung itutuloy ko ba. My son is 10 and incoming 6th grader kaya mahirap ng itransfer ngayon. Singlemom ako and it is so hard for me to leave my son. Kahit alam kong big boy na siya para sa akin kasi baby pa din siya. Okay lang sana kung malapit lang province namin, eh super layo, ,more than 1 hr by plane :(
Ano ba dapat kong gawin?   :(
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Re: Should I work in Manila and leave my son here in the province?
« Reply #1 on: May 03, 2013, 12:01:38 am »

Sis, pray for the answer. Ask guidance na lang ke Lord, kasi he will send you the opportunity that will be best not only for your son but for you as well. ;)

Naalala kita hindi ba ikaw yung nagtatanong kung pwede nang mag commute ang anak mong mag isa sa school? What a loving mom you are.
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☆♥♡unica hija☆♥♡

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Re: Should I work in Manila and leave my son here in the province?
« Reply #2 on: May 03, 2013, 07:32:31 am »

BrightasDay - yes mommy ako nga!  ;D thanks and I'm sure lahat tayo loving moms!
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Re: Should I work in Manila and leave my son here in the province?
« Reply #3 on: May 09, 2013, 04:12:53 pm »

Hi Mommy!

Pray tayo na makakita ka ng work near your area para you don't
have to leave your son anymore.

Share ko lang sa ito story ko sis ha. I'm a regular office employee
2 years ako. Nagresign naman ako from work dahil gusto kong
mag SAHM pra alagaaan ang anak ko. Hindi rin naman ganun kalaki
salary ni hubby.

Siguro mga first few months masaya kasi bakasyon eh. Until dumating
yung time na gusto ko mag work ulit while my son is in school. hanap ako
sa internet. Dami ko nakita mga work from home. yung iba need mo pa maglabas
ng pera para kumita. Mga PTC (Paid To Click) alam mo na yun?

Tgal ko ring nag browse sa internet. Swerte naman may nakita akong seminar sa isang
blog. Try naman ako. Wala naman kasi mawawala e..

Kaya ayun sis may work na ako. Sa bahay lang ako...
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☆♥♡unica hija☆♥♡

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Re: Should I work in Manila and leave my son here in the province?
« Reply #4 on: May 09, 2013, 08:34:39 pm »

I decided to just stay with my son. Pray na lang lay Lord na makahanap ako ng work dito sa province. Kahit mas maliit sweldo basta magkasama kami ng unico hijo ko. Kurot lang sa pag gastos at wag dakot para magkasya sweldo. Thanks mommies sa mga advice.  :)
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Re: Should I work in Manila and leave my son here in the province?
« Reply #5 on: May 10, 2013, 10:25:32 am »

Hello mommy!  May I ask if you can access unlimited internet in your province or do you have internet subscription at home?  Kasi pwede ka naman mag work at home eh... I have been a stay at home mom (SAHM) and work at home mom (WAHM) for more than two years already.  No need to be a technical person to work from home ha.  Check out odesk.com, onlinejobs.ph, elance.com and other legit sites to get good paying online jobs.  If you are willing to learn and work in front of the computer, no need to travel far to earn.

You can tart part time lang then go fulltime later on when you have adjusted to it na.

I am enjoying a lot of benefits na ngayon kas nasa bahay lang ako.  I can nap in the afternoon with the kids.  I can cook for them during meals and know what food they eat.  I can also accompany my son to school ad fetch him after school kasi malapit lang ang school eh.  Galing talaga nitong option to work at home for me. :)
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Re: Should I work in Manila and leave my son here in the province?
« Reply #6 on: May 10, 2013, 11:35:44 am »

I tried Odesk kaya lang mag 2 months na wala pa din ako nakukuha na work, nadidiscourage na nga ako eh. :(
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Re: Should I work in Manila and leave my son here in the province?
« Reply #7 on: May 15, 2013, 05:14:13 pm »

Sis  wag ka mawalan ng pag-asa. Hindi lang naman odesk, try mo sa Freelancer, Elance, Craiglist etc. Im sure
na you'll find a gig na suited sa skills mo.

If you son needs more time then part time ka muna.  Para you can adjust your working hours at your convenience.
You don't have to leave your baby and work in Manila. Marami ka makikita online.

I found a group in FB, they help talaga mga newbies lalo na mga walang experience  sa work from home job/gig. I learned a lot from this group. Si Jomar Hilario ang mentor.

If you're interested you can visit: The Most Active Pinoy Work sa Bahay Forum  -- The Jomar Hilario Mastery Facebook group -- for free updates and lessons! http://jhilario.com/jhmastery

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Re: Should I work in Manila and leave my son here in the province?
« Reply #8 on: May 27, 2013, 10:56:06 am »

I tried Odesk kaya lang mag 2 months na wala pa din ako nakukuha na work, nadidiscourage na nga ako eh. :(

Dont stick to odesk lang.  meron namang elance, onlinejobs.ph, freelancer at iba pa... just like the traditional job application (physical job - going to an office) you need to give as much job application to an online job.

I started looking for an online job since 2009, I attended an online marketing workshop in 2009 peru iba kasi yun.  You work on it then you will have semi passive income.  I want a job na may immediate salary.  I was able to start working at home with a legitimate job talaga by feb 2011.  so if you only waited for two months, do not give up.  I waited for almost two years... I was doing ptc (so low earning - almost wala) and captcha encoding (illegal pala yun).  I started writing articles on anything tapos now I have moved on to work for an online marketer nah... :)
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Re: Should I work in Manila and leave my son here in the province?
« Reply #9 on: May 28, 2013, 09:31:43 am »

yes patience talaga.

Me naman, got my first ever online work sa odesk. General Psychologist ang client ko.
Hays, lam mo ba wala ako knowledge kung ano gagawin ko coz super newbie lang ako.                                                                                          I attended the seminar Sept 2012, then Nov of the same year may work na ako.

By June, 7 months na pala akong VA, virtual assistant, work from home mom(WAHM).
Until now, hindi pa rin ako makapaniwala na sa bahay lang ako nawo-work. Kasama
ko pa lagi ang anak ko.

Hindi ko nami-miss office work ko. Pano naman boss ko lagi nasa likod lang, tapos mga office
politics hindi nawawala. Nakakasawa na!
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