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[hollabackgirl]

Hi mga mommies..just had my ultrasound today to know my babys' gender. I really expected a boy but then my heart is broken nung nalaman ko girl pala sya. I pretended to be excited but I feel very miserable. I cried when I got home. We are all hoping for a boy sana.

Parang hindi ko kayang mag raise ng baby girl, na hihiya tuloy ako kay baby pag na fifeel ko siya sumipa naiiyak ako. Parang d na ako masyado excited makita sya

Do you experienced this? Am i such a bad mother for not wanting her??..

[chardonnay]

Hi Mommy, na sad ako. bakit ayaw mo ng girl? First born ba yan? Ako eversince girl gusto ko pero hubby wants a boy so okay lang din sa akin pero after scan girl sya. I know there's a slight panghihinayang sa hubby ko pero in one of our check ups, meron ding couple dun na girl ang first born tapos saya ng kwento kwento nila. Ngayon, may tagline is " I especially thank God for little girls " . Not that I have anything bad with little boys, saya lang kasi pag girl kasi I feel like having a mini me then I always find it cute to see dad & daughter together kahit sa pic lang

Tsaka sis why would you think u can't raise a girl? Baka dala lang ng hormones yan depression mo sis. Kahit ano pa si baby siguradong mapapasaya ka niya pag labas niya so please don't feel bad tsaka mararamdaman niya yang feelings mo. Goodluck!

[lizie5]

hi sis, nasad ako nun nabasa ko un post mo.. nakakaawa naman si baby.. possible na hormones mo lang din yan.. hindi ka naman bad mother.. don't worry.. I'm sure paglabas ni baby, mafafall in love ka sa kanya..

we've been trying for 4 years, then nun time na naggive up na ako, bigla ako nabuntis.. very thankful ky God.. pag tatanungin mo kami ni hubby, boy or girl eh okay lang sa amin kahit ano.. ganun kami kasabik.. ako mas gusto ko boy, si hubby mas gusto niya girl kc malalambing mo ang girl kahit malaki na so okay na din sa akin ang girl.. may pangalan na kami dapat kung girl baby namin, at tinatawag na namin syang sofia.. nun ultrasound, boy pala un baby namin.. hehe.. so ngayon, wala pa kaming name kay baby boy.. hehe  gender is really not impt to us, ang importante e healthy si baby at magka-anak kami.. next time hopefully girl naman.. kung boy uli edi thank you pa rin.. sa totoo lang, maganda naman magka girl na baby kc may mini me ka.. tapos madadamitan mo sya ng kahit na anung gusto mo.. at mayayakap mo sya kahit dalaga na sila

be happy and thankful sis.. try not to be sad kc nakakaawa si baby.. para mabawasan un lungkot mo, punta ka sa mga mothercare or kahit anung bilihan ng damit ng baby, magtingin ka ng damit ng baby girl.. matutuwa ka, ang cute cute!  gusto nga ng family ng hubby ko magbibili ng damit for baby girl, kaso boy anak namin.. heheh hindi nila pwede lagyan ng headband n flower.. first apo kasi sa side ni hubby..

don't worry sa pagpapalaki kay baby girl.. kaya mo yan..

ang dami damming gustong magkaanak.. may friend ko, 10 years na sila nagttry pero wala pa rin.. we're so lucky and blessed to get pregnant at ikaw rin.. congratulation sis!!!

[roselsmum]

I've been with this situation. I have 2 girls na so me and hubby is hoping for a baby boy. We actually don't want to have an ultrasound, however, our ob recommended to have one since medyo kakaiba pregnancy ko nun. Then, we heard the news...it's a baby girl, AGAIN! I felt sorry and so was my hubby, however, I don't want my hubby to see that because he has a weaker personality. So, what I did is too boost him...I told him na he'll be loved more since we have girls. And, at least, our baby is normal...and so on.

It's fine if you feel disappointed, but remember, your baby in your womb will also feel that. And, it might have an impact to her when goes out.

[trish_avellana]

You are not a bad mother.  Your disappointment leveled up because of hormones.  Leave it at that.  And talk to your baby inside that you are not blaming her.  I learned that how we feel during our pregnancy can affect the baby.  So please stop feeling disappointed.  Just be thankful that your baby is healthy!

I know friends who have been trying (and still trying up to now) to have babies.  Babies - boy or girl- is a blessing.  Feel blessed to be given that gift   I have two boys and I would very much welcome a girl next time I get pregnant

[Mommy ni KC]

Hello mommy! I am also a soon to be mom. I was also expecting for a baby boy since na yun ang gusto ng daddy ng baby ko and my bros wants a boy also. Ako naman kahit anong  gender niya as along as healthy sya weather a boy or a girl. Then when i got my US result girl niya then hindi pa  ako satisfied i went for another US this time 100% girl talaga sya. Still we're happy, tanggap namin sya ng buong buo sa family since sya palang ulit ang girl sa family namin and sa side ng daddy niya. Wag ka pong ma dis appoint mommy, siguro meron dahilan kaya binigyan ka ng girl. Just believe in yourself and think positive. She will be  a great baby girl pag dumating na sya sayo. Hindi ka naman Bad. Darating din yung time na matatangap mo sya ng Buo.

[hollabackgirl]

just woke up with tears in my eyes..napaginipan ko si baby girl sabi niya '' excited na ako makita ka mommy i love you mommy'' tapos hinug niya ako..

sobrang na touch ako

[baby rose li]

sis don't worry so much about the gender, like others that replied in this thread, a baby kahit anung gender is a blessing from God. I was diagnosed with PCOS noon and the doctor told me na mahihirapan ako mabuntis. And after years of trying without any medications taken we were able to conceive normally. I was so happy and thankful kay God becuase I know na He gave me this blessing becuase it was really for me. In my prayers I always thank Him and sabi ko kahit anung gender masaya na ako, pero sa loob loob ko I wanted a baby girl And when I got a CAS ayun nakita na rin ang gender na baby girl nga, I'm so happy. Pero kahit naman boy siya I will be happy din kasi iniisip ko mga boy stuff na puwede niya din mamana sa daddy like playing basketball etc.

I'm sure magiging okay ka din sis. Like sabi ng iba baka nga pinapalakas ng hormones mo ang disapointment na nararamdaman mo. Isipin mo nalang ang mga girly things na the two of you can do together I'm sure you will be excited to see your little princess soon enough.

Good luck sis

[roselsmum]

^^See, sis hollabackgirl. Because nararamdaman ni baby how you feel...

[SheIsErika]

@hollabackgirl, nasad ako when i read your story. whether it's a girl or a boy, that's a gift from God that you must be thankful for. may iba dyan na gusto magkababy pero di nabibiyayaan, that's a blessing. be happy for what God has given you. hopefully maovercome mo yang ganyang feeling, and for sure pag nakita mo na si baby mawawala na yang ganyang feeling mo. i'm telling you super mamahalin mo ang batang yan. that's a blessing. I'll pray for you sis.

[CallcenterMom]

I was looking forward in having aboy.  When I found out na girl, hindi pa rin ako naniwala.  Lahat ng things na binili ko blue.  Pero girl talaga ang lumabas.  After 8 yrs, I can say I'm blessed to have her in my life.  Sweetest child for me.

[licious10]

dnt feel bad,si bf gusto boy,i want girl..then we have a bb girl,guess what?ako inaaway ni bf pag pinapagalitan ko prinsesa niya.hehe spoiled papa's girl @ 7mos,its a blessing kahit ano pa sya.pero hoping pa din kame ng bb boy after 10yrs.haha

[julia_18]

Sa firstborn ko, according to the sonologist eh 70% girl daw kasi wala daw "balls". I bought everything in girly colors. At the delivery room, OB asked me kung ano ini-expect ko according sa ultrasound. Sabi ko girl. Biglang sabi niya na boy daw ang baby ko. Sabi ko, Ha bakit boy?! If it were not na kilala ko yung OB (my son's grand-aunt!) iisipin ko na napalitan ang baby ko. Altho wala din akong kasabay na nanganak nun. He's 18 now and smart! I overxame my disappointment the minutenI firsr laid eyes on him.

[ChinitaQueen]

I came back for this thread.. I'm already with my baby girl and super saya ko na girl ang baby ko.. I have no regrets she's super cuuteee!

Nakaka touch ang story mo sis... Lalo na nung napanaginipan mo na siya. Ang saya magka baby girl diba? Ako din gusto ko ng boy noon pero nalaman namin sa ultrasound na girl. Na dissapoint din ako nung una pero after ilang minutes lang na convince ko na ang sarili ko na masaya ang baby girl lalo na pag eldest. Kasi, gaya ng na explain ko sa kabilang thread, siya ang hahawak sa bond ng family. Mas caring, chismosa  and paki-alamera kasi ang girl so aalamin niya talaga kung may problema ang mga kapatid niya or parents niya tapos gagawan niya ito ng paraan. Di gaya ng boys though caring naman, nahihiya kasi sila mag express kaya minsan dedma.. Hubby ko kasi all boys sila at ganyan nga... Di pa malambing sa mama nila.

[Mommy ni KC]

Hello Guys! Im back wheewwwwww....
Sorry medyo hindi ko na kasi na masyadong navivisit eto. Busy sa work ehh and Busy sa baby ko. Sis @Holla backgirl, How are you doing now with your baby girl? Gave birth yet?
Ako super happy kahit madaming "masalimoot " na  nangyayari hehe. Just imagining how my baby girl smiles, she's super cute talaga so dont be sad na. ohh by way her nickname is "KC" short for Kathrynn Claire. Her baptism is coming soon. I just miss this thread and just want to share how happy i am with my little cute baby girl.

For all mommies out there! Every baby is a blessing. whether girl or boy, all soon to be mommies and mommies must feel blessed for having them.