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mamianne

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How to deal with moody MIL?
« on: May 19, 2013, 10:44:00 am »

When I moved in with them (si FIL wala, he's in Australia), 3 months ago, okay naman, di pa kame married ng bf ko, first month, ang siste namin, pag weeekdays, dun ako samin, pag weekends sakanila. So pabalik-balik ako, sabi ni MIL that time, wag ko na daw iuwi yung mga damit ko samin, so ginawa ko naman. Sha naglalaba ng mga damit ko, nagugulat na lang ako, wala na yung mga dirty clothes sa hamper, yun pala nalabahan na. Since di ko naman talaga kaya maglaba, ang tulong na lang na nagagawa ko, is to clean the house pag wala ako pasok (walis, mop ng sahig,  ligpit ng kalat ng mga kapatid ni bf) kahit , hugas ng pinggan, ganun lang..

My problem is, minsan di ko alam kung bakit di sha namamansin. May mood na ang sungit niya, feeling ko dahil sakin, kahit la naman ako ginagawa. haaaaay.


Pag ganun, gusto ko na lang bumalik sa bahay namin,. atleast dun komportable ako :(
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Nanay ni Liam

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Re: How to deal with moody MIL?
« Reply #1 on: July 19, 2013, 12:46:18 pm »

Had the same experience sis. Nung bf/gf pa kami, few months before the wedding i spent few days and nights sa house nila bf nun. Then when we got married dun pa din setup kasi wala naman ako work nun. After 2mos gusto ni hubby na stay na ko sa kanila kase kasal naman na kame. Nung nagtagal and i started working, minsan napapansin ko basta na lang hindi kumikibo si mil. Deadma lang ako pero sinasabi ko kay hubby yung observations ko. Hahayaan din ni hubby nun. Hehe!

 Pero i told hubby na sana magkaroon kami ng sariling house kase ayoko ng ganung feeling, parang nababastos. Thats what we did. Sakto din kasi naisip din ni hubby yung bumukod kami kaya mutual decision sya. Now napansin ni hubby mas maganda ang trato ni mil samin now tho minsan may mga side comments pa rin na hindi maganda, deadma na lang kami. Hehe!
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Geraldine Cagape

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Re: How to deal with moody MIL?
« Reply #2 on: July 26, 2016, 11:57:16 am »

Have the same problems with in laws..mabait naman sila and as much as possible ayokong magkaroon kami nang conflict..kaya ako gumagawa nang paraan para maging smooth reLAtionship namin all thRoughout..

actually may nabasa akong blog and it helps me a lot really..you can visit here http://www.situment.awonsa.com/how-to-have-a-good-relationship-with-the-parent-in-laws/

its really confusing a lot lalo na pg first time..but as time goes by, makakasanayan rin yan mga mommies...
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