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Author Topic: To go back to work or to stay at home?!?  (Read 11489 times)

jem.sexy@yahoo.com

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Re: To go back to work or to stay at home?!?
« Reply #30 on: October 24, 2012, 04:27:31 pm »

^i really liked what you've posted

" lagi kasi dapat iisipin ng tao na kung well compensated ka ba sa effort and time mo. kung sa case mo kaya ni hubby buhayin family niyo that's a plus. kung naghahanap ka naman for self fulfillment and may sarili ka pera pwede ka magpart time work or sideline lang na business."

parang light bulb moment itong statement na ito for me, ty.

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Re: To go back to work or to stay at home?!?
« Reply #31 on: October 24, 2012, 04:37:02 pm »

Actually sis aries_momma, yan ang target ko ... at least 30k ang salary kung babalik ako ng work... But still, ayaw pa din ni hubby... pag 70k daw ang salary ko baka sakali pang magbago daw isip niya  ;D

Mahirap na talaga mag magdecide sa life once you become a mom because your children changes your priorities... Mas worried ka kung kamusta ang mga kids mo sa bahay than the deadliest deadlines to meet sa work mo... kaya up to now, SAHM pa din ako :D
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Re: To go back to work or to stay at home?!?
« Reply #32 on: October 24, 2012, 04:54:05 pm »

^so true you're post

"Mahirap na talaga mag magdecide sa life once you become a mom because your children changes your priorities... Mas worried ka kung kamusta ang mga kids mo sa bahay than the deadliest deadlines to meet sa work mo..."
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Re: To go back to work or to stay at home?!?
« Reply #33 on: October 24, 2012, 06:13:25 pm »

Thankful ako kay hubby kasi he's been so supportive with my career. ayaw niya akong tumigil sa work not because hindi namin kaya financialy, but because for my own personal growth. ayaw niya daw na balang araw malosyang ako sa house at kalawangin ang utak ko. alam niya kasi na hindi ako yung tipo ng babae na pambahay lang. I want to keep on going, I love adrenalin rush.
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Re: To go back to work or to stay at home?!?
« Reply #34 on: April 20, 2013, 01:45:50 am »

Read stories from 4 moms who chose to stay-at-home


Grab the April 2013 issue of Smart Parenting
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Re: To go back to work or to stay at home?!?
« Reply #35 on: May 16, 2013, 09:12:31 am »

If you hubby allows you to work at okay lang sa kanya, why not? Ganyan din ang worries ko before (nung may office work pa ako). Do you have relatives ba to look after sa yaya? Para no worries ka rin na all is well kapag nasa office ka. just make sure you could still perform your duties as a wife and mother., that's more important.. time management lang yan at diskarte

But there's other way naman sis, you can try looking for online work. Work sa bahay, para you don't have to leave the kids with other people/yaya. Pwede rin you can hired one,  you're there naman to look after the yaya.

You can work anytime at the comfort of your home, Plus you also have more time sa kids mo. May income ka pa.

Why don't you try sis.
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Re: To go back to work or to stay at home?!?
« Reply #36 on: May 27, 2013, 07:20:21 pm »

Hi Sis,

For me, stay at home ka na lang. Para you have more time with your kids. Ako ilang years
din nag office work. Pero dumating yung point sa buhay ko na gusto ko family naman ang
priority ko. Yung anak ang uunahin kesa sa work.

Hindi naman ako nagsisi. After 1 year na sa bahay lang, swerte at may nakita ako seminar
sa isang blog. Seminar ng mga gustong mag work kahit sa bahay lang. I attended the seminar
Sept 15 2012. Alam mo ba by Nov 23 2012 nakakuha ako na online gig/job.

Kaya happy na rin ako. Though at first hindi ganun kalaki ang income. But in time, once marami
na akong online skills na alam, more income na yun for sure.
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Re: To go back to work or to stay at home?!?
« Reply #37 on: June 07, 2013, 05:59:38 pm »

Sis momsi pashare naman po what kind of job. :)
I'm Sahm for almost 2 years, at gusto ko na din bumalik sa work kaya lang takot ako iwan si baby. Ayaw ko kase naiiwan sa iba anak ko kaya no choice but to stay at home.
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Re: To go back to work or to stay at home?!?
« Reply #38 on: July 03, 2013, 04:59:23 pm »

Hi sis, gusto ko rin sana na SAHM kaso hubby asked me to help financially.  So ito nag wowork na ko.  Blessed naman ako sa work ko kasi, ngayon, na approve ang hinihingil kong schedule.  I will have more time for my baby.  Uwi ko na ngayon sa house ay before 4pm.  Kaya happy na rin ako.  At least now, I could give sa family, sa sarili ko and sa church namin.  Although siympre, may cons pa rin.  Pagod ako and I had to stop breastfeeding my baby.  Di ba she stopped at age 2 years old.  Ok na siguro yun di ba?  :D
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Re: To go back to work or to stay at home?!?
« Reply #39 on: December 27, 2018, 09:20:36 pm »

Read it on Smart Parenting.
Blogger Mom's Chart Comparing Working and Stay-at-Home Moms Causes Uproar

Click this link:
https://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parenting/real-parenting/stay-at-home-moms-vs-working-moms-controversial-chart-a00228-20181226?ref=?ref=parentchat
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