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twinkle.star

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lack of sex drive after giving birth
« on: October 11, 2013, 12:14:11 am »

hi lahat, give me some advices naman po.. My problem is, I gave birth 6 mos ago.. Way back during my pregnancy, hindi kami nag iintercourse ng partner ko kasi advice ng OB ko dahil maselan ako magbuntis. Until nanganak na ako, hindi ko na feel and ayaw ko na makipag-do saknya. Hindi ko alam kung bakit pero hindi ko na ata feel.. ano ang gagawin ko para mawala yung feeling kong ganon??. thanks in advance :)

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Re: hindi maipaliwanag na feeling..
« Reply #1 on: October 11, 2013, 08:21:22 am »

Hoping may makasagot sis..we're in the same boat kasi...ako naman since nalaman kong pregnant ako di na kami nag do kasi natatakot akong baka kung anong mangyari sa baby namin...our daughter is turning 1 this nov...pero mas mahaba pa dun ang di namin pagdo do ni hubby...most of the time he understands naman..pero ako kasi parang ayaw ko na talaga mag ganun...parang wala ng puwang ang bagay na un sa akin eversince...though alam ko naman na marital responsibility yun pero anong magagawa ko kung di ko na feel?...akala ko ko abnormal ako..kasi yung mga ibang nababasa ko dito sa SP nung bigyan daw sila ng go signal ng OB go na ulit sila sa usual activity eh...
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Re: hindi maipaliwanag na feeling..
« Reply #2 on: October 11, 2013, 03:13:36 pm »

Sex after pregnancy is often delayed for several weeks or months, and may be difficult and painful for women. Injury to the perineum or surgical cuts (episiotomy) to the vagina during childbirth can cause sexual dysfunction. Sexual activity other than sexual intercourse is possible sooner, but some women experience a prolonged loss of sexual desire after giving birth, which may be associated with postnatal depression. Common issues that may last more than a year after birth are greater desire by the man than the woman, and a worsening of the woman's body image.[

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Re: hindi maipaliwanag na feeling..
« Reply #3 on: October 29, 2013, 04:19:33 pm »

yes, been there too sisses!..

part kasi ng post partum yung lack of desire to make love kay hubby.. pero eventually maibabalik din yun.. dapat lang din na malaman ni hubby/partner mo yung pakiramdam mo kasi yung ibang lalake, hindi nila alam yung post partum stage nating mga babae so inform him.. some guys understand while others, hindi.. nasa tamang pag uusap lang naman yan..
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Re: hindi maipaliwanag na feeling..
« Reply #4 on: October 30, 2013, 12:27:46 pm »

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« Reply #5 on: November 27, 2016, 12:25:09 pm »

Mag bf pa lang kami ng hubby ko hilig na namen mag sex everyday  at pareho namen gusto un. Then after nabuntis ako and now 2 years na yung anak ko. Buntis pa lang ako nawala na ang hilig ko sa sex kaya minsan nagtatampo na yung mister ko saakin. Ano bang dapat kong gawin para bumalik ulit un ? Nangyare na po un sainyo? Natatakot ako baka mamaya maghanap sya ng iba . Kase palagi ko syang inaayawan kapag inaaya niya ako.
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