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Author Topic: I need an advice. I am going to be a teen mom.  (Read 7638 times)

chabilita09

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Re: I need an advice. I am going to be a teen mom.
« Reply #15 on: October 22, 2013, 01:27:28 am »

Try proposing kay bf mo sis kung okay ba sakanya na while you're preggy jan muna sainyo makapagstay. Since diba sabi mo nga hindi kayo financially stable. Parang kami ng partner ko dito muna sya nagstay sa amin para bawas gastos din muna from renting a place of his own. And kung if ever ang gastos nalang para sa aming tatlo. Good thing naman open na open family ko sa pagstay niya dito. Hiya na nga ako sakanya kaya tinutulungan ko sya ngayon in working.

Good thing din naman na you and your father are okay na. Mahal na mahal ka talaga basta family. I think sis mas magiging kampante family mo kung the guy stays with you while you're having your pregnancy. Sa ganung paraan mas nakikilala nila yung guy and nawawala yung gap na nadedevelop dahil sa turn ng events. Iba din kasi yung dalaw sa staying talaga. Sabi nga ni papa ko, "iba padin daw talaga yung nakikita yung lalake sa bahay ng babaeng nabuntis niya." Meaning its never enough sa dalaw lang. Syempre need magain ng father ng baby mo yung trust ng family mo.

As for the kids of your bf, convince him to stay close to them. Kahit sa mga bata nalang. Encourage him to see them every now and then. Not yung bdays lang nila. Syempre iba yung feeling ng mga kids na bday lang nakikita yung dad nila. Tapos kung malalaman pa nilang you're gonna have a baby with their dad, iba yung selos and possible na hatred na madevelop between both parties. Nasabi ko to kasi mga kuya ko anak ng papa ko sa ibang babae. And they never grew up with my father. Tama yung naisip mo din welfare ng family niya. Consider mong nauna sila before pa naging kayo. Kumbaga nag exist na sila kahit di pa kayo magkakilala.

Payo ko lang naman yun and based lang din sa perspective ko..

Just keep seeking guidance from above and pray that you would be guided to do the very right thing. :)

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maria juana

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Re: I need an advice. I am going to be a teen mom.
« Reply #16 on: October 23, 2013, 11:01:26 am »

Hi sis! I truly understand your situation!  Try to meditate and think things over. I know its hard! Its really hard now that you are pregnant! The best thing that I could offer you is PRAYER! Just lift everything to HIM! Given that you have a relationship to a married man, LET IT BE! You can't change it! All you have to do, is to take care of yourself and your baby. Don't let yourself be bothered by unfair accusations! It actually wouldn't help you! LILIPAS DIN YAN!
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