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happiemom

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My best friend is my worst enemy
« on: December 10, 2013, 05:27:36 pm »

any one who can share your story about your best friend turn to be your worst enemy? in my situation now yan ang eksena sa buhay ko..pero ok nadin lumabas ang totoo nyang kulay nung nag ka roon kami ng misunderstanding... sa isang maliit na bagay.. its been months at super galit padin sya na di ko alm bakit sya ganun. hehe buti pako walang bitterness... :P natatawa na nga lang ako sa mga message niya sakin na ...hello off topic na.  wala akong regrets na ngyari to samin, and im still happy at mas kinikilala ko na nagyon yung mga nagiging friend ko")

sa inyo anung naging reason why ur bestfriend is now ur worst enemy?
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Re: MY BESTFRIEND IS MY WORST ENEMY
« Reply #1 on: December 11, 2013, 07:41:12 am »

my best friend she got pregnant and nakunan back in college. sa boarding house pinagkakalat niya na ako ang buntis at nagpalaglag daw...pero since between us, kilala naman ng mga tao kung sino malande samin, alam nila na siya etong nabuntis.

marami pang instances, like sa pera, she would take money from my wallet, she would say na babayaran niya pero untill now, more than 10years na hindi na siya nakabayad.

no bitterness. kinuha ko pa rin sia ninang ng anak ko.
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Re: MY BESTFRIEND IS MY WORST ENEMY
« Reply #2 on: December 11, 2013, 12:45:38 pm »

I used to have one back in high school... not sure now if best friend ko nga ba talaga siya before?

Ako tabuhan at councilor niya ng problems, assistant niya, if needed, etc. Like a loyal friend, I'm there for her each and every time.  But if buhay ang lovelife niya, out of the picture ako... then she'll come back again when "over" na sila, for a shoulder to cry on....

what makes me "break up" with her is when she failed to attend my wedding... instead of telling me directly why she stood me up, she told our boy barkada (with whom she had a huge crush on) na nasiraan daw yun car niya.... when in fact she can reach me or my parents anytime and in anyway, like she always do.

Although my reason seems mabababaw, I guess that was the last straw.  I realized she will never be there for me now nor in the future.  It's herself she cares about, her world and ours should revolve around hers only...

From then on, I refused to have any contact with her na even may effort siyang kumontak sa akin (by the way, inaaanak ko yung anak din niya),  All the while, she thought na pinag babawalan ako ng asawa ko to talk to her.... so just I leave it at that.

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Re: MY BESTFRIEND IS MY WORST ENEMY
« Reply #3 on: December 11, 2013, 05:17:08 pm »

nagkatext ulet ulet kami ng former bestf. ko at hindi ako makapaniwala na masasabi niya sakin yung mga bagy na di ko ineexpect kasi were bestf before like dati sinasabi niya na ako daw yung mas maganda samin 4, tapos kahon sasabihin sakin "atleast ako maganda ako" hindi ako losyang slow daw ako ..at iba pa na masasakit na salita na talgang na shock ako. kinukuha ko lang naman yung gamit ko na hanggang ngayon di pa niya nasosoli. tapos ang dami dami na ya sinabi sakin ..nice naman yung text ko sa kanya. high bitter sya masyado.
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Re: MY BESTFRIEND IS MY WORST ENEMY
« Reply #4 on: December 12, 2013, 01:54:18 pm »

when i was in highschool pa, i used to have a best friend din pero we got super close na akala na ng iba eh mag on kami...hehe. actually i really dont know kung lesbian ba siya,pero dami nagsasabi na oo,or baka indenial din siya kung ano ba talaga siya and alam ko till now eh hindi pa rin niya alam  ;) anyway, we part ways when we were in our senior year, daming naging reason eh, gusto niya maging friend ko din yung dati niyang best friend, eh para sakin naman ang friendship eh hindi mo puwede ipilit sa tao diba,so yun dun siya then i find new set of friends, problem eh seatmate kami nun,hindi ko na siya pinakopya pag may exam and pinakamalala eh yung nag iisang boy crush daw niya eh niligawan ako, then she asked me kung bat lahat na lang daw ng gusto niya eh inaagaw ko, what????ganun reaction ko, we go sa same school ng college and never kami nagpansinan, until now pag nakakasalubong ko siya, wala akong balak na pansinin pa siya kahit na nagssmile siya skin i just pretend na hindi ko siya kilala...hehe
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