Parent Chat

Advanced search  

News:


Don't forget to check your email verification from info@smartparenting.com.ph

Author Topic: conflict with friends  (Read 3859 times)

mommie_of_TWO

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Posts: 38
  • mother of two little "pogi" boys :D
    • View Profile
conflict with friends
« on: January 16, 2014, 02:43:55 pm »

i don't know if I'm on the right category for this thread. I just want to vent my feelings about a friend or may I say friendssss....

theses friends of mine knew that I'm a single parent for two kids...that I'm the only one who supports my two children...when I was preggy to my second child no one offers me a gift before I gave birth to my child..knowing that I can't afford any new baby things..and now that one of our friends is pregnant they are so excited and ask her to make a list for the baby...though she's been supported by the father of the child and may kaya sila...both of them....I have this feeling na parang they don't treat me as a friend pala?!?!?!...i don't know...masama lang loob ko siguro..or parang inggit na din kasi ako hirap na hirap pero walang nag-ooffer ng tulong ni isa sa kanila..I feel sorry for myself na din na ganun pala sila saken...so sad bu thats the thruth..  :'( :'( :'(
Logged
"When a woman is giving birth, she has sorrow because her hour has come, but when she has delivered the baby, she no longer remembers the anguish, for joy that a human being has been born into the world." - John 16:21

AMEN!

linda731

  • Guest
Re: conflict with friends
« Reply #1 on: January 26, 2014, 04:48:11 pm »

just take it easy.
Logged

☆♥♡unica hija☆♥♡

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 419
  • Joshua - the only man constant in my life
    • View Profile
Re: conflict with friends
« Reply #2 on: January 26, 2014, 06:41:43 pm »

Naku sis minsan or should I say madalas yata ganyan. Kung sino yung may kaya yung yung binibigyan. That is based on my experience din. I am also a single mom. Just recently I ask help from a relative abroad (grandaunt and granduncle who are childless) for help kasi paalisin kami sa house namin na inuupahan. Deadma!!!!! Then since nasa FB ko sila and then other relatives I saw a post from them telling one of our relatives na magpapadala sila ng Christmas package for them. Eh to think may kaya yung relative ko na yun. Kami na wala ni chocolateng tunaw wala.   :(
Logged
[move]

Abegail Angeles

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 91
    • View Profile
    • By Nature Handmade Soap, Human Heart Nature Products
Re: conflict with friends
« Reply #3 on: January 26, 2014, 09:26:04 pm »

@thread starter-try to assess bakit ganun ang naging trato nila sa iyo.baka nagddisagree pala sila sa relationship mo kaya single mom the second time around ang ending mo.tipong palpak na bibig kakapayo.or may mga nahiram ka na di mo nasoli or..ikaw lang pala nagiisip na close kayo. :( alin man dyan,focus mo na lang energy mo sa mga bata at dagdag dalahin lang sama ng loob na yan.

^sadly sis,di natin mappwersa ang ibang tao na maging chqritable or matulungin.anuman gusto nila gawin sa pera nila,karapatan nila yun.pinaghirapan nila yun e..minsan lang din talaga di maiiwasan na di magpahiram sa feeling mo e di na magsosoli ng hiniram.yung pappackage ng mga nasa abroad,months pinagiipunan yan kaya most likely matagalna nila naunti-unti yun.basta sa atin,pilitin natin maging self sufficient para di umabot sa point na aasa tayo sa iba.

☆♥♡unica hija☆♥♡

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 419
  • Joshua - the only man constant in my life
    • View Profile
Re: conflict with friends
« Reply #4 on: January 27, 2014, 10:23:51 am »

may point ka sis  abegail.  :)
Logged
[move]