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siana

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3 kids, 3 dads. what can u say about that?
« on: January 27, 2014, 01:41:14 pm »

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My first born boy is now 11 years old. Naghiwalay kami ng dad niya kase i found out dalawa pala kami sabay nabuntis niya 6mos lang age gap. Plus irresponsible walang trabaho. 2nd child just turned 2yo. Married kami ng dad niya pero 9months old palang 2nd baby ko nalaman ko na may kabit si mister. Naghiwalay kami 1yr4mos si baby. Then now...i'm currently dating again. Ang kaso im still married kay ex hubby. Seryoso si new guy at gusto niya ng kasal. Kaso nga may sabit pa ako. And i'm not really sure yet if gusto ko talaga ng annulment. Unang una mahal sya, isa pa, may konting hope pa ako na magkaayos kami ni ex hubby... i really dont know what to do... please help me :'(

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Re: 3 kids, 3 dads. what can u say about that?
« Reply #1 on: January 27, 2014, 02:45:01 pm »

^alam mo sis,it doesnt really matter kung ilang beses ka nadapa.ang importante e sa pagkakadapa mo bang yan e nakakabangon ka pa?wag ka magpadalos-dalos sa ganyang bagay.babago pa lang kayo naghihiwalay ng ex mo e baby #3 sa guy #3 ang naiisip mo.pag nangyari yan at di nagwork out,kahit sa sabihin mo na si lalaki ang may sala,lalabas na you deserve what happened kasi di mo pinagisipan maigi yang pinapasok mo.take some time alone with your kids at isipin mo mga priority mo.yung sa ex husband mo,tanggapin mo na na hopeless case na.kaya lang ayaw nun paannul kayo kasi wala pa sya panggastos.that's it.

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Re: 3 kids, 3 dads. what can u say about that?
« Reply #2 on: January 27, 2014, 03:53:37 pm »

isa pa, may konting hope pa ako na magkaayos kami ni ex hubby...

^sayo na rin galing sis you still have hope na mag kakaayos kayo ni ex-hubby then why may guy #3 ka na? sorry ha, kasi di ba if ganyan sanang you are not yet sure hindi ka muna nag entertain ng iba kung baga you will give yourself time to breathe and think things over  :) nevertheless just pray to God for His guidance sis :)
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Re: 3 kids, 3 dads. what can u say about that?
« Reply #3 on: January 28, 2014, 11:14:33 pm »

well, were not here naman to judge but to listen and give our opinion, anyway as you said nga, yung 1st guy, romantically, he's out of the picture na, and pretty sure you had a lot of lessons learned dun sa pagsasama niyo...so you got married,and for sure you think na he's the one kaya nga pinakasalan mo diba but then you found out na may other woman hubby mo so nakipaghiwalay ka, if you're still hoping na magkakaayos pa kayo ni ex hubby, why enter a new relationship? if you're thinking na of annulment and hindi niyo lang magawa kasi nga eh mahal, i think there's no hope na yun...and besides unfair din kay guy number 3 na siya kasama mo and sabi mo nga eh seryoso pero youre hoping na magkakaayos pa kayo in x,????  pero diba nung nagstart kayo ni x seryoso din naman siya kaya nga kayo nagpakasal? so possible pa rin yun maulit, every relationship naman eh seryoso,lahat may napagdadaanan na pagsubok, being married doesnt give us any assurance na magiging ok lahat,, pero we decide if its a battle that is worth fighting for...kung mahal mo si guy 3, no buts and ifs,kasi you should be seeing youre future with him na,regardless pa kung ano sabihin ng iba...maybe nga,you need alone time with you kids to rethink everything bago ka gumawa ng mga desisyon, lalo na may mga kids kang kelangan itake into consideration...pray sis and ask for His guidance! :)
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