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nikaaay

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Minor (teenager) and pregnant. Need help.
« on: February 12, 2014, 11:18:19 pm »

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Hello mommies! :) I'm 12weeks pregnant and haven't visited any OB yet. :( Kasi i kept on waiting sa OB sa OMMC. Kaso as usual, lagi kaming pinapabalik it's either Monday or Wednesday ng 5am. Kasi nauubusan daw sila ng "numbers" na pinapamigay sa lahat ng patients ng OB. So, i've finally made a decision. Trying to search for OB's and their consultation fees. I do hope you may help me. Saan po ba may murang OB fee? Yung around Manila lang po sana or Makati. And by the way, I'm minor will they allow me to have my prenatal check up without my mom or any guardian? But, i'll be going there with my boyfriend naman. So, please help me po. :( It's just that I really don't want to abort this child and natatakot din akong ipaalam sa parents ko. :( Kaya eto, tinatry namin ng boyfriend ko na iprovide all the child's needs habang na sa womb ko pa sya without any helps coming from our parents. So please please please? If you can refer me to an OB sana po yung mura lang po yung consultation fee niya. I'm really desperate to have check ups na kasi and I can't go back again to OMMC just to wait for an hour and ended up to nothing.  ::) THANK YOU PO! :) I Hope somebody would help me there. :)))

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cheezumms

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Re: Minor (teenager) and pregnant. Need help.
« Reply #1 on: February 13, 2014, 06:37:33 pm »

try mo sa amisola sis. may nabasa kong post dito about that maternity hospital, parang mura naman ang ob fee. sorry i cant help kasi ob ko sa caloocan at mcu. pero affordable ang fee niya, 300 pesos lang per check up pati ultrasound niya, tvs is 500 only. baka lang gusto mo. or have you tried sa opd ng ust hosp? i heard affordable din ang fee doon.

also, i know you didnt ask for an advice, but i'll say it anyway... for me you still need to tell your parents about your pregnancy. i know your afraid of their reaction but the best people to be there for you esp during these days will be your parents. and darating at darating ang time na dapat mong sabihin din sa kanila coz you cant hide the baby bump, so might as well tell them the soonest para they can help you out.

hope makakita ka na ng ob sis, para makapagstart ka na ng vitamins for you and baby. Good luck and God bless :)
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Micaaa

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Re: Minor (teenager) and pregnant. Need help.
« Reply #2 on: February 19, 2014, 12:56:57 am »

Try St. Lukes QC. Yung consultation fee is 400. And I agree sis, it's much better for you and your baby's safety pag sinabi niyo na sa parents niyo kasi di niyo naman matatago yan. Isipin mo nalang what's best for your little bundle of joy. Good luck on your pregnancy sis! :)
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Re: Minor (teenager) and pregnant. Need help.
« Reply #3 on: February 21, 2014, 06:41:44 pm »

Try mo sa PGH sis yung OB OPD walang consultation fee dun since government hospital siya basta maaga ka lang pumunta dun para sa pag pila...
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Re: Minor (teenager) and pregnant. Need help.
« Reply #4 on: February 21, 2014, 07:05:03 pm »

I cannot suggest a OB sa mania kasi taga las pinas ako.. Pero sis sana makinig ka sa mga advice ng other mommies here, sana sabihin mo sa parents niyo yan. I know nakakatakot sa una pero lilipas din yan. Sympre magagalit at somehow madidisappoint sila pero alam ko tatanggapin nila yan. 19 ako when I got pregnant and nakatira ako sa dad ko kaya para sakin minor lang ako.. natakot din ako sabihin nung una pero mahirap magbuntis ng may tinatago, nakaka stress yan hehe.. pasama ka sa boyfie mo sabihin sa parents niyo  :) Isipin mo para sa baby mo yan. ☺ HTH!
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Re: Minor (teenager) and pregnant. Need help.
« Reply #5 on: March 18, 2014, 01:56:01 pm »

how old r u na sis? hope u dont mind me asking..
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Re: Minor (teenager) and pregnant. Need help.
« Reply #6 on: March 20, 2014, 04:51:28 pm »

Wala akong mare-recommend na hospital or clinic sa Manila or Makati kasi taga-Bulacan ako. Pero dun sa first baby ko, sa Monumento pa ako nakatira so dun ako pumupunta sa St. Michael's Medical Center. 250 yung check up, tapos 300 yung ultrasound (500 pag TVS). Nung lumipat na ako sa bahay ng napangasawa ko (which is in Bulacan), dun na ako nagpa-check up sa lying-in clinic malapit sa subdivision nila. My OB charges 150 lang for consultation, tapos 500 pag consultation with ultrasound. Siya na din nagpaanak saken (via CS) and ngayong buntis ulit ako, sa kanya pa din ako nagpapacheck up.

Wala namang problema kung wala kang kasamang adult pag nagpatingin ka. Okay lang yun. Pero I strongly suggest na ipaalam mo na sa parents mo (and ng boyfriend mo) na pregnant ka. Sooner or later malalaman din naman nila yan so wag nyo nang patagalin. Nakakadagdag din kasi sa stress yung pag-iisip/pagwo-worry kung paano/kelan kayo aamin sa parents nyo. You'll feel A LOT better kapag alam na nila na pregnant ka, at the same time, makakapag-assist na din sila sa inyo sa mga expenses sa pagpapa-check up, vitamins, etc., and maga-guide ka din nila all throughout your pregnancy like healthy food for your baby, yung paglalakad lakad early in the morning, etc.

Speaking of vitamins, dapat umiinom ka na ng prenatal multivitamins ngayon. There are a lot of prenatal multivitamins to choose from. If you're in a budget, you can try the ones sold in The Generics Pharmacy, which is Nata 4 (7.50 each), or Supranutrol OB (8.00), which you can buy in Generika. Ako sa ngayon ang iniinom ko is Mosvit Gold. You can also start drinking milk na pangbuntis like Anmum or Enfamama.
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Re: Minor (teenager) and pregnant. Need help.
« Reply #7 on: March 30, 2014, 05:17:19 pm »

try sa Sta. Teresita Hospital sa may D. Tuazon, QC.

And I suggest that you let your parents know soonest kasi baka mas lalo silang magalit if hindi mo agad sabihin. Syempre pag minor and all mas risky ang pregnancy :)
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Re: Minor (teenager) and pregnant. Need help.
« Reply #8 on: October 25, 2014, 03:18:03 pm »

hi :) bago lang ako  dito mga mommies but im 15 years old only 3 months na akong preggy mag 4 months na sa nov. but im worried about my baby because im only 15 so it safe my baby in my womb? this is my first baby nowadays madami ng teenage pregnancy katulad ko safe naman yung baby nila wala pa ngang check up check up eh this nov.11 mag hahanap kami ng boyfriend ko na OB near in valenzuela ayoko naman ipalalaglag yung anak ko mas mabuti nalng na nalaglag sya sa sinapupunan ko kesa ako pa ang pumatay sa kanya db? gusto ko syang alagaan sana wlang mang yaring masama sa kanya :) so please i need advice sa mas nakaka ganda po skin heheh este mas may nakakaalam kesa aakin salamat po :)
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Re: Minor (teenager) and pregnant. Need help.
« Reply #9 on: October 26, 2014, 08:40:09 pm »

Hi there, it is okay if you are only 15 and pregnant. As long as you are healthy and have a positive attitude about it. Let me also share here with you a site you can use to calculate your due date and learn more about pregnancy, good luck. http://www.babyduedatecalculator.net/
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