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Daddy_Jay

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Upset about sister-in-law
« on: March 27, 2014, 01:24:03 am »

  My sis-in-law and mom-in-law lived here in Makati for the latter's medication. However, for some negative circumstance, my mom-in-law had to go back to Palawan. My sis-in-law was left with us here in manila and thus supported her studies since she is already on her 3rd year in college.

     Lately, ramdam ko na nababastos na ako ng sis-in-law  ko, pinapatawad ko land and full understanding has been given kaya lang parang I cannot contain it anymore. I told her to move out of the house (kahit nag-aaral pa lang) and that she has become a burden. Buti sana kung okay ang ugali eh kaya ko ko pang tiisin ang gasto sa kanya (take note na sis-in-law ko lang sya).

    My mom-in-law said na she better move out of the house na lang. Pero alam ko sa isip ko na sa amin pa rin yan aasa, pero sabi ko sa wife ko, "let her learn, wala syang modo". I thought of not giving her money and I know na hirap din naman mom-in-law ko dahil nagpapgamot nga. I refuse to shell out for her anymore. So ayun, naghanap ng trabaho yung sis-in-law ko. Naiirita talga ako pag nakikita ko sya sa bahay. I think that the house has become too small for us.

Was I too harsh on her? Any thoughts about this?
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Re: Upset about sister-in-law
« Reply #1 on: May 25, 2014, 06:22:21 pm »

alam ang mga SIL na yan haysss ang hirap na lang magsalita pero sana iniisip din nila na nakakaabala sila.. okay lang ang mag help sa kanila nandun na yun pero ang panget if nakakabastos na yung hindi na iniisip yung nararamdaman ng asawa hindi naman kasi porket kapatid nila ang mga hubby natin eh mas may karapatan sila sa mga asawa natin minsan talaga EPAL hindi ka nag iisa sis promise.pansin ko EPAL ang SIL lalo na pag single sila
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Re: Upset about sister-in-law
« Reply #2 on: February 08, 2018, 01:20:36 pm »

OK itong topic na ito.
SIL ko feeling sosyal, may attitude talaga. Ayaw magtrabaho kaya nirefer ko sa friend ko na tele-marketer. Sabi ko, paga-applyin ko SIL ko, tanggapin niya tapos apihin niya ng apihin sa work. Ganun nga ang nangyari. Hindi siya nagtagal ng 1 linggo.
Situation number 2. May inapplyan siya na bagong trabaho na malaki ang benefits and compensation. Nagyabang agad siya, hindi niya alam na nag apply din ako (need ko ng work noon). Ang nangyari, ako ang natanggap, siya rejected.

Alam kong may sama siya ng loob sakin noon pa. Yun pala kasi silang 2 ng asawa ko ang close sa pamilya nila kaya nung nagasawa na kuya niya, nawalan na siya ng attention.
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