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MommyMichell

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Re: having sex with hubby after pregnancy. how will you handle insecurities?
« Reply #15 on: September 22, 2011, 09:20:36 am »

ang dami ko talagang natututunan at narerealize dito sa SP, hindi naman ako sexy pero never akong na-insecure sa katawan ko pagkapanganak ko kahit sabihin pang may stretch marks na tyan ko at flabby pa, malaking dahilan siguro na kitang kita ko na excited na si mister na maging intimate kami uli, anyway nagdyu-dyug naman kami kahit kabuwanan ko na lol, tapos pangkapanganak ko after 3 months bakbakan na ulit  ;D

itong thread na to made me realize kung gano bino-boost ng asawa ko yung self-confidence ko, feeling ko tuloy haba ng hair ko lol

nakaka-insecure pag nakita nyo ng walang gana si mister pero kung feel na feel niya pa rin after nyong manganak, isa lang ibig sabihin nyan: DYOSA pa rin tingin niya sayo  ;)
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Re: having sex with hubby after pregnancy. how will you handle insecurities?
« Reply #16 on: September 22, 2011, 03:32:36 pm »

akala ko ako lang nakakaramdam nun? ??? well kahit 1yr na ang lumipas after giving birth though same intimate pa din si husband when it comes to our sex life may insecurities pa din ako haha kaya mas type ko lights off para di makita ang di kanais nais hehe pero si husband infairnes to him never naman siya nagreklamo sa mga body changes sakin mas naging magana pa nga siya ngayon & kahit na tumaba ako at nagkaron ng stretchmarks lagi pa din sinasabi ni husband kung gano ko kaganda at ka sexy sa paningin niya & because of that tumataas ang self confident ko basta maganda ako sa paningin ng asawa ko ok na yun  ;D ;)
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Re: having sex with hubby after pregnancy. how will you handle insecurities?
« Reply #17 on: September 22, 2011, 11:11:26 pm »

same dilemma here.. after ko manganak talaga naman nahihiya ako..
hehe.. buntis pa lang ako, naglabasan na ang matatabang stretchies sa puson ko.. tasos ang iitim pa..

sasabihin pa ni hubby "yuck" hahaha..
"magbebeer house na lang ako"

kalokong mister...

ayun, sobrang shy makipag do.. lagi ako nagsasabi ng "no" pag nagtatanong siya if we can make love..
dumating pa sa point na nagtampo siya, nagalit pa..

pangit na nga ang body, dry pa ang vagina(breastfeeding).. pano naman yun..


sooner or later magfafade din yung insecurities...
ngayon ok na..
back to normal na ang lahat..

saka pag sinasabi niyang pangit ng tummy ko,
lagi ko sinasabi, "sisihin mo anak mo"
"pasalamat ka na lang at maganda anak natin.."
"ano gusto mo, maputi at makinis kong tyan pero sukdulan ng pangit ang bata, o pangit tyan pero super ganda ng anak?" haha
hehe.. matatapos din yang depression na iyan..
kailangan lang nating maging positive..
ganyan talaga ang buhay...
ano naman kung makinis ang tummy ng iba.. darating din naman sila sa point na kukulubot din ang kanilang mga balat..
be positive.. kahit pangit tummy, may maganda ka namang blessing diba?

go mommies..
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Re: having sex with hubby after pregnancy. how will you handle insecurities?
« Reply #18 on: September 27, 2011, 06:59:30 pm »

first 3 months after giving birth, i was scared of making love with hubby because i gave birth via caesarian section, so i was afraid for my op-site.  fortunately, hubby understood and he gently coaxed me back into making love.
 
he had never mentioned anything negative about my bulging belly, nor my stretch marks.  in fact, he even said that my CS scar is the sexiest part of my body at that time because that's where and when i've given him much happiness by giving him our children.
 
aside from that, i really don't care what i look physically when making love.  what's important for me is that we are both enjoying the moment.
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Re: having sex with hubby after pregnancy. how will you handle insecurities?
« Reply #19 on: September 29, 2011, 12:34:51 pm »

Just gave birth last September 23,2011.. Ngayon, nakikita ko yung tyan ko na parang 5 months preggy pa din  :-[ .. Feeling ko ang taba taba ko na talaga :( Pero sabi ni Hubby, Sexy pa din daw ako,  tinatanong niya ako kung kelan daw pwede ulet mag-make love .. Sabi ko naman after 5 months , kasi hihintayin ko munang magkaroon ako before makipag-make love ulet kay Hubby.. Nakakatuwa din kasi very supportive si Hubby, hindi nawawala ang pagiging Intimate niya,siya pa ang nag e-encourage na wag daw ako mag-isip ng kung ano ano.
« Last Edit: September 29, 2011, 09:31:58 pm by Mrs.Shiela Tan :) »
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- Ease into intimacy.
At first it may be very difficult to open up again and share one’s self with her partner. This is completely understandable.
Sex after Giving Birth


http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/pregnancy/labor-and-childbirth/sex-after-giving-birth/page/1
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kakaiba naman 'yung sa amin ni hubby sis, parang after giving birth mas naging mas kaakit.akit daw ako sa kanya..ewan ko dun?! siguro kasi mas humubog yata ýyung body ko after birth, pumayat kasi nung dalaga ako medyo maypagka.chubby  :P
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Re: having sex with hubby after pregnancy. how will you handle insecurities?
« Reply #22 on: November 07, 2013, 06:24:42 pm »

In my case... si Hubby ang nag-aalis ng insecurities ko..
He knows how to handle me well sa mga insecurities ko after giving birth.
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