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faithyperry

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When did you file for a maternity leave?
« on: January 26, 2015, 08:35:17 pm »

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Hi mommies! 34 weeks na akong preggy, curious lang kasi ako kung kelan nagfafile ng ML ang ibang mommies?  Ang advise kasi ng OB ko magfile ako before mag37 weeks, kaso feeling ko hindi ko na yata yun kakayanin kasi sa byahe ko pa lang from house to work stressed na ako.

Eh alam nyo naman sa jeep, unahan ang mga pasahero kesehodang makita nila na buntis ka.  Tapos yung ibang fx naman na sinasakyan ko walang pakundangan magdrive. Ayoko din naman kasing matambay sa bahay ng matagal tapos si baby matagal pa palang lalabas. Pero Ayoko din namang icompromise ang safety namin ni baby. Haay. . Naguguluhan pa ako. By the way, first baby namin .  ;)

I would appreciate your advice mommies. Pls. Don't hesitate to share your experience na din.

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maia2013

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Re: When did you file for a maternity leave?
« Reply #1 on: February 24, 2015, 03:43:32 pm »

Hi sissy,

my advise is 3 weeks before your EDD, or if kaya mo pa, 2weeks before your EDD. Ako kasi nag start 1 week before my EDD(adik lang sa work) hahaha! its always depend naman sayo kung kelan mo gusto.,pero much better yung 3 weeks before your EDD kasi minsan maaga ang due natin kesya sa EDD talaga :)

Good luck!
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MomiAnn

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Re: When did you file for a maternity leave?
« Reply #2 on: February 24, 2015, 09:18:58 pm »

I filed my maternity leave at 38 weeks. 2 weeks before EDD, para kako makapahinga, feeling ko nga din kasi nakakapagod ng pumasok sa work, kahit advise ng mga friend ko sagarin ko pa ang pagpasok sa work hanggang di pa humihilab, sayang daw kasi ang 2 mos with the baby, mabawasan pa if maaga mag ML.  Truly, mas masaya nga if mas mahabang ML kasama na si baby, kesa preggy pa lang.  may mga ka-officemates din ako maaga nag ML pero inabot pa ng 1 week after due date nanganak, so sayang talaga ang time.  In my case kasi, blessing in disguise na nung nag file na ako ng ML at 38 weeks, nanganak na din ako, saktong sakto  ;D

Sa first born ko iyon.  ito kasing 2nd pregnancy ko, nag resign ako kasi tagal ko nag bleeding ng first trimester, maselan at need mag bedrest.

So really up to you mommy, if what you are comfortable with.  advice of your OB na sa 37 weeks or 38 weeks siguro is okay naman din  ;)

Hope this helps mommy  :D
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faithyperry

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Re: When did you file for a maternity leave?
« Reply #3 on: February 25, 2015, 10:00:15 pm »

Thank you MomiAnn and maia2013! Nagfile na ako ng ML nung 36 weeks na ko! Feeling pagod na kasi ako madalas sa biyahe. Medyo nagsisisi nga ako kasi 38 weeks na ako ngayon pero mukhang si baby hindi pa rin lalabas. :( Heto nakatunganga lang ako sa bahay tuloy. Akala ko kasi kapag first baby, kapag nareach mo na yung 37th week, manganganak ka na. Hindi pala.

Pinainom na ako ng OB ko ng evening rose prim for 7 days pero waley pa rin. Ayokong abutin sana ng 40 weeks kasi sayang naman yung time na makakasama ko talaga si baby. March 9 due date ko eh. .natatakot tuloy ako, baka lumagpas pa ko dun.
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MomiAnn

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Re: When did you file for a maternity leave?
« Reply #4 on: February 26, 2015, 09:40:22 am »

Relax mommy, stress wouldn't help sa condition mo.  Ang advice sa akin ng OB ko pagtuntong ko ng 36 weeks ay maglakad ng 1 - 2 hours straight ng walang upo or pahinga para matagtag at ma-induce ang labor, nung una nahirapan ako gawin ito, lalo pag sa neighborhood lang, hinihingal ako. Ginawa ni husband sinamahan ako sa mall (SM) at inorasan niya talaga ang lakad ko, hindi ako pina-upo kahit gusto ko na magpahinga - hahaha, kinabukasan nag-labor na nga ako.

Basta relax ka lang, wag masyado ma-stress at baka lalo ka hindi mag-labor.  ;)

Ingats!
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faithyperry

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Re: When did you file for a maternity leave?
« Reply #5 on: March 13, 2015, 12:07:21 am »

Hi there! Just want to update you mommies na I have just given birth last March 11 at 1:07 am. ^___^ . Heto sobrang happy pero may kinakaharap ding challenges as a new mom.
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MomiAnn

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Re: When did you file for a maternity leave?
« Reply #6 on: March 13, 2015, 08:57:53 am »

WOW!!!  ;D

Congratulations Mommy!  New challenge talaga pag andyan na si baby, ibang-iba sya kesa nung nasa tummy pa lang.  Pero kayang kaya mo yan mommy, Go go go!  :)

Ako 35 weeks na - counting the days pa  :)
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faithyperry

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Re: When did you file for a maternity leave?
« Reply #7 on: March 14, 2015, 01:08:11 am »

Hi MomiAnn! Naku lapit na yan. I'll pray for your safe delivery.
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MomiAnn

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Re: When did you file for a maternity leave?
« Reply #8 on: March 15, 2015, 11:15:32 am »

Oo nga, lapit na.  Thanks  :)
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cadence19

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Re: When did you file for a maternity leave?
« Reply #9 on: March 19, 2015, 09:57:39 am »

hi sis!
 help naman...cnu magandang OB sa ST VINCENT...dun kc ako ngpapa-check up pero ang qoute ng OD ko is 70k for CS...btw, im on my 9th week na..thank you!
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