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iamsoinah

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New Study: Mas effecffective daw punishment kesa rewards?
« on: May 12, 2015, 06:13:30 am »

I saw this article and it actually made me rethink my parenting techniques. Mas ok daw punishment (pero not the violent type) kesa reward system. I have a preschooler kase na super kulit. What do you think?

Eto yung link: http://www.ibtimes.com.au/carrot-vs-stick-punishment-may-be-more-effective-directing-behaviours-more-rewards-1447408


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Re: New Study: Mas effecffective daw punishment kesa rewards?
« Reply #1 on: May 12, 2015, 08:46:08 pm »

I think so too... Yung parents ko kasi medyo mahigpit nung bata pa kami we have curfew ng 6 pm at bawal maglaro between 2pm till 4pm kung walang pasok. Maraming bawal at isang sutsot lang nila behave na kami.

Punishment doesn't mean you don't love your kid but you are just trying to instill discipline. As I look at the kids nowadays wala ng disiplina, sa simbahan na lang takbo ditto takbo doon which in my time a big NO-NO. So now that I am a mom I guess I would also used the same thing to my boy.
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Re: New Study: Mas effecffective daw punishment kesa rewards?
« Reply #2 on: May 13, 2015, 06:11:01 am »

I agree. Sobrang laki ng difference ng mga bata ngayon compared when we were kids when our parents were much stricter. Naalala ko rin, ganyan kame nung bata eh! hehe.

I'll try this on my preschooler for a week or two and I'll post an update. :)
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Re: New Study: Mas effecffective daw punishment kesa rewards?
« Reply #3 on: November 29, 2017, 01:25:07 pm »

She doesn’t hesitate to spank her children if only to instill discipline in them. “Spank po talaga, Ma’am!” she exclaims. “Hindi po puwedeng wala. Ako po, I believe na iba-iba po ang ways in disciplining kids.
 
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