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Mariel Arun

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Your bonding moment with hubby alone
« on: July 17, 2009, 04:51:30 pm »

When couples were still childless it is easy to plan out-of-town trips, dinners for two, movies, or any spontaneous, random interesting activity that comes to mind. But when children are already in the family, these activities came to rarity.

Like us, before the children came we love to go on movie marathon and hopping from one movie house to another, or dining out anywhere we take our fancy, (the most memorable one for me, was when we ate the orange egg sa kalye, kasi we were curious how it tasted and we end up having diarrhea, yes both of us  :D). Those simple things that reminds us how it felt falling in love with each other at the very first, never actually caring for other things but us.

And now after three kids, our bonding moments got better though a lot simpler.

Things/ activities I like doing with him:

1. coffee during midnight, when everybody's asleep only the two of us left to reminisce, plan, or discuss..
2. shopping. I love shopping with hubby, not just because he gets to pay my purchases but we love to explore the mall for unique, hard to find items, or good buys.
3. taking a bath. yup with my fats and all..we love to talk about the day's happenings..
4. watch a movie. he likes tagalog romance movie (uu, tapos ookrayin ko lang siya), me naman horror (tatakutin ako, gugulatin) but we get to enjoy each other's company though not the movie.

I cherish and look forward to these bonding moments alone with him. When times turn awry, it helps us renew or recharge ourselves by knowing we have each other and the kids. :D

and how about you?

PS. took me to Mario's the following week after the orange egg episode. ;D ;)

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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #1 on: July 17, 2009, 05:53:03 pm »

when we're together we usually go out on a date, parang nagliligawan pa din. dinner, watch movies, shopping. hehe. pag nasa house, he usual cooks our food (he's a really good cook!), he's my labandero, taga-linis. (he works in their province e). pag umaga when i have to go to work, i make sure meron kaming lambing lambing time. i just want to hug hug hug him...basta hug lang. quiet time together about 5-10minutes.   :)
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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #2 on: July 18, 2009, 02:23:06 am »

watch movie and dine out.
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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #3 on: July 18, 2009, 10:32:34 am »

1. photography adventures with our photographer friends (parang alone time narin w/ hubby yun eh)
2. movies (di na masyado ngayon, unless super like namin movie)
3. dine out
4. spas!
5. shopping (i always love shopping w/ him kase di sya impatient, he walks w/ me throughout the shopping unlike other guys na uupo nalang sa isang tabi. or walang tyaga samahan wifeys nila)
6. he cooks italian for me
7. cuddle ups!
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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #4 on: July 19, 2009, 03:09:04 am »

lagi naman kaming may mga moments ni hubby ,.,!!!
basta pag kami lang 2 sa room,.,. mostly ganito eh.,,

1. kwentuhan about our past
   yung mga namimiss namin sa isat-isa ,.,lalo na
   nung high school pa lang kami!! hehe

2. nagpapamassage kami sa isat-isa .,.,ganun!!

3. naglalaboy kung saan saan ,.,. basta every minute   
    is a bonding moment naman eh.,,.
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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #5 on: July 19, 2009, 11:33:13 am »

Sa akin naman mga sis I'm happy kasi si hubby ko yung tipong sha pa ang magyayaya sa akin even after ko mnganak.. siguro around 2 weeks after lang yun na lumabas daw kami to spend quality time. This is what we usually do and medyo naging routine na ren namin:
- we buy groceries together every payday niya
- shop stuffs like clothes, shoes, etc.
- eat out almost everyday pagkasundo niya sa akin sa office
- watch movies together
- and sometimes we even spend overnight sa hotels
- tambay lang sa mall tipong stroll and have coffee
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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #6 on: July 20, 2009, 12:31:18 pm »

kami naman if our sked meet, antay niya ako sa megamall pra lang sabay kami umuwi.minsan magundertime kami or half day pra lang makapagdate..shopping etc. bihira kami maligo ng sabay..minsan nming gumawa, bigla nmang may mga istorbong dumating..putek talga oo..then dahil mahilig manood ng tv si hubby, off ko tv pra lang magkuwentuhan kami..every sunday, talga yung kming family.buti nga wala syang pasok pag sat sa bhay lang talaga un..sobrang couch potato ang husby ko.
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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #7 on: July 20, 2009, 12:53:19 pm »

parang minsan na lang makakuha ng time para maging alone kami kasi laging kasama si igme mapagrocery kasama sya sakay siya sa cart, kahit nga sa palengke eh, wait lang nila ako sa may parking

pero meron talagang weekends na pupunta kami kahit san, kahit san kami makarating minsan punta lang sa ganon lugar kasi sabi masarap daw kumain etc. iwan lang namin si igme sa kabila sa sister ko lalo na pag nandon si papako naku talagang malaya kaming mag gala kasi talagang dapat nandon si igme sa amin sila na magalaga.
madalas sa tagaytay punta namin (hay kakamiss nung wala pa si igme siguro every other week nandon kami)
o kaya pag tulog na si igme, tatbi na ko sa kanya nandon un sa harap ng laptop nanonood makikinood na rin ako.

ska everynight bago matulong saglit magkwentuhan bago matulog.

maligo naku never pa namin magawa un yung sabay maligo ewan ko ba don ayaw baka daw di kami makaligo ng ayos............ngek
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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #8 on: July 20, 2009, 01:13:27 pm »



eto yung mga used to:
- watch movies mga 2x a week sa cinemas but very seldom na lang ngayon now that we have kuya.
- out of town trips
- out of the country trips
- water spa
- malling
- madalas na pag dine out
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now:
- mag couch potato and watch his movie collections or mga downloads (pero mga 1-2 movies lang ako kasi nawawala concentration ko lalo na kung feeling guilty ako at dko napapansin baby ko)
- kung without guilt at iiwan ko si baby sa yaya: malling, cinemas
- him cooking for me
- cuddling in the middle of the night most esp pag nagising ako at di makatulog ulit, upon waking up in the morning, and kapag mangungulitan with kuya sa bed
- dine out pero seldom na lang >> so looking forward sa date hopefully this weekend. dont have any idea ... basta surprise daw  :D

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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #9 on: July 21, 2009, 03:13:08 pm »



1. Dine out - mahilig kaming kumain :)
2. Movie Date - nung mag bf/gf pa lang kami mas madalas.
                      Pero now, namimili na lang kami ng 
                      talagang magandang movie.
3. Shopping - pag may panggastos :)
4. Midnight bonding - when everybody's asleep, we watch
                   dvd, we cuddle, kwentuhan, planning for the
                   future basta anything goes. We usually do
                   this every friday and saturday night. :)
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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #10 on: July 21, 2009, 10:54:10 pm »

1. monthsary dates - dinner, movie, pagshopping niya q.. :P
2. making love  :-[
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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #11 on: July 22, 2009, 02:09:38 am »

I miss those days na ssunduin niya ko sa office and then we dine out and watch the last full show at greenbelt.. hay.. :( nung, may baby na bihira na lang kame lumabas, actually nging cause ng argument pa nga namin un eh, kc daw lately di daw kame llabas kundi rin kasi c baby, ako kc minsan ngguilty pag iniiwan lang namin c baby kay yaya eh.. kaya ayun, I've learned my lesson and bumawi ako, its important pa din na we spend quality time with just the two of us..
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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #12 on: July 22, 2009, 06:39:40 am »

pwedi makisali kahit SD instead of HUbby??

bonding namin is during my off ...
trinoma has been our place since da time his been staying here sa manila...
- we will have lunch muna, ikot ng kunti if my magandang movie den we will watch movie
( we love to dine out) hilig niya sa sea fuds, ako meat
- luv making sa ano (dito kami mas bonded)  ;D
- sometimes we drink sa gerrys grill trinoma sometimes sa padis point sm north
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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #13 on: July 22, 2009, 04:17:15 pm »

i wait for my hubby to arrive from work (mga 12mn na sha nakakadating 2-11pm shift niya e) kahit antok na ko, kasi that's the only time we get to spend time together ng kame 2 lang. tapos usap-usap about the day's events/activities, tapos mag-mimidnight snack/meal kame, then cuddle while watching tv.

if time permits and may mag-aalaga sa mga kids magwatch lang kame ng movie. haaaay ka-miss yung times na nakakalakwatsa kame anytime we want hehe.

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Re: YOUR BONDING MOMENT WITH HUBBY ALONE.
« Reply #14 on: July 22, 2009, 05:03:26 pm »

dagdag q pa pala-

inaantay q sya every night (recently) kahit 130 na q magsleep..

pag umaalis kz ako sa umaga, sleep pa sya madalas..

kaya napapdalas ang absent e, hehe..
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