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yanyan06

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Pinanuod ng husband ko sa baby ko yung "elmo" and gngaya niya yung "lalalalala", tas nag bbye naman sya habng winawave yung hands niya.. kaso un nga lang talaga minsan d sya nagrespond sa name niya..
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mami che

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you still have ... maybe 3months ... to reveal her skills sis without the help of tv or tablet.  kasi usually, 2yrs old dinadala sa dev pedia kung sakaling may naoobserve kang kakaiba... maraming signs ang autism sis but you need not compare her development to other kids kasi iba iba sila...

nung 18-20mos below yung 3rd kid ko, everything was flowing perfectly. nakakanta na nga sya ng mga nursery rhymes. but merong isang araw na biglang parang nag-snap and biglang nagiba yung mundong ginagalawan niya. of course, im in denial but hubby observed na parang hindi niya naririnig pangalan niya twing tatawagin sya. that was the first sign na di ako aware... then the linear thing follows, flapping, not paying attention... nung una, walang diagnosis sa kanya nung dinala namin sa dev ped coz he was too young. actually sis, humingi muna ko ng opinion sa pedia nila before consulting a devped.di ko kasi alam kung ano gagawin. then yun na, tuloy tuloy therapy... and we joined his journey  ;)
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yanyan06

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hi mami che, ano po findings sa baby nyo? un po balak namin ni hubby, hintaying na namin mag 2 years sya den pag wala pa din progress dun n namin iconsult sa pedia. hays kapraning talaga.. ang hirap kunin ng attention niya. :(
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trinamd

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Hi yanyan!  :)
before i post further comments, i have some questions:
did your child undergo the newborn hearing test? if so, what were the results?  :)
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yanyan06

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ok naman po yung new born screening niya nun including hearing test.
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trinamd

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well that's great! it is actually too early to conclude that it is autism. :)
your child is 21 months who says two-syllable words, has eye contact, responds to sound.
First, don't compare your child with others because some kids are advanced in some way than others.
Second, by 18 months, a child should have eye contact responds to name, points to wants and socializes or starts to participate in play.
I would suggest that you limit TV and computer use. engage her in more activities that entails interactions like reading board books, playing with blocks, coloring books, outdoor games, etc.
If you really really need to have her watch a show, i suggest the likes of baby einstein and sesame street and even if she's watching these shows, engage or participate with her, join her in singing and dancing and ask her questions while watching.
If by 24 months and it's still the same, i suggest you consult a neurodevelopmental pediatrician for assessment and surveillance.  ;)
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mami che

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hi sis yanyan!

meron kasing mga questions from devped na di mo talaga masasagot coz your kid is still young (particularly her skills). pinadalhan ako ng questionnaire nun but yun nga ang suggestion ng doctor. lets wait till he turns 2 kasi napraning din ako nun. walang findings nung 2yo sya... pero pinagtetherapy na namin.nagkaron lang ng findings nung almost 3 na sya. autism spectrum disorder. pero hindi sya nacategorize e. nung pagtungtong niya ng 3yo, bigla ding nagbago yung skills niya. nagrerespond na sya sa mga activities sa therapy center kaya tumaas lalo yung hope ko.... now that he just turned 5, naka mainstream na sya sa regular class with a shadow teacher.

malaki ang magiging role mo sis sa development niya. sa ngayon, be a "therapist" to your daughter. wag mong tignan yung "not responding to her name" lang... coz isa lang yan sa napakadaming signs ng autism kaya need not be praning  ;) play & talk to your kid - its the best therapy for you & your daughter.... godbless sis!
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yanyan06

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thanks  mga mommies. malaking tulong talaga yung blog na to.. pero kanina natuwa ako kasi sa skype yung nakita nyang me bitbit na jolibee yung papa niya sabi niya "jayi jayi" at tuwang tuwa sya kasi favorite niya un e.. tas nung walan ng chicken sabi niya "nana" means wala na.. pero madalas talaga hindi sya namamansin.. hay sana ok po baby ko .. un lang po panalangin ko bilang isang ina, walang ibang mas mahalaga sakin kundi ang baby ko :)
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Re: Signs of Autism
« Reply #83 on: September 14, 2013, 04:12:26 am »

hi sis! regarding with ur post. siguro masyado lang sya attentive sa gnagawa niya kaya d sya ngrerespond gnyan naman mga bata db, every child has their own milestone. lagi b sya nag ttantrums or nagwawala. btw yung cousin ng husband ko as i remembered 4 years old na gnyan pa dn yung mga alam niya sabhin until the age of 7 she grows normal naman. bka may lahi kayo or hubby mo n delayed talaga. pero if still di ka pa rin satisfied try to consult ur pedia :) hope it helps
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Re: Signs of Autism
« Reply #84 on: September 17, 2013, 01:32:38 am »

hindi naman po sya nagttantrums. pero kanina sa skype gngaya niya yung gnagawa ng kasama ko (nasa abroad po kasi ako). tapos pag tntawag sya ng kasama ko sa bhay, lumilingon naman sya sa skype kaso nagagalit parang umiirap ba. pero pag ako ok lang naman.. nakakasunod din naman po sya sa mga utos, halimbawa sasabihin ng hubby ko "kis mo si mama" ikkis niya ko sa skype, o d kaya may ipapakuha yung hubby ko kukunin naman niya. un lang nga bhrang bhra sya mag respond sa name niya saka ang hirap kunin ng attention niya. tapos few words palang nasasabi niya tulad ng jayi-jayi, mama at papa madlang na madalang, minsan pag nagbbilang ako gagayahin niya "wan to ti fo" ganyan.. pero nakkpaglaro naman sya sa mga bata pag me nakkita sya, actually tuwang tuwa pa nga sya. tas normal lang ba na umiikot ikot yung bata? napansin ko kasi kanina ganun sya pero pag bnawalan naman ttgil. hays im worried na talaga.. kasi yung pamangkin ko madaldal na nung bago mag 2, my daughter is 21 months already. hays
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sairiel

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i have a pamangkin 5 years old na sya and unfortunelty d pa sya maayos magsalita as in d pa niya kaaya bumuo ng word laging soungs like yung lolo naging wowo.
pero hes fine may psycology test something lang n dapat gawin daw pero abnormal n daw un ang kelangan lang laging kausapin daw at magsalita turuan itrained ba
nng baby kasi sya puro tv at sanay na sanay sa mga cellphone kahit anong unit pa yan kaya hanapin yung mga laru sa phone tapos anong oraas na sila gumigising pag umaga d daw na eexercise yung bata at laging puyat kasi sa gabi naglalaru ayun pinabayaan kasi ng ate ko. hehe ang pogi p naman at puputi
ngayon talgang lagi namin tinuturuan na
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HI mga mommies!!

My baby is 20 months na and can speak atleast 5 words( ba-bye, mama, papa,baba at kain) and most nag sinasabi niya eh parang chinese na ahah (hindi namin siya maintindihan).

my parents & siblings really into watching tv. eh dhil sila ang nag-aalaga sa anak ko mon - sat., eh nakahiligan na rin niya manuod ng tv.

though very active naman siya, syempre napapaisip din ako bkit di pa siya nkakapaslita ng ibag words considering na may kasbyan siya sito sa amin na marami na nasasabing words.

pero napansin din kasi namin ng mother ko na lagi siya huli ng 1 month or so sa development niya compared sa mga kasabayan niya dito sa amin. so right now, di pa kami super worried and we just talk to her plgi to encourage her to talk

iba-iba lang talaga yung rate ng development ng mga babies...
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Re: toddler not responding to name and other symptoms
« Reply #87 on: June 08, 2014, 01:10:51 am »

Same topic merged,
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Re: toddler not responding to name and other symptoms
« Reply #88 on: June 18, 2014, 09:25:39 pm »

Hi mga sis, what can I say, it's good to be back!

I'm very glad this thread is still alive. when I back read, everything is slowly coming back to me, back when I was still a very confused new mom, but now I am fully equipped and I have accepted everything

My last post in this thread is in 2011, roughly 3 years ago.

My son is now 6 years old, he has been in SPED for 2 years, but thank God, this school year, his devped allowed him to mainstream, though still with once-a-week OT and once-a-week SP. Ang pinakamahirap na part is to potty train him. Ang hirrrapp!!  kaya lang hindi na talaga pwede that time because no diaper will fit him anymore and hindi na hygienic, he was 5 when he was fully potty trained.. Thank God, now he is totally independent. Naranasan ko na every hour dalhin siya sa bathroom, then i-reward ko ang yaya niya ng total amount of diaper in a month na matipid ko para lang i-reinforce niya na sanayin kapag nasa trabaho ako.

I have change job since then, luckily I found one that pays good, I need lots of money, it is very costly and high maintenance but money is nothing compared to what it did to help my son improved. I have found a good school and developmental pedia.. my son is a work in progress...

Nowadays, nobody will notice that something is wrong with him, unless if you're a doctor or therapist perhaps... He can behave in restaurant.. in children's party, he can dance, sing and ang bonus ko talaga is super talino niya... last assessment of devped in May 2014, his IQ is of an 8 year old child., though a little delay pa rin in social skills but the doctor told me it will get better with age, i really hope so...

Kaya, mga sis, wag kayong panghinaan ng loob, ASD diagnosis is not the end of the world, I have cried buckets of tears but it did not help my son, what helped was my acceptance and my determination to do what is right for my son...of course, yung pagmamahal natin sa kanila ang pinakamahalaga.
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Re: toddler not responding to name and other symptoms
« Reply #89 on: January 17, 2015, 11:46:38 pm »

my son (33months) sometimes di rin nagrerespond sa name niya. pansin ko pag busy siya as in di siya titingin or mga 3x na ko magcall tsaka palang siya titingin sakin. I've been reading alot about asd and medyo worried ako sa behaviour niya.

 

SPEECH: He says few words palang and can't combine to form 2 word phrase.

EYE CONTACT: he has a good eye contact, minsan nga ilalapit pa niya face niya pag di kami nakatingin sa kanya. pero pag sa ibang tao he will bow his head then hide. He loves to cuddle to and love niya makipag nose to nose sakin.

UNUSUAL BEHAVIOUR WITH TOYS:
na-notice ko lalaruan niya car the usual way.. tapos he will lay down sa floor to observe it. titigan niya yung car. I sometimes hear him hum yung parang kumakanta pero di ko naiintindihan.

UNUSUAL BEHAVIOUR WHEN WE ARE OUT:
Ayaw niya pumasok sa closed area.. dati sa elevator he would freak out.. but eventually iiyak siya then okay na siya. Pero say may bilhin ako sa isang shop, he will drag me out and he will cry hard  :'(
Takot rin siya magpagupit.. super struggle  :'(

OTHER UNUSUAL BEHAVIOUR:
He also hand flaps pag upset but not most of the time. Another thing na ginagawa niya pag galit is itapon anything na hawak niya.

Ang iniisip ko baka dahil lagi kasi siya nag-iiPad kaya siya ganito :(

I'm really worried.  :'(
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