Parent Chat

Advanced search  

News:

Pages: 1 ... 22 23 [24]

Author Topic: how to discipline a toddler (1-3yo) Bawal nang mamalo?  (Read 123432 times)

toughmom moderator

  • Global Moderator
  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 1193
    • View Profile
Logged

mommy_shark

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Posts: 18
    • View Profile
Re: how to discipline a toddler (1-3yo) Bawal nang mamalo?
« Reply #346 on: January 01, 2014, 07:18:19 pm »

I don't hit my 2 1/2 year old daughter pero hindi ko maiwasan na masigawan siya kapag ayaw sumunod..i was raised kasi na hindi ako pinalo. I sometimes consider na paluin siya para sumunod but marerealize ko na hindi naman mareresolve ng palo yung katigasan ng ulo niya. Hindi rin mareresolve kung parati sisigawan kasi matututo rin siya to yell back at me when she's upset..so hanggang kaya ng pasensya ko nagpipigil ako magalit hehe
Logged

Miss Donya

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 60
  • follow me on Twitter @MissDonyaMe
    • View Profile
    • Miss Donya Life
Re: how to discipline a toddler (1-3yo) Bawal nang mamalo?
« Reply #347 on: January 07, 2014, 05:59:54 pm »

Napakakulit din ng anak ko na lalaki (going 3 yrs old) pero di ko sya pinapalo kahit grabe na ang inis ko sa kakulitan n'ya. Sinasabi ko lang sa kanya "No!" at "Bad yun ah!" (raised voice). Paulit-ulit kong sinasabi hanggang sa mapaiyak na lang sya at pag tumigil tapos tatanungin ko sya, "Ano'ng sasabihin mo kay mama?" Then sasagot s'ya, "Sorry po mama." Yung husband ko naman ang pag makulit o may maling ginagawa ang anak namin at mahirap masaway, kinakarga n'ya bigla kahit nagwawala at gusto makaalis. Then same thing, di naman s'ya bibitawan o ibaba ng asawa ko hanggang sa mapaiyak na s'ya kasi alam naman n'ya na bad s'ya o may mali s'yang nagawa. Tapos sasabihin sa kanya ng asawa ko na "Wag mo nang uulitin yun ha, magagalit si papa." Then sometimes naman isang sabi lang ng asawa ko sa name ng anak namin with raised voice, mapapaiyak na s'ya at titigil na ng kusa. I have observed na mas powerful ang boses ng mga daddies hehe.

blim119

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Posts: 3
    • View Profile
Re: how to discipline a toddler (1-3yo) Bawal nang mamalo?
« Reply #348 on: January 12, 2014, 09:16:26 pm »

for me i dont need to shout instead i raised my voice and spank if necessary but sometime you need to introduce something to your kid like pamalo or something para lang tumino otherwise problema yan pag laki.
Logged

J0

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 487
  • Choose life! Contraceptives kill babies and women!
    • View Profile
    • Parenting, Education, Travel, Safety, Photography and Emergency/Disaster Preparedness
"penalty of arresto mayor" pag namalo ng bata (kahit walang injury)
« Reply #349 on: July 01, 2014, 03:03:49 pm »

This is just to share a comment I made in another discussion on this topic:

Hindi na pinagtatalunan pa kung mamamalo o hindi.  Tapos na ang mga debate tungkol dito.  Ang conclusion, hindi tamang mamalo. Bawal mamalo ng bata  Ang usapan na lang dito ay paano ka ikukulong kapag namalo ka ng bata.  Kahit walang physical injury, bawal, dahil may Psychological harm pa rin ito.  Mas mataas ang degree ng parusa kung below seven years old ang bata. 

Ilang years ko nang nilalabanan ito (since 2006)...medyo napapagod na rin ako at nauubos na ang pasensiya ko sa pagi-inform.  Sorry na lang...pag naka-tiyempo ako ng namamalo ng bata, diretso na tayo ng presinto. 

May anak ako na ni minsan hindi pinalo.  Lumaki siya ng maayos, magalang at mabuti sa kaniyang kapwa.  Hindi ako papayag na ang mga bata sa paligid niya ay mamanahin ang violence ng magulang nila.  Tapos sila ng anak ko ang magkakasama sa mundo in the future. Ngayon pa lang "paluin" na ang mga magulang.

Excerpts from The Anti-Corporal Punishment Law of 2007.
http://www.senate.gov.ph/lisdata/62415579!.pdf

“(e) “Corporal Punishment” refers to the infliction of physical or mental violence or blows upon a child as a form of punishment or chastisement including public humiliation, verbal abuse, and other forms of punishment that is considered abusive, degrading  and not consistent with the child’s human dignity considering his/her physical
and mental immaturity.”

Sec. 3 Prohibition on Corporal Punishment - There shall be incorporated under Section 10, Article VI on Other Acts or Abuse an additional sub-section (f) to read as follows: ‘‘

(f) Any parent or ascendant, teacher, or guardian who shall inflict corporal  punishment upon his/her child or a descendant under his/her care, student or ward, respectively, shall suffer:

...

(7) The penalty of arresto mayor in the medium to maximum period when the offender has caused physical injuries not  requiring medical attendance.

(8) The penalty of arresto mayor in the minimum to medium period if such corporal punishment  does not cause any physical or mental injury.

...

The penalties prescribed above shall be imposed on the maximum if the victim is below twelve years old, and one degree  higher if the victim is below seven years old.
« Last Edit: July 01, 2014, 04:45:03 pm by J0 »
Logged

carcap_19

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Posts: 7
    • View Profile
Re: how to discipline a toddler (1-3yo) Bawal nang mamalo?
« Reply #350 on: July 24, 2014, 04:22:14 pm »

it really takes a lot of patience, loving and caring for parents when dealing with our kids behavior. may time din na napalo ko na daughter ko for being matigas ulo but then my husband talked to me that time and we discussed things on how to better discipline our kid. we tried experimenting for as long as we try not to do it again, the spanking. with all our patience on her, we try to explain everything over and over sa kanya hanggang maintindihan na niya kung bakit mali yung isang bagay na ginagawa niya. Thank God, she grew up na mabait and maayos. =)

By the way, she currently enrolled at A-Plus International School here in Alabang, I would like to recommend this school also to those parents living in the south na looking for school for their kids. Maganda yung mga programs nila for the school and kids and sulit talaga sya.

http://www.aplus-is.com
Logged

ysanity

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Posts: 23
    • View Profile
    • My Personal Blog
How do you discipline your child?
« Reply #351 on: July 30, 2014, 12:55:13 am »

How do you discipline your child/children? Pinapalo mo ba sila? pinapagalitan? Do you listen to them? Sumisigaw kaba? Hinahayaan mo lang ba?

I attended an Orientation regarding disciplining our children. The speaker is from Save the Children.
 It talks about Positive Discipline.
The difference of punishment and discipline.
Corporal punishments and how to raise a good child.

Read On.

http://aquariusmom.blogspot.com/2014/07/how-do-you-discipline-your-child.html

Hope this helps and enlighten our minds :-)
Hope this helps. :-)
Logged

mariann

  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 859
  • enjoying motherhood to micah and iza
    • View Profile
Re: How do you discipline your child?
« Reply #352 on: August 21, 2014, 05:11:41 pm »

I spank, I implement time-out, I shout, I threaten... But after all that, I talk to my children. Ask them the reason they were scolded or disciplined and explain why it has to be done.


But of course, I don't just do that on minor errors or misbehaviors. They would usually obey or do their task upon my stare or clearing of throat.
Logged
mariann[move]

Acee Santos

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Posts: 1
    • View Profile
Early childhood Time-out
« Reply #353 on: August 18, 2016, 10:31:46 am »


hello momys/dadys!!!
im new here.working momy.
i have a son.just turned 1 last july28th.  ;D
i want to ask for ideas on how to discipline him.
im just starting to get paranoid, because im working, that means i don't get to take care of him anymore. so im thinking if i'll have a difficult time to discipline him the way i want to in the future.
i've read stuff about *time-outs* as being an effective way to discipline toddlers. any one of you who uses this method? thanks in advance!!  :D :D :D
Logged

Mommy Jazz

  • Administrator
  • Hero Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 3233
    • View Profile
    • Jazer Basan for Smart Parenting
Re: how to discipline a toddler (1-3yo) Bawal nang mamalo?
« Reply #354 on: October 03, 2017, 08:09:00 pm »

Discipline is not about punishment. Here are a few discipline strategies we can steal from the Dutch.
How the Dutch Raise Their Kids to Be the Happiest in the World
http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/parenting/preschooler/dutch-parents-discipline-their-kids-a00026-20171003
Logged
Pages: 1 ... 22 23 [24]