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4 Essential Pabaon for Your Kids That Are Not Food

These may help your little ones be more successful in school and later on in life.

Often when you hear baon, you think of sandwich ideas, fried rice twists and creative ulam recipes for your kids. But did you know that some of the most important baon you can give your kids are not food? These are values and life lessons that your kids need to navigate life—or simply pabaon.

Here are 4 of the most important pabaon you can give your kids:

Gratefulness

When your child knows how to be grateful for what he has, he will not grow up to be materialistic and greedy. In a research conducted by the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley, people who practice gratitude are more joyful, enthusiastic, interested and determined. Grateful kids are also kinder. They are more likely to do good things for other people, even strangers. Although kids can be taught to say "please" and "thank you," true gratefulness takes time to develop, so starting young can help you set your child up for a future where he truly understands the importance of appreciating what he has.

Honesty

At an early age, kids haven't developed a conscience yet, which can keep them from telling lies. Between ages 3 to 4, they start to understand truth from falsehood, and it's during this time that you have to help them understand the importance of honesty. Being truthful is not easy, especially when your child has done something that may upset you. Help him open up about how he truly feels by not scolding him when you sense that he is not telling the truth. Give him enough time to think about what he did and enough space to understand the consequences of his actions.

Empathy

Empathy is the ability to understand other people's feelings by putting yourself in their situation, and it is one of the defining features of being a human being. Teaching your child empathy is a crucial building block to building strong relationships that can benefit him later on in life.

Generosity 

Apart from empathy and honesty, generosity is by far one of the most important things you should teach your child every day. The ability to give without expecting anything in return will benefit your child when he grows up—it could be that one thing that could earn him his lifelong friends.

There are simple and fun ways to teach your kids generosity. You can take him along with you to do some volunteer work, or organize a campaign to gather goods that you can donate.

You can start small too. When you give him his baon for the day, add a couple of food items like an extra packet of MILO Ready-to-Drink or another sandwich that he can share with his classmates.

Although your child's well-being is largely dependent on his physical condition, it's also vital to keep his mental and emotional health in check. You already have partners like MILO Ready-to-drink to keep your child alert, and energetic, with one pack containing the right amount of essential vitamins necessary for your child's daily needs. The energy boost that your child will get from MILO Ready-to-Drink will allow him the physical independence to explore and discover his strengths and weaknesses, while the important pabaon of values you give your child everyday can give him emotional independence to make the right life choices.

Do you have more pabaon and bilin ideas? Share them here!

 

 

Sources:

http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/three_reasons_to_raise_grateful_kids

http://edition.cnn.com/2011/11/22/living/raise-a-grateful-child/index.html

http://www.pbs.org/parents/special/article-ten-ways-raise-grateful-kid.html

http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2016/02/11/secret-to-raising-honest-kids.html

http://www.beingtheparent.com/raising-an-honest-child/

http://theparentcue.org/raising-honest-kids/

http://www.babycenter.com/0_how-to-raise-an-honest-child_65709.bc

https://news.virginia.edu/content/human-brains-are-hardwired-empathy-friendship-study-shows

http://www.parents.com/kids/development/social/raise-a-compassionate-child/

http://kidhaven.com/2011/01/25/raising-an-empathetic-child/

http://www.stewardship.org.uk/blog/blog/post/112-the-5-generosity-principles-to-teach-your-kids

https://www.worldvision.org/faith-news-stories/top-5-ways-raise-generous-child-age

This article was created by Summit Storylabs in partnership with MILO Ready-to-Drink.