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‘Hindi Ako Nakikialam. Inaalam Ko,’ Carmina Villaroel On Twins’ Mavy And Cassie’s Love Lives

#CarminaVillaroel: ‘Nagpapasalamat ako na sa mga anak ko, very important sa kanila yung opinion namin.’
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“So I don’t know why they’re saying na pakialamera ako, I’m not bothered and I don’t care. Kasi, lagi ko ngang sinasabi, mga anak ko itong pinag-uusapan natin. Pamilya ko itong pinag-uusapan natin. So gamitin mo kahit anong gusto mong word. Basta ako, it’s because I care and love my family. I’m going to do everything and anything to protect my family.”

These are actress and mother Carmina Villaroel’s words during an interview with Ogie Diaz, where she answered questions about whether she meddles into her twins’, Mavy and Cassy’s lives. It can be remembered that Carmina was tagged as a “pakialamera” mom in the aftermath of one of her kids’ alleged breakup.

She explained her seemingly meddling ways as normal for parents who care for their kids, saying, “Tayo bilang mga magulang, of course, we care for our children. We love our children, so gina-guide natin sila. Gagabayan natin sila. Kung may mali silang ginagawa, itatama mo. Ngayon, kung may tama silang ginagawa, pupurihin mo at sasabihin mo, ‘Anak, ipagpatuloy mo yan.’ That’s not pakikialam. Gusto mong malaman kung anong nangyayari sa buhay nila because you care for them.”

Carmina also said that it’s a parent’s normal instinct to defend their kids, “Ikaw ba kapag may nanakit sa anak mo, dedma ka? Diba hindi? O ngayon, pag may nanakit sa anak mo, at dinefend mo, nakikialam ka na? Diba hindi rin? Kasi syempre, normal reaction [natin] yun. Lalong lalo na anak mo. Eh kung sa kaibigan mo nga lang eh, may umaway sa kaibigan mo, ay teka hindi pwede yan, idedefend mo diba? What more anak mo? What more asawa mo or pamilya mo?”

Carmina: “Walang sino mang pwedeng manakit sa iyo physically or emotionally. They have no right.”

When asked if she’s like other parents who believe that ‘hindi ko nga mapadapuan sa lamok iyan, tapos sasaktan lang ng kahit sino,’ Carmina admits that she cannot bear the thought of inflicting harm on her kids, even if its using a spanking rod that’s accepted in the Bible, “HIndi ko talaga sila kayang saktan or paluin. Eh what more yung ibang tao?

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Kasi ang sa akin, unang una, walang sino man ang pwedeng manakit sa iyo physically and emotionally. They have no right. So whether magulang ka o kaya girlfriend ka, boyfriend ka, saktan ka physically or emotionally, hindi tama. Kasi bakit napunta sa ganon.”

Carmina said that it’s a lesson she ensures that her kids know, “Tinuturo ko sa mga anak ko na hindi tama yon, once na may nanakit sa iyo physically or emotionally, or verbally-abused kayo, hindi pwede yan. That’s a no no. Kasi alam mo na agad na wala silang respeto sa iyo.”

“Hindi ako nakikialam. Inaalam ko.”

When asked about how she deals with her twins’ love lives, Carmina said, “Hindi ako nakikialam. Inaalam ko, because we’re very open. So we talk about anything and everything.

“Ganon ang relationship namin ever since. So whether crush, love life, trabaho, kahit na ano, pinag-uusapan namin. So wala silang tinatago sa akin. Sa amin. Kung meron man, I respect that kasi personal nilang buhay yan. Kung hindi man nila nasha-share sa amin lahat lahat, alam namin what’s going on. Alam namin yung current situation ng mga buhay nila.”

Furthermore, she highlights the importance of respect in their family, saying, “Nagpapasalamat ako na sa mga anak ko, very important sa kanila yung opinion namin. It matters to them. At nagpapasalamat ako doon, kasi nirerespeto nila yon. Kumbaga mataas respeto nila sa amin.

“So before they make a decision or before may ganito, sinasabi namin how we feel. So I really don’t want to use the word pakialamera or nakikialam kami. Hindi talaga eh. Ibig sabihin we’re just present, very present kami sa buhay ng mga anak ko.”

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