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Cindy Kurleto on Parenting: 'You Become the Ambassador of the World to Your Children'
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  • Aside from gracing different advertisements and working on movie and TV projects, Cindy Kurleto will never forget her role in the hit 2005 series, Encantadia.

    Her character in the show, the fairy Cassiopea, not only had a huge following, it also played a big role in her life as a first-time mom to her first first daughter, Noa. Cindy recalls to Pep.ph (Philippine Entertainment Portal), "You know, my daughter, who's now 9, she loves fairies. The first time I showed her the picture of Cassiopea with her wings flying, she almost cried, thinking her mom was a fairy!"

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    "I mean, the brownie points I got with my daughter because of that costume, because of that role, you can’t pay that. You can’t make that up."

    Cindy's Cassiopea role in Encantadia was that of a royal fairy who ruled as queen of the kingdom. Cassiopea was later turned into a seance asking for coins as punishment for breaking the Inang Brilyante.

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    Cindy Kurleto is now a mom of two kids

    Cindy, who left showbiz in 2007 to start her own family and is now based abroad, recently visited Manila for an endorsement.

    In an exclusive interview with Pep.ph, the 40-year-old actress-model describes herself as a hands-on mom to her two kids, Noa, 9, and Lima, 3. 

    "I’m responsible for everything. They wake up every morning, I make their breakfast. I bring them to school, I bring them to kindergarten, I pick them up from school after kindergarten. I prepare their food. I go shopping with them. I explain their homework to them.”

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    Cindy also understands that her attitude as a mother plays a part in shaping her children's outlook on life.

    "I especially explain to my older one why she looks different than everyone else, why she speaks a different language, why she has a different accent.

    "You become the ambassador of the world to your children, and the way you present the world to your children has a lot to do with what kind of outlook they’ll have for the rest of their life. I take that very seriously because it really is up to you what kind of world your children would see."

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    Cindy exclaims, "I find the role of a mother very empowering... I love it!"

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    For Cindy, her greatest reward is seeing her children smile. "The immediate pleasure I have from being a mother is when I see them smile, when I see them enjoy. I'm physically tired, but in my mind, I don’t get tired from mothering because I get the immediate nourishment back from their emotions. I don’t find it tiring at all.

    "It gives me so much more confidence in myself as a person and as a human being than any admiration in showbiz or in the limelight could have ever given me.”

    Teaching Filipino values to her children

    Cindy has never forgetten her Filipino roots and hopes to instill its values to her children. She related, "My [Filipino] mom came to Australia in the '60s. She was one of the first 30 nurses to come to Australia and she received the plaque of appreciation from the government for that.

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    "Australia didn't have nursing staff and so they made a contract with the Philippines to send nurses over, and they were put in nursing homes.

    "They were able to stay there for three years. In those three years, my mom met my dad, and they got me. I was born there and when I was four, my dad left us. I grew up as a [solo] child with a single parent. It was just my mom and me. While I was in Australia, I did enjoy what I believe as a typical Filipino upbringing because it was really just her.

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    "My mom was hard-working, disciplined, passionate, and she was a typical Filipino mom for me."

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    Now, Cindy is excited to bring her children to the Philippines in July. "I'm gonna travel [with] them here to show them! Noa has been here once, but she can’t remember. Lima was just born in 2016, so she has not been here, but I think bringing them here is coming full circle.

    "I'm super excited! I’m planning it in detail. I don’t want them to have a single negative experience.

    "I want them to arrive and have the best kind of experience they can get from Filipino living."

    Changing priorities and loving oneself first

    According to Cindy, changing her priorities brought out the best in her as a mother.

    She said, "Many women feel like giving up their career or turning away from their business and financial side of their life and turning towards the emotional, nurturing side of their life means giving something up.

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    "But in my opinion, that's not the case. I gained so much more by changing my priorities. I was able to live a healthier lifestyle.

    "My priorities now are very much focused on building good memories, making good moments, not gathering money and saving money but gathering memories and saving memories.

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    "With that shift in priority, I was able to not just do the best and healthiest choices for them, but also for myself.

    "One thing that mothers often forget is the more energy you put out looking after your offspring...Looking after your ailing mother, your ailing father, looking after your partner, you can’t do that all day long without looking after yourself first.

    "How are you supposed to love someone if you don’t love yourself first?"

    This story originally appeared on Pep.ph.

    *Minor edits have been made by the SmartParenting.com.ph editors.

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