People Will Always Have Something to Say About Raising Your Kids. Trust Yourself, Mom

Every day is a struggle, but you've got this. You are amazing.
by Kitty Elicay May 12, 2019

Every mother wants to be a good mom. But the journey isn’t always easy — there’s a constant struggle where you end up wondering whether you’re doing a good enough job. And the feeling only gets worse when you see other women going through the same thing but looking like they have it all under control. And when you you think you have it all figured out, someone comes along to say, no, you’re doing it wrong.

Motherhood can be tough because moms are their own worst critics. But as you dive into the realities of parenting, you realize that there is no one, correct way of raising a child. Every child, every family is different, and only you can say for sure what kind of parenting your child deserves.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “How to be a mom and a good one at that,” Smart Parenting is here to tell you we know you're doing the best you can.

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People will always have something to say about how you raise your kids, but you have to trust in yourself a little more. You've got this, momma.

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It makes you look at things from a different perspective


 

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It makes you appreciate your own mother more


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Because a mom will always be there for her child.


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Stop listening to what others say — just focus on doing your best.


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