Yaya Manners and Hygiene

Have you ever had the horrific experience of catching yaya drinking from a water pitcher or picking her nose or burping in public after a meal? Chances are the answer is yes. How does one handle such predicaments? Here are some suggestions.

To begin with, we must first make the distinction between “manners” and “hygiene”. The former refers to a set of generally accepted modes of conduct that are determined by a community or culture. The latter refers to cleanliness and has a direct repercussion on general health. However, both are of great importance in every household.

Before teaching yaya about “good manners and right conduct”, it is first crucial for you stress that she is a genuine “representative” of your household --- everything she does mirrors what other people may think of your entire family. Hence, in many cases, first impressions do matter and she should conduct herself to the best of her abilities.

Similarly, when teaching yaya about manners --- in as much as good manners should be applied in every situation, many times everything usually begins at the table and mealtime.

Here are some general tips:
1. Although considered polite in some cultures, burping out loud and in public is not considered polite.
2. Elbows should remain off the table at all times.
3. Use your napkin and not your sleeve when wiping your mouth.
4. Modulate your voice and do not be too loud when carrying on a conversation.
5. Use the utensils provided and not your hands.
6. Always use “please”, “thank you”, “excuse me” as well as the common Filipino term for respect – “po”.
7. Try to get only what you can finish especially when meal is served “buffet style” --- do not “pile up” your plate needlessly
8. Always be very sensitive to other people’s needs and preferences.
9. Learn to be observant so as not to offend anyone’s sensibilities.
10. Do not slurp your soup nor make sounds while eating.

 

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When it comes to hygiene, you must explain to yaya that general cleanliness is not just for her but for those around her. Explain how germs are transferred from one person to another as well as how epidemics develop and how they can all be contained. Always tell yaya that she has a responsibility to her colleagues and her employers to be as clean and as healthy as possible.

Here are some suggested reminders:
1. Always wash hands properly before any meal. Make sure they remain as clean as possible throughout the day.
2. On the onset of a cold or cough, take the initiative to wear a mask so as not to contaminate anyone.
3. When experiencing personal issues such as offensive Body Odor, constant dandruff , head lice or halitosis --- always encourage your staffer to approach you for guidance regarding the proper treatment. These are conditions that can be addressed and solved provided they are acted upon as soon as possible.
4. Daily bathing and shampooing is vital for maintaining optimal hygiene.
5. Make sure yaya’s nails both on her hands as well as her feet are always short and clean.
6. Do not contaminate food or drink by “double-dipping”, drinking out of a common jug or using serving utensils as regular utensils.

Although there are a myriad of rules on manners and general hygiene that can be discussed, the vital point in all this is the need to be sensitive and considerate towards others. Yaya must understand that her actions to do not occur in a vacuum and every action she performs has a direct impact on those around her.

Yaya being aware of general manners as well as hygiene is a positive attribute not just for you as a family but for yaya as well.


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