First-Time Parents’ Preschool FAQs: Teachers, First-Day Jitters

1. Is it okay to get in touch with my child’s teacher?

If there is something about your child’s behavior or attitude that concerns you, it is okay to consult with your child’s teacher. Not only will a teacher be able to provide you with an explanation for a particular behavior or a suggestion for dealing with it, he might find a connection between a school experience and behavior that is manifested at home. Teachers also make it a point to inform parents about their child’s development and share funny anecdotes and memorable moments in school. Remember that teachers are your partners in developing your child holistically in his formative years.

 

2. How will I know if my child is having trouble at school?

Your child’s teacher should tell you right away and in detail; it is her responsibility to observe attitudes and behaviors that manifest during school hours and inform you should there be cause for concern.

 

3. How can I ease first-day jitters?

First-day jitters are normal. However, you can help your future student become more familiar with his new environment by taking a tour of the school so it will not be overwhelming on the first day. Trial classes before the first day can also help your tot adjust to the new environment. First-time parents can also ask for advice from parents of older students of the preschool your child will attend.

 

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4. If my child cries on the first day, do I stay or go?

It depends on school policy. Some preschools allow parents or guardians to “sit in” during the first day so that the kids can be comforted by familiar faces around them.

Read more about Separation Anxiety here.

 

5. What if my child refuses to let me go?

Turn to the teacher for help. Teachers are used to children who have difficulty separating from their parents and know several ways to deal with such a tricky situation. You can always call later during the day to check if your child has settled in.

 

More on First-Time Parent’s Preschool FAQs:
Choosing a Preschool & Homework
What to Bring, What to Wear

 

SOURCES:

- Marie Therese Cavinta. Junior Kinder Teacher, Cambridge Child Development Centre,  Juan Luna St., Binondo, Manila, Tel. 241-6051

- A Parent’s Guide to Preschool by Diane Trister Dodge and Joanna Phinney, Teaching Strategies, Inc. (2002)

- My Child’s Academic Success: Helping Your Child Series—A Publication of the US

- Department of Education by Nancy Paulu

- Websites: ed.gov; illinoisearlylearning.org

 

Photography by Tootoots Leyesa