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  • When To Use Time-Out To Discipline Your Child

    The time-out child discipline technique is not supposed to be viewed as punishment or an indirect consequence to misbehavior. Find out what time-out is for.
    by Minnette Gamez-Aquino .
  • time outTime-out is probably the most famous and most misused child discipline technique of all. Conceived by child psychologists Montrose Wolfe and Arthur Statts, it involves the elimination of inadvertent positive reinforcement for unacceptable behavior. Experts agree that this must be used when children have lost self-control (e.g. whining, yelling, throwing tantrums, aggression).

    Many parents use time-out as a punishment or indirect consequence to misbehavior all the time. For time-out to work, however, it should be used as one tool in an arsenal of other discipline techniques for kids aged two (2) to eight (8). This technique can be very effective when used sparingly. Children who view time-out as a punishment may not use the time-out situation as the parent or caregiver intends, so you need to make sure you’re on the right track when enforcing time-outs.

    Some Guidelines In Using Time-Out
    •    The rule is “one minute for each year of your child’s age.”
    •    Use a timer. Restart the timer if your child leaves the time-out earlier than scheduled.
    •    Use other discipline techniques if time-out doesn’t work.
    •    Don’t use time-out as a threat (“Yell one more time and I’ll put you in a time-out!”), or punishment. Time-out is designed to be an immediate and brief cooling-off period, and it’s most effective when a child needs help changing a mood or disposition. Preschool teacher Lolita David says that during a time-out, the parent should ignore the child until both of them calm down. So don’t mind whatever your child says or does during timeout; don’t say even a word of reproach. Talking to your child during time-out defeats the whole exercise.



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