Madalas natin marinig ang mom guilt pero kahit ang mga tatay pala ay nararamdaman rin ito. ‘Yan ang kwento ni Jim Bacarro sa SmartParenting.com.ph.
Sa aming Smart Parenting Exclusive, sinabi ni Jim na mas naramdaman niya ang dad guilt nitong pandemic dahil hindi naging madali sa kanya ang pagbalanse ng kanyang trabaho at pag-aalaga sa kanyang mga anak. Madalas kasi ay nasa kabilang kwarto siya habang nag-lalaro naman si Pancho at Vito kasama ang kanyang asawa na si Saab Magalona.
Ayon kay Saab, “He was just punishing himself that he wasn't playing with them or taking care of them.”
Dagdag ni Jim, “I overcompensated by doing so much stuff and trying to fill in everything in every minute that the boys are napping. I completely forgot about myself.”
Umabot sa punto na kailangan nang paalalahanan ni Saab si Jim na huwag kalimutan ang kanyang sarili. “Saab even said this: Stop feeling guilty for caring about yourself. Don’t feel guilty if you want to not do anything.”
Panoorin ang interview namin kay Jim and Saab sa latest episode ng Smart Parenting Exclusive:
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