'How To Split Self Into 3? Or 4? Or 5?' Kryz Uy Reminds Moms To Make Time For Self-Care

Fashion content creator and mom of two Kryz Uy shares her dilemma about balancing motherhood and self-care. In one of her vlogs, she asked her followers, "How to split self into 3? Or 4? Or 5?" Relate?

Kryz is a hands-on mom to her two young boys. She loves spending time with them at home, may it be in the pool, dining area, or playroom. Some of the things they love doing are reading books together, cooking meals, playing with toys, and swimming.

She admits she finds it hard to divide herself as each child has different needs. "I keep talking about this, about how it's so hard now that I'm a mom of two, now that I'm a hands-on mom of two, to kind of split my time evenly between both boys. I find it super impossible because it's not like I can stick both kids together at once," she said in her vlog.

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Meanwhile, in another vlog, she told her viewers, "I'm gonna stay in the hotel and enjoy my peace of quiet. Moms can relate, and moms are always complaining about kids. But don't get me wrong. I love spending time with my kids, but moms can relate." She then spent the entire day away from kids working, getting her hair done, and preparing for her appointments.

"I'm gonna stay in the hotel and enjoy my peace of quiet. Moms can relate, and moms are always complaining about kids. But don't get me wrong. I love spending time with my kids, but moms can relate."

With the amount of me-time Kryz could have for herself, moms could only wish to have the same! In a Smart Parenting survey on what moms would really, really want to receive on Mother's Day, what topped the list was day-off!

Moms love alone time because it is their only time to recharge their energy and soul. It's when they get to be themselves and prioritize their sanity. For busy moms who feel guilty about spending time for self-care, here are some tips from Kryz.

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Self-care tips from mom of 2 Kryz Uy

1. Show up for yourself and dress up

When asked how Kryz spends her alone time, she said, "I rarely get alone time, self-care time these days, to be honest! But I do what I can to feel good about myself, despite being covered in drool and baby food all the time." She added, "For instance, even when I'm just at home with Scottie-boo, I make sure to dress up - even when no one else will see me."

Studies also show that how you dress up greatly affects your confidence! You owe yourself to look good each day, mama.

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2. Take a break from social media

Social media can be draining at times. It could be tiring with the fast-paced reels and videos we see every day, rants, and opinions of others. Kryz makes sure to take social media breaks, "I guarantee you will feel a lot better," She even suggests shifting activities - from spending time on social media to cooking or doing something you love.

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3. Get your body moving.

Kryz still makes time for exercise. It's proven that regular exercise boosts your mood and confidence, reduces stress, and increases energy levels.

Start small with a simple walking exercise if you need to get used to it. Until you build the habit, you can add more activities.

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4. Take care of your skin.

Having a sacred skincare routine helps relax you. By protecting your skin, you'll also look and feel young and confident simultaneously!

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Self-care must-haves recommended by Kryz Uy

Kryz also shared these self-care products she swears by, and where to buy them.

1. FINETOO Sexy Lingerie Underwear (Php 136.00)

She recommends buying new and comfortable underwear that is not going to break the bank. Kryz maintained, “Got these super-low plunge ones ‘cause I’m tired of the high neck nursing bras I was forced to wear (and since I can’t fit them when I order online, I gotta cheapo ones but they’re actually really nice!”

Buy it on Lazada here or on Shopee here.

2. Face Republic Purity Sun Essence SPF50+ 50mL (Php 494.00)

 

Sunscreen is also a must-have for Kryz and even her husband Slater Young. She recommends being always on the lookout for sunscreens that have no fragrance, is non-comedogenic (don’t clog pores), don’t feel sticky, and feel weightless on the skin.

She shared what they use, “Hub’s everyday sunscreen now cause hiyang na hiyang siya dito!” What's more, this Face Republic sun essence is a K-beauty product that is vegan-certified, cruelty-free, reef-safe, water-resistant, and sweat-proof!

Buy it on Lazada here or on Shopee here. 

3. Sunnies Face Sunsafe [Invisible SPF 50+ PA+++ Serum Gel Sunscreen] Php 595.00

“Love the gel consistency. It’s a pleasure to apply. This one dries a little dewier than the other one, so I find the need to power up a bit after this but still super lightweight and zero fragrance so it’s really safe," Kryz said.

Buy it on Lazada here or on Shopee here.

4. Love Bonito Dress (Php 2289.00)

Kryz loves dressing up even while staying at home. She usually wears something from the Love Bonito collection! Try wearing something fluttery that can make you feel feminine and chic even when your hands are full every day. Dressing up once in a while replicates your younger pre-motherhood self.

Buy it on Zalora here.

5. Lovito High Waist Sports Yoga Pants Compression Leggings for Women (Php 246.00)

If you’re a newbie to physical exercise, wearing something like Kryz's compression leggings might make you feel motivated to start moving. These pair of leggings are perfect for yoga, sports, relaxing, or casual wear. It’s made of a stretchy fabric for a gentle fit around the waist.

Buy it on Shopee here.

Remember, by prioritizing self-care, moms would feel more energized as they fill their cups as do the things they love doing. Moms are also teaching their children the importance of taking care of themselves. When Kryz spends her time and money on herself, she goes back to her kids feeling happier and more fulfilled. You deserve it too, mama!