Nothing screams women empowerment more than a wife buying pleasure toys for her husband -- and recommending it to other moms.
In the Smart Parenting Village, our Facebook community for moms and dads, an anonymous mom empathized with the moms who didn't receive anything from their husbands on Valentine's day. She said, she's been there and grown out of it.
"Legit nakakalungkot po talaga," the mom said. "Understanding and communication were the keys for us to be at peace with where we are right now. I usually employ the silent treatment pag walang natatanggap on special occasions and he used to ask me what's wrong. Di ako nagsasabi, partially due to pride and mostly because I believed na it should be common sense. Pero sabi nga nya, "di ako manghuhula; you should tell me what you want."
"Kaya ayun, after a few years, I've learned to unlearn my preconceived notions. I also got to know him better like di pala sya nagbibigay because he doesn't really have the budget (student/unemployed days) and nahihiya lang umamin."
She added, "Ngayon, bumabawi naman and ako na nagsasabing 'wag na magbigay kasi gastos lang, pero he's the one insisting para daw makita ng baby girl namin how a woman should be treated and our baby boy to learn how to treat a woman."
She then shared the funny gifts that she gave her husband. It's a white box with the words "You make me cum-plete," written in red, bold font.
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Inside, were three boxes: o-rings and condoms that her husband can wear during sexy time.
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In case you don't know, o-rings or cock rings are rings that are worn around the base of the penis or the testicles, as explained by Healthline. These accessories aid in making sex more pleasurable by making the erection bigger and last longer. O-rings are usually made of flexible silicone, rubber, and even leather or metal for the hardcore.
"Cock rings slow blood flow and prolong sensation, which can also result in more powerful orgasms," said Healthline.
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The anonymous mom continued, "Awa ng Diyos, our [sex] life is healthy kaya ayun - highly recommended ang Earthquake," she concluded.
She said she highly recommends the Earthquake o-ring to the moms, but warned that their husbands might feel discomfort saying that it's a bit tight when worn.
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'Gusto mo ba ma-experience ang Earthquake?'
In the comment section, you would think that the confession shook the moms and dads in the Smart Parenting Village. But no. They were all interested to know where to buy it and how to use it. One even said, "Hahaha! Same mamsh," and shared a photo of her gift to her husband with a condom and a note that read, "Wear this."
Another mom even tagged her husband and said, "Gusto mo bang ma-experience ang earthquake?" Oh, we've listed yugyog-friendly mattresses here.
One mom even boasted, "Perks ng ligated. Unli-[sex]!"
So yes, we are putting here the links where you can buy the exact items the anonymous mom shared because we know you'd rather buy them online than in the pharmacy, right?
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Premiere Earthquake O-Ring (1 pc) P249.00
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The store promises "discreet packaging." It also comes with a free ultra-thin condom.
Buy it on Lazada here or on Shopee here
Premiere Glow Condoms (3 pcs) P99.00
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If you are more on the sophisticated side, you may start with this neon-colored condom just to pump up the mood.
Buy it on Lazada here or on Shopee here or on Watson's here
Premiere Dotted Condoms (3 pcs) P208.00
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If you've been using condoms as contraceptives, you may elevate the experience by upgrading to these condoms with raised pleasure dots before you transition to using o-rings.
Buy it on Lazada here or on Shopee here.
As one mom puts it, "Yung gift na makikinabang din tayo." Go, moms!
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'Our Sex Life Is Healthy, Kaya Recommended Ang O-Rings,' Mom Shares What She Gave Her Husband For Better Sex
Nothing screams women empowerment more than a wife buying pleasure toys for her husband -- and recommending it to other moms.
In the Smart Parenting Village, our Facebook community for moms and dads, an anonymous mom empathized with the moms who didn't receive anything from their husbands on Valentine's day. She said, she's been there and grown out of it.
"Legit nakakalungkot po talaga," the mom said. "Understanding and communication were the keys for us to be at peace with where we are right now. I usually employ the silent treatment pag walang natatanggap on special occasions and he used to ask me what's wrong. Di ako nagsasabi, partially due to pride and mostly because I believed na it should be common sense. Pero sabi nga nya, "di ako manghuhula; you should tell me what you want." Kaya ayun, after a few years, I've learned to unlearn my preconceived notions. I also got to know him better like di pala sya nagbibigay because he doesn't really have the budget (student/unemployed days) and nahihiya lang umamin."
She added, "Ngayon, bumabawi naman and ako na nagsasabing 'wag na magbigay kasi gastos lang, pero he's the one insisting para daw makita ng baby girl namin how a woman should be treated and our baby boy to learn how to treat a woman."
She then shared the funny gifts that she gave her husband. It's a white box with the words "You make me cum-plete," written in red, bold font. Inside, were three boxes: o-rings and condoms that they can use during sexy time.
In case you don't know, o-rings or cock rings are rings that are worn around the base of the penis or the testicles, as explained by Healthline. These accessories aid in making sex more pleasurable by making the erection bigger and last longer. O-rings are usually made of flexible silicone, rubber, and even leather or metal for the hardcore.
"Cock rings slow blood flow and prolong sensation, which can also result in more powerful orgasms," said Healthline.
https://www.healthline.com/health/what-is-a-cock-ring-used-for
The anonymous mom continued, "Awa ng Diyos, our [sex] life is healthy kaya ayun - highly recommended ang Earthquake," she concluded.
She said she highly recommends the Earthquake o-ring to the moms, but warned that their husbands might feel discomfort saying that it's a bit tight when worn.
Where to buy sex toys
In the comment section, you would think that the confession shook the moms and dads in the Village. But no. They were all interested to know where to buy it and how to use it. One even said, "Hahaha! Same mamsh," and shared a photo of her gift to her husband with a condom and a note that read, "Wear this."
Another mom even tagged her husband and said, "Gusto mo bang ma-experience ang earthquake?"
One mom even boasted, "Perks ng ligated. Unli-[sex]!"
So yes, we are putting here the links where you can buy the exact items the anonymous mom shared because we know you'd rather buy them online than in the pharmacy, right?
Premiere Earthquake O-Ring (1 pc) P249.00
The store promises "discreet packaging."
Buy it on Lazada here https://www.lazada.com.ph/products/premiere-earthquake-o-ring-i1775917137-s7577267233.html
or on Shopee here https://shopee.ph/Premiere-Earthquake-O-ring-1-pc-i.65424377.1309192729
Premiere Glow Condoms (3 pcs) P99.00
If you are more on the sophisticated side, you may start with this neon-colored condom just to pump up the mood.
Buy it on Lazada here https://www.lazada.com.ph/products/premiere-condom-glow-discreet-packaging-i1775894813-s7577284317.html
or on Shopee here https://shopee.ph/Premiere-Condoms-Glow-by-3's-Pack-of-1-i.65424377.1635189027
or on Watson's here https://www.watsons.com.ph/glow-condoms-3s/p/BP_50020300
Premiere Dotted Condoms (3 pcs) P208.00
If you've been using condoms as contraceptives, you may elevate the experience by upgrading to these dotted condoms before you transition to using o-rings.
Buy it on Shopee here https://shopee.ph/Premiere-Condoms-Dotted-by-3's-pack-of-3-i.65424377.2535595701
As one mom puts it, "Yung gift na makikinabang din tayo." Go, moms!
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