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Taking on role of being a mom or a dad is no laughing matter. But, sometimes, it does not hurt to lighten up a bit and find humor in the realities of parenting. And there's no better way to do that than through memes, right?
In the latest episode of our series called Usapang Tatay, Smart Parenting's first-ever daddy editor-at-large Joey Ong reacts to parenting memes in the online world.
While all are hilariously relatable, Joey also can't help but give his honest review on the memes. Keep scrolling for a good laugh and some insightful comments from this modern -day dad.
Usapang Tatay Reviews Funny Parenting Memes
Nauuwi Sa 'Wrestling' Kapag Nagpapalit Ng Diaper
Aminin, moms and dads...You've been through this situation as well. Joey is no exception. In fact, he says this is the scene almost all the time when you have a toddler.
"That's so real! Actually hindi lang nga sa changing ng diaper 'yan eh ngayon, pati kunwari 'pag lumalabas, talagang gumugulong na eh," Joey says.
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The Different Roles At Home
This meme touches on the supposed role of each member of the family at home. But Joey turned a little serious when reacting to it. He says this is why his dad community DadBudPH and Smart Parenting exist—to work on challenging stereotypes that could hinder raising happy, healthy families.
Joey notes, "Hindi ko siya ma-accept. To be honest this is why we have dad community and Smart Parenting to help encourage parents not to be like this." (Watch related video here)
"If this is the way the majority of the society sees it. I think there's a chance for us to actually change it."
The verdict for this meme: " I do not agree with this. Dapat may pakialam ang mga dads sa roles sa bahay."
"Pero madalas si daddy rin 'yung taga-kalat," the modern dad quipped.
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Marriage Is A Walk In The Park...Jurassic Park
"Totoo 'Yan!" Joey quickly agrees. "Hindi po madali ang marriage."
"Parang Jurassic Park talaga akala mo sa labas, 'wow', it's entertainment and all that. But actually, there's a velociraptor running around, we call her 'Mom'...Just Kidding!" He's just kidding moms!
READ MORE JOEY ONG STORIES:
- Dad Explains Why Wife Shouldn't Throw Husband's Worn Undies
- Dad Shares Tips On How To Enjoy Weekend Without Wi-Fi
- Why My Son Only Gets Circumcised At Age
The Overthinking Wife
If you're a wife and have asked this question, Joey offers an answer on behalf of the husbands.
"Mga momshies, share ko lang sa inyo na masyado pong mataas ang expectation niyo kung iniisip niyong malalim iniisip ng mga lalaki."
He adds, "Sa totoo baka may nakalimutan lang 'yan na pinto or minsan hindi lang alam kung ano lulutuin mamayang gabi," or something about superheroes!
A friendly advice from Joey: "Minsan mababaw lang talaga iniiisip ng mga dads. So, 'wag natin i-overanalyze."
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Paano Mag-Paalam Na Lalabas Kay Misis?
So, how do you really ask permission from your wife and get a positive response?
"'Wag natin masamain, dahil minsan inaaway mo na nga 'yung misis tapos magpapaalam ka pa."
Joey says the trick is "be a good husband, dahil kapag mabait ka madaling magpaalam sa misis mo."
The Proper Response When Wife Says: "Do Whatever You Want"
Do the exact opposite when faced with this line from your partner, says Joey. You've been warned, hubbies!
See more parenting memes and Joey's reaction in the full video of this Usapang Tatay episode on Youtube:
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Joey Ong gives a snippet of his buhay probinsya with his family. Take a look at their modern bahay kubo here.