Fear can be a formidable foe that can leave us feeling stuck, paralyzed, and ready to give up. However, we can draw inspiration from Dimples Romana's experience hiking a mountain in the Andes with her 8-year-old son Alonzo.
Life is an uphill battle
In her Instagram account, Dimples shared her travel adventures in various spots in South America with her son Alonzo and husband Boyet Ahmee.
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But it was her posts during the Holy Week that will pinch one’s heart the most. In a series of videos and photos, Dimples documented her and Alonzo's journey up the Rainbow Mountain in the Andes.
A quick search on Google will tell you that climbing Rainbow Mountain, standing at 17,060 above sea level, is almost the same as climbing Mt. Everest's Base Camp, making it a challenge even for experienced hikers. So to have an 8-year-old reach its peak is impressive, to say the least. But the achievement obviously did not come without challenges.
“The hike up the mountain was tough, it was a mental challenge more than a physical one. We wanted to give up many times."
In one video, the celebrity mom and her son were shown in an emotional and exhausted state on top of Rainbow Mountain in the Andes.
"Sharing with you this precious video to show you how our kids can show courage despite adversity. (and how my dear Kuya #AlonzoRomeoJose still finds a way to have humor amidst a tough situation)," Dimples wrote.
The celebrity mom emphasized that during that day, they learned the value of not giving up and that “Courage is not the absence of fear, but the judgment that something is more important than fear.”
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Dimples got more in detail about the challenges they faced and how they overcame them during the hike in another video and she opted not to sugarcoat the experience, ¨Alonzo was scared. And so was I. Maybe even more than him. But even Jesus was scared. And he prayed and prayed and still went on with his journey. He carried on.
“The smile on Alonzo’s face after reaching the peak was priceless and I know just like me, Alonzo learned a vital lesson that cannot be learned over ordinary days and books."
"He carried the cross. He didn’t understand the lesson just yet- but He still went on obeying God’s plan anyway. And #AlonzoRomeoJose and I carried on just like He did...
“The hike up the mountain was tough, it was a mental challenge more than a physical one. We wanted to give up many times. But like Christ’s journey, there were people along the way who reminded us of humanity’s kindness and light. People who came from the top were offering help.”
But overcoming all those struggles was worth it after reaching the peak. Aside from soaking in the magnificent view from the top, they were gifted with a more priceless reward for displaying perseverance.
“The smile on Alonzo’s face after reaching the peak was priceless and I know just like me, Alonzo learned a vital lesson that cannot be learned over ordinary days and books. Only through experience will you learn that it’s OKAY TO DO THINGS AFRAID,” Dimples proudly shared.
The heartwarming video serves as a poignant reminder that as parents, we have the power to help our children overcome any challenge, but only if we put our unwavering trust in their strengths and abilities.
We all know that it can be difficult for parents to be a pillar of strength for their children when they too are not immune to fear. The unknown can be scary, and parents can be afraid of seeing their children fail or be hurt.
"Only through experience will you learn that it’s OKAY TO DO THINGS AFRAID."
However, Dimples' experience teaches us that fear doesn't have to hold us back. By putting her utmost trust in her son's capability rather than focusing on his weaknesses, Dimples turned fear into motivation. Her simple yet powerful message inspires other parents to have faith in their children and that it's okay to do things afraid.
As parents, we play a crucial role in shaping our children's lives. By trusting in their abilities and providing unwavering support, we can help them overcome any obstacle that comes their way.
For its 20th year special, Smart Parenting recognized Dimples Romana’s family as a model for courage. Read it here.