Andi Eigenmann Shares 3 Tips on Teaching Lilo to Self-Soothe and Sleep Longer at NightAndi Eigenmann reminds herself that teaching Lilo self-soothing techniques will benefit them both.by Rachel Perez .
Sleep, or lack thereof, is one of the many significant challenges in the first few months after childbirth. Newborns sleep and feed ’round-the-clock, but the new mama barely gets any shuteye usually.
“I kid you not, a parenting achievement such as being able to teach your child to fall asleep on her own and sleep for longer hours in the night feels as good as winning an acting award,” the mom of two wrote on Instagram.
“I feel as though a huge weight was taken off my shoulders. Pun intended,” Andi quipped. But not having to carry her daughter so much is just a bonus, said the holistic, island-living mama added. Learning self-soothing techniques benefits them both as well.ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW
Teaching your baby to self-soothe and sleep on her own leads to better sleep for you, too, mom!
Andi gave birth to Lilo on July 23, 2019. She has been candid about the thought that not having quality sleep may have been a factor in her not feeling herself lately, and her postpartum depression (PPD).
The mermaid-surfer mom and her family flew back to their island home in Siargao shortly after she gave birth, but are now back in Manila. Based on the articles she has read and some pieces of advice from fellow moms, Andi shares what helped her teach her daughter how to self-soothe and sleep longer at night or fall back asleep on her own.
Remember that teaching your baby to self-soothe is good for setting the foundation for a better quality of sleep not only for your little one but for you, mom, as well. “That’s what got me to not fall for her adorable-ness and pick her up each time,” Andi said. “Now I just fall for it sometimes, lol” she joked.CONTINUE READING BELOWRecommended Videos
Set a schedule for napping and feeding
As your newborn settles in her new world outside of your womb, she will start to develop her own eating and sleeping pattern. Tracking when your baby sleeps or naps can help you guide your child to be as consistent with her sleeping schedule as much as possible. But try not to be too strict about her schedule, as her sleep cycle will still change as she grows.(Click here for some napping dos and dont’s.)
Cluster feed and dream feed at night
Newborns should be breastfed on demand, every two to three hours, which is what Andi is doing. A baby who feeds every hour may be cluster feeding as she’s going through a growth spurt, and will need more milk to fuel it. You really just have to endure this stage, which can last until your baby is two to three months old. (Read more about how your baby’s breastfeeding schedule will look like in the first year here.)ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW
Since Lilo is starting to sleep longer, Andi has begun dream feeding her on her last feed of the night, “she won’t wake up in the middle being super hungry.” Pediatrician and author of The Happiest Baby on The Block Dr. Harvey Karp defines dream feeding as gently rousing your baby to wake and feed one more time before you sleep for the night. (Know more about how to do dream feeding here.)
Strictly follow the sleep, feed, and wake cycle.Andi cradles Lilo just enough to get her sleepy and puts her down drowsy but still awake. When Lilo fusses, Andi gives her a minute, and 80-percent of the time she stops before Andi goes to her.SCREENSHOT FROM @ANDIEIGENFGIRL/INSTAGRAM STORIES
In teaching Lilo to self-soothe without letting her cry it out, Andi follows the sleep, feed, and wake cycle, and not the other way around. “When [babies] make noises, take a pause before attending to them. Give them a chance to soothe themselves before doing it for them straight away,” the mom of two wrote.ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW
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She started with giving Lilo a minute to try and soothe herself, and now Andi gives her five minutes to do so unless she starts crying and turning red. “When I attend to her I just pat her repeatedly first instead of picking her up right away,” she shared. Andi lets Lilo have her pacifier, too, which is “super helpful” at this stage.
Andi also reminded her followers that every parent and every baby is different, and encouraged everyone to refrain from shaming moms about their choices and what works best for them and their baby.ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW
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